Originally posted by chakdephatte
Originally posted by .FunLuvingGirl.
Originally posted by chocolover89
So I actually saw the episode and the limelight. The limelight gives more of a perspective from Jai's POV which makes things a little less biased.
First thing: Jai was wrong. After the performance, he should not have spoken to
Shiamak like that--that was very wrong on his part. Sadly Jai has major
communication problems..like Geeta said for Siddesh, jab bolte ho to khata bolte ho and people misunderstand. Jai has the same issue basically. Like he said in the limelight--I don't have attitude or arrogance, I just don't know how to talk. I sincerely hope Jai will work on this unappealing quality of his because he has the talent without a doubt. It's a dog eat dog world out there and the ability to communicate well and politely takes you very far. He has never been reprimanded this badly before so something tells me he will work at this.
It takes a lot of guts to apologize after making a huge mistake. He clearly felt very bad because he had let down himself, the judges, his team, and the audience.
But at the same time, I really don't think he was the only person wrong today--yea he was the most wrong probably but not the only one.
Geeta should have been a little more compassionate about the song problem. I can say 100% without a doubt if it was Siddesh or anybody from her gang instead of Jai, she would have been nicer about the song problem. Didn't she tell Max and Manik in Doubles to stop dancing and tell them immediately that the song was wrong ? Shiamak and Remo handled it better and also, I think really made Jai feel wrong--more than Geeta managed to.
Amrita and Kruti need to control as well. They looked ready to attack someone.
Siddhesh...right first time and don't know what he was talking about the second time at all.
Btw, now that I finally saw it, I don't think Atul was traumatized or anything. He simply felt bad for his dance teacher who was crying on stage and getting yelled at.
I also really liked how Amar and Parvez and Manish consoled Jai and made the atmosphere better.
All said and done..it's over. It shouldn't have happened. In Parvez's and Remo's words, forget about it and move on.
1. Yeah I really feel baad for Shamak Davar. He became the victim for all his frustations (Jai's)
The only thing I'm angry on him. And yeah he does not know what to say when ? at what place? he was really feeling bad that time.
2. Geeta was very mean at that time. She don't even tried to understand Jai's problem and said he would not get second chance. If it would have been Siddhesh she would definately gave him a chance. she did partiality with manek and Max.
3. I didn't xpect this from Kruti atleast. She started jumping. That was not her frustration?? that was really really bad. I know Amrita is like gundi ladki
she says like dat.
4. Atul was crying coz Jai was blamed so badly..it was like whole blame on him.
Thanks for sharing your views buddy.
It felt really to bad see fights on DID/Dance Ke Superstars...all the ease and love was like gone...at first, I thought it's good that Geeta was scolding him...but soon she just went over the top and didnt even try to comprehend Jai's situation.
I'm not a big fan Geeta-MAA-fan, so I guess whatever I say about her will be biased. But I feel she was no less
when she said "I cant give you marks now, Jai." She asks for sportsmanship and is acting like a child herself?!! And btw, I think Shiamak Sir is big enough to fight for himself, he doesnt need any interference.
Everybody is either blaming Jai, Geeta or maybe even Amar, but thetechnicians are those to be blamed!
Simple thing, if a wrong track is played, I dont see any harm in playing the right track and repeating the dance, after all it isnt the dancers fault and its his right to dance on the right music.
..sportsmanship or not, these are all things one CAN be...but it isnt compulsory as a human being to be sportsmanlike.
I totally agree Jai shouldnt have said "I quit the show"
and I guess he does have an attitude problem or maybe rather a lack of social skills. It WAS disrespectful and rude behavior...and anger was the reason. But at the end of the day we're all humans and not perfect at all. And when someone is apologizing from the heart then you should accept the apology imo (so thta the show can go ON!).
Now coming to Amar: I saw Limelight, too, and Amar was interfering in Jai's dance but under normal circumstances
one should still proceed with the dance. I guess there was some bitterness in Amar from the last time when he had been criticized by Jai about his or Vandana's wrong choice of shoes (unnecessary remark by Jai...thats the judge's job to say not Jais.)BTW, if what Prince said about Alisha and Parvez' performance in DkS Limelight is true, then I'm really disappointed by him. (He said that the same track problem had happened during their Dance Ki takkar, too, and Alisha had had that problem right from the beginning and he didnt say anything, but when it was his turn and the track was again wrong,
he stopped the music. < Sportsmanship?
I agree with you to some extent. But not the one with Jai having attitude problem..he has a problem to say nything at the wrong time..so he just got carried away..well that is totally my view point.
nyways thanks for sharing your views.