Posted: 17 May 2011 at 10:51am | IP Logged
I am back with my thoughts for today's episode. It is a weird feeling writing this post as I am putting my thoughts after a long time, I guess.
Anyways, without blabbering more let me get down straight to the business.
I liked the overall episode - again because of acting of all the characters and the pace of the episode. Each and every character is doing justice to their part and I am so glad to see such wonderful actors in this show.
The best part for me the sweet and normal talk between NiVren in the night that all couples do - discuss about their day and what else is happening with them outside home. I am thankful to CTs for showing us this conversation though it was too short and I have a problem with that. Why NiVren moments are so short? I need to ask them.
Nivi atleast came and sat with Viren asking him about the work and telling him that she got the point of not disturbing him. As soon as Viren noticed that she is sad because Dwita is not there, he tried his best to engage her mind and he was successful for few minutes and Nivi showed interest in his work and was happy that he is working for the bigger project - that is what a wife feels when she sees her hubby progressing in his career. I saw smile on Viren's face for the first time when NIvi asked him about the new project. That is what he wants - her undivided attention and care. Viren wants somebody to be there for him and that somebody is none other than Nivi. If Nivi gives him little bit of attention then he will be fine and his insecurities will never surface. It is because of his childhood experiences he is like this. They both need to work on this, alone Viren will not be able to overcome it. But as soon as Nivi goes back to talking about Dwita, Viren goes in his shell and looks at his screen where he has typed "A Presentation by Viren and NIvedita Sood"...Here goes the presentation.
Now let me not divurge and start from the beginning of the episode:-
Thank GOD we got the beginning from where they left yesterday - Viren going to VD room to see Nivi. Chalo, kuch to continuity ka dhayan rakha. He is so lost and sad seeing Nivi there and though she smiled but he was expecting more reaction from her. You know these expectations are the root cause of all disappointments. He was expecting that Nivi will be very happy to see him and will ask whether he had his tead, breakfast, he is ready or not etc etc... And no he did not get all this hence he was disappointed and sad. As I said before, he never hides his displeasure and VD noticed it very clearly. Being an experienced person she did what was right but it was our Nivi who did not want to leave Dwita...Arey, the baby is with her dadi and she has more right on her than you. Nivi you still do not have any experience on taking care of an infant whereas VD has. Take some help from the family. They are not Dwita's enemies and they can take her care better than you. Yes, I agree baby needs your care and love more than Viren but there is a limit to all. You cannot forget others because that now you have another responsibility. This is not how life goes on. You have to keep a balance between all. I am hopeful she will learn. Each and every experience makes you learn something new and Nivi has to go through this experience to handle her own kids well.
HL was very good today too - this actress is real good. The way she breaks down again while talking to NT dadi, I felt for her loss. Being a mother she would definitely like Dwita to have Divya's things and not Nivedita's. She is right in that sense. Yes, Divya is not there but her memory has to be kept alive by using her things. All the elders of both families have identified the problem and they started working towards the solution. So let us see if Nivi understands it or not. Nobody will force their decision on her and she will have to think logically and make the decision. The state of mind that she is in will not let her make the right choice and it has to be Viren to shake her out of it as he let her know that his work was not appreciated by clients and only then Nivi realized what the problem was and she worked towards it. So now also, until and unless Viren tells her that he has a problem she is not going to understand. She thinks Viren is happy and is supporting her. That is true but there is more to it. And once Viren tells her she will be able to achieve that balance in her life which she needs badly now.
I loved (yes loved) Chanchal today. She was just fab - from the evening scene till the next day scene. She unknowingly is going to bring Viren closer to Nivi. She thinks by instigating Viren she is separating them? No, she is rather doing the opposite and is infact making Viren determined to work on the problem and get Nivi out of this situation. Love you Chanchal... You have sowed the seed of having their baby...wow..good going. And you know that will happen when they both are closer.. so infact you are making them closer. As we all used to say before - CC is the lucky charm of our NiVren. And she proved that today. TUm jitna Viren ko Siddharth ka naam leke bologi woh utna hi Nivi ke kareeb aane ki koshish karega. And the result we saw - Precap. Maybe Nivi will say to Viren to go alone or will tell him that she will not stay there and come back..whatever, but we are bound to get some NiVren moments for sure. We saw the SBS segment and it was cute. We all know how ziddi Viren can be and if he has kept a bte, he will make sure to keep Nivi away from Dwita by taking her care. I would love to see this segment for more than 5 min with no interference from Sood members - just Viren, Nivi and Dwita... And then maybe Nivi agrees to go with Viren as VD will take care of Dwita..
Hoping for the best...