Originally posted by anotheranfan
true, whatever you said is true in a way.
But you know the chaturvedi family is burnt really bad in past. They dont want to hurt themselves again. Its easy for them to blame on other person and stay like they use to than to actually start trusting other lady. So given opportunity they are all willing to take toasty out of the house. I dont say it is right but its their haunted past that they are troubled with.
In a way everyone trusts toasty and that is why they are scared to believe her. Yeah scared. That is the reason they are being unreasonable.
and i understand when people have trust issues. i really do. betrayal and hurt isnt something one gets over with a good nites sleep. it takes time and active recovering .
BUT, they took on the relationship. they welcomed toasty into thier homes and hearts.
its a TWO way street and you dont get to put up "no entry" sign because of a road bump. they dont get to choose when shes thier daughter in law and when shes not. they dont get to throw accusations around and make her homeless within hours. they dont get to meddle with her married life.
gyaan is the only one who is aloof from all the troubles in the past and then his young innocent heart only understands the love that toasty showers on him and his family so he is the only one being able to trust her.
Others - they are making there way out there. They want to believe toasty but their past doesnt allow them to.
sterotyping is not a healthy way to go on about life. but i honestly dont believe thats whats going on. it seems to me they were just waiting for toasty to slip up to get rid of her in order to prove their point, to who? idk. maybe dadaje or tej or something. they only began to like her when she molded into a woman they wanted, always confined to the kitchen. and when they saw something they didnt like, it was pointing and accusing all over again until the final nail in the coffin came with malti.
Oh and by saying this I dont mean to say they are right. I just think i know where they are coming from thats it. Like you all i really would like to see how they act and go after toasty when they realise their mistake.
I think show has been dealing with it till now really well. I am enjoying this serial a lot. Hope cvs continue to give us these good well thought 3 dimensional characters
i too think they have very unique charactors each with thier own personalities that are not streotypical. its a great show and i hope they give toasty some crudness after thier betrayal. i dont want her to gravel for forgiveness or always pray at night that her knight in shining armor will come back to get her. i want her to live her life.
in simpler terms, i want them to show toasty as strong even without her man
Oh and I also think since its the very spot they are afraid of thats being touched the matters are worst. Only time can heal this.
Tej!! so sad to see him being clouded with all those doubts... He is broken right now and cant see through it but once he says he is going to regret it the most.