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Posted: 14 May 2011 at 2:29pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by desigirl123

I agree that the limelight showed a whole different view of the fight that happened in todays show. When I first just watched the show, i could not believe the way jai was acting but the limelight shed some light on it which made me empathize with jai. but i still do not think that jai should have talked to shaimak the way he did. that was the thing i still found disrespectful and uncalled for regardless of how frustrated he was. i hope that was what his apology was for...
Yeah I know...Coz of dat Part...m really angry on him ..shamak is really a sweet and great person..so he should have nt said dat...so m not saying it was not his fault at all but not all fault is his..these situations have also contributed in it..

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Posted: 14 May 2011 at 2:45pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by .FunLuvingGirl.

May be he has hurt the judges. But Geeta maa was not less, the way she was saying
that he has no rite to stop the music. But the whole music was unedited one..he has continued in the first and second part even though the edited parts were not there but at the mid part he went completely blank and the music part was absolutely different.
Geeta was totally unfair at first...She could have said okay please continue then this all drama
would have been not carried off..m really pissed off with her..I know Jai has disrepected the judges but it was all his frustation...nyhow Geeta maa have herself disrepected mithun da a lot of times take the case  when her all contestants were out and only Siddhesh was left she was saying "Good good very good" that was really bad... Mithunda literally felt really bad..
I feel really bad for Shaimak davar Sir ..he became the victim in all...coz of Geeta and both Amar and the song problem Jai was really frustated..m really angry on Amar and DID2 contestants specially on Amrita and Kruta ( they are good dancers..but the way they behaved today was really bad).

Amar should not have interfered in between Jai's section of dance..it was not at all fair..

I wish Jai had not said all that then DID 1 would had definitely got the round.
But it was all Jai's frustrarion which ruined it and DID 2 got the advantage.Ouch
But still I think it was not all Jai's fault. Ouch

VIdeo at Page 2. watch it and thn say.
 
 
Well I am frustrated, so I guess it will be ok with you If I start abusing you here.

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Posted: 14 May 2011 at 5:40pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Cool_Ishu

Originally posted by .FunLuvingGirl.

May be he has hurt the judges. But Geeta maa was not less, the way she was saying
that he has no rite to stop the music. But the whole music was unedited one..he has continued in the first and second part even though the edited parts were not there but at the mid part he went completely blank and the music part was absolutely different.
Geeta was totally unfair at first...She could have said okay please continue then this all drama
would have been not carried off..m really pissed off with her..I know Jai has disrepected the judges but it was all his frustation...nyhow Geeta maa have herself disrepected mithun da a lot of times take the case  when her all contestants were out and only Siddhesh was left she was saying "Good good very good" that was really bad... Mithunda literally felt really bad..
I feel really bad for Shaimak davar Sir ..he became the victim in all...coz of Geeta and both Amar and the song problem Jai was really frustated..m really angry on Amar and DID2 contestants specially on Amrita and Kruta ( they are good dancers..but the way they behaved today was really bad).

Amar should not have interfered in between Jai's section of dance..it was not at all fair..

I wish Jai had not said all that then DID 1 would had definitely got the round.
But it was all Jai's frustrarion which ruined it and DID 2 got the advantage.Ouch
But still I think it was not all Jai's fault. Ouch

VIdeo at Page 2. watch it and thn say.
 
 
Well I am frustrated, so I guess it will be ok with you If I start abusing you here.
 
 LOLYeah let's all start bashing and accusing others of being frauds and cheats when we get frustrated...LOL Amazing what lengths some people go through to justify something that is not justifiable...Confused Jai bashed his own guru by calling him a fraud and a cheat by accusing him of purposely giving him low marks to make him lose...Jai did this in front of little kids, and now his fans are trying to paint him as the victim...Confused that's right because you see everytime someone gets frustrated they have the right to bash anyone they want even their teachers and elders...It's important that Jai clears his feelings you see, who cares about those he bashed? who cares about Atul, Vaishu, and Rutu who had to witness such a classless behavior? Confused Jee I really hope Jai is okay, I mean after all I sure hope he got all the anger out, if not there is still next week when he can once again go off on someone else or the same people again...because after all Jai has the birth-right to bash anyone and everyone that he wants whenever he wants...Confused

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Posted: 14 May 2011 at 5:46pm | IP Logged
Yeah. Honestly, I felt really bad for Jai after watching the limelight episode. The limelight episode actually cleared up alot of different sides to this issue. Jai was really regretting what he said/did. I especially felt bad that as always, everyone had misinterpreted his intentions and emotions. Poor guy was feeling pretty terrible about letting his team down, and hurting the sentiments of the judges as well. I found his emotions both on stage and off stage really genuine. 

