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May 17th, 2011 Written Update (Page 5)

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Posted: 17 May 2011 at 6:02pm | IP Logged
IF, thanks.  You made me blush. Embarrassed   What did I write that the others did not write already?  ShockedTongue
 
To me it seemed like a countdown calendar for the challenge.  It is mostly a reminder to us that this challenge is in soap opera time and not the count down (or is it up?) we are keeping. 

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Posted: 17 May 2011 at 6:19pm | IP Logged
@ Gardes, I was waiting today for your thoughts. I agree the scenes were handled with a lot of dignity today. RJ has not let go of her hurt and anger and that is very realistic. I cannot imagine if I saw my husband at a place like that dancing with another woman. I mean we can excuse Guddu because he later pushed her away, but seriously? That scene was gross.

On top of that Guddu called RJ a woman of no self-respect, a spy, a person who has never done anything useful, a sinner and other things. Because he was hurt, he threw the kitchen sink at her.

I mean again if  asked my husband why he was dancing with another woman in a dance bar and he turned on me and said I was a good for nothing spy, I can not imagine that I would have the same restraint that RJ showed that day.

Her hurt at what Guddu did and said are no small thing as evidenced when Kukkun brought up the night, she teared up. And I think that it is great that the CV's DID NOT ignore such a pain that was done to her.
I mentioned this before, but Guddu made absolutely no attempts to explain. Because he was so hurt himself, he could not see her pain. She on the other hand wanted to explain Abhi to Guddu. He just shut her down.

Okay that said, today was a realistic scene. Thank God she was no simpering fool by that man's bedside.  RJ has a fierce self-respect and it was in that nod  yesterday that she gave Madhavi that said "Jabbo is not worth you."

It was a lot for her to cater to Guddu's rants  and childishness. His lack of regard for her pain and  her anger is immense. He shows a lack of emotional maturity and still does not appreciate her perspective.

So actually I am glad that she wasn't smiling and sweet talking  to him. Just as he is hurt, she is hurt. Can you imagine if RJ had the accident and Guddu had to take care of her?  What attitude would we see then?

So I actually applaud the creatives for showing a woman with such a dignity. Guddu has to meet her half-way and that is how it should be.


Edited by jpalagrawal - 17 May 2011 at 6:20pm

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Posted: 17 May 2011 at 6:28pm | IP Logged
Thanks Wafah for the update. I enjoyed everyone's comments. Just an observation. Didn't Guddu burnt the clothes he wore in yesterday's episodeLOL.
Can someone explain this . Kukkan in advising Guddu said this:
 He says that is unfair and the Guddu he knows was never unfair, and wouldn't tolerated anyone being unfair to anyone else.
Did he forget what they did to Runjhun, harrassing her again and again, burning her wedding stuff and tarnished her reputation?????Silly

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Posted: 17 May 2011 at 6:35pm | IP Logged
Gardes,
  That was a nice summarization. Loved it.
  It might sound clichd but to tel. you the truth, don't know why,but  I too was looking forward to your comments today.

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Posted: 17 May 2011 at 6:48pm | IP Logged
JP, very good points.
 
Regardless of the viewers' backgrounds, we all pretty much agree on what this couple is feeling that we too would have the same reaction.
 
There was hurt before Friday that was never verbalized and when the veral communication happened, it was so much steeped in misunderstandings and so negatively charged that if the CVs showed sudden love sentiments on Runjhun or Guddu's part, I would have whacked them on the head, seriously.
 
If there was whimpering on Runjhun's part the CVs would have also butchered her character as we know it.  If Guddu, just based on his accident and physical vulneraility, had turned soft, I would have felt that the Cvs would have taken a wrong turn!
 
You and I are married and know that anger begets anger, so one or the other HAS to keep cool in charged situations for a rational outcome (does not always work, but we strive for it, at least Confused).
 
I thought both their characters were maintained so well in today's episode.
 
 

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Posted: 17 May 2011 at 6:56pm | IP Logged
Bee, JP, IF, I smell a conspiracy!  You guys PM'd each other to write this to see me blush!  EmbarrassedAngry
 
Just kidding.
 
Awww!  That was so sweet.  I did not know my posts were that dripping in wisdom or something that y'all wanted to know what I thought!  ShockedEmbarrassedTongue
 
 
LOLLOLLOL

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Posted: 17 May 2011 at 7:15pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by gardes

Bee, JP, IF, I smell a conspiracy!  You guys PM'd each other to write this to see me blush!  EmbarrassedAngry
 
Just kidding.

Awww!  That was so sweet.  I did not know my posts were that dripping in wisdom or something that y'all wanted to know what I thought!  ShockedEmbarrassedTongue
 
 
LOLLOLLOL
1st part toh teek samjha ..  but the 2nd part ... WISDOM?!!!! Dead



Ab neeche uttaro LOL


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Posted: 17 May 2011 at 7:21pm | IP Logged
Thank you Wafah for your update. As expected just perfect episode. Guddu Guddu, what can I say, he was just a kid today, this is what my two 2yr old son do at home :) Yesterday I was desperate to see today's episode & again I am desperate to see tomorrow's exposure.

Guddu & Runjhun Great Job !!


At Lunch, I had happened to hear a song today which made me to think about Guddu & Runjhun :) So I thought I would share it with you all.

Fell For You !!

I wouldn't say that I need you, but I do
I shouldn't say that I've fallen, but I fell for you

I didn't say what I wanted, but did you?
I couldn't say what I was feeling, but you knew
The words are hard to come by, but if you
would stay

And the things that I don't say
Are what's keeping you away, from me
And the things that stay unspoken
Are the things that make us broken

Are there things that you won't say to me
Unspoken words
Unspoken things
Are they the same things that I won't say to you
Unspoken hurts
Unspoken need

I need you
Do you need me?
Do you feel the same as I do
I can't imagine life without you

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