This one quote especially by Jai made me feel for him, "I don't have attitude or arrogance. I just don't know what to say or how to communicate. And I really respect all the judges" 

And that's actually, exactly how I've always understood Jai's personality too. I have never seen arrogance or attitude from this guy, ever! And I have been following him since Boogie Woogie. People who think he has attitude/arrogance or whatever need to watch his whole journey in DID 1. This guy has been criticized SO many times for various things. Despite giving the best solo performances, he continued to be placed at the bottom two position week after week. And yet, he continued to increase his own level of performance. He kept taking risks, while most other contestants on the show continued to play it safe. He experimented and performed various styles of dance right until the end of the competition. 

Now arrogance would be ignoring the criticism coming your way. Jai has always taken any sort of criticism SO well. He has always worked hard to improve himself in every department! I just think it is HIGHLY unfair to call him arrogant of having attitude of any sort. 

I thought there were many others on the show today who were also at fault. I think the judges, especially Geeta could've shown more compassion in this situation. Anyways, don't even get me started on how much Geeta irritates me. She actually fits the example of "arrogance" more in my opinion. Ermm Anyways, my point is, there were alot of people that didn't help the situation today I think. It was just an unfortunate situation overall. 

But I do think it takes more guts to admit that you screwed up and apologize for it than anything else. And I have respect for Jai for doing that. I have always found Jai very inspiring actually. This guy works SO hard. He puts in a lot of thought and work into his performances. He not only puts in the work for his dancing, but also his music pieces. I know for a fact that he mixes his music pieces himself as well. And then to miss out on showing all that hard work on stage must be pretty disheartening. 

I think his guy is just too genuine for people's tastes. He is too transparent also. He says whatever is in his heart without giving it a second thought. And no doubt gets in trouble for it later. And his mistakes only make him human I think. I definitely don't think that Jai is some kind of a villain or bad influence like certain people around here are making him out to be. 

I am not justifying Jai's behaviour here. I am just trying to see his side of the story also. This incident in no way changes my respect for Jai that I've always had. 


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Posted: 14 May 2011 at 6:19pm | IP Logged
Ok so it was not completely Jai's fault but that doesnt mean he talks like the way he did. Ok so he was frustrated, doesnt mean he loses his cool. After all this, he should apologize and he did that.
Geeta is annoying, no doubt in that. I think she did over react.
So whatever happened shouldn't have happened but it did...and now, lets get over this incidentEmbarrassed


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Posted: 14 May 2011 at 6:43pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by crystalline23

Ok so it was not completely Jai's fault but that doesnt mean he talks like the way he did. Ok so he was frustrated, doesnt mean he loses his cool. After all this, he should apologize and he did that.
Geeta is annoying, no doubt in that. I think she did over react.
So whatever happened shouldn't have happened but it did...and now, lets get over this incidentEmbarrassed

LOL yep. That pretty much sums up everything. LOL 

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Posted: 14 May 2011 at 7:30pm | IP Logged
Yeah Jai should get a medal for bashing his elders. In fact everyone should learn from Jai and blame their mistakes on others. Clap Great going Jai. Tongue

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Posted: 14 May 2011 at 7:57pm | IP Logged
So I actually saw the episode and the limelight. The limelight gives more of a perspective from Jai's POV which makes things a little less biased.

First thing: Jai was wrong. After the performance, he should not have spoken to Shiamak like that--that was very wrong on his part. Sadly Jai has major communication problems..like Geeta said for Siddesh, jab bolte ho to khata bolte ho and people misunderstand. Jai has the same issue basically. Like he said in the limelight--I don't have attitude or arrogance, I just don't know how to talk. I sincerely hope Jai will work on this unappealing quality of his because he has the talent without a doubt. It's a dog eat dog world out there and the ability to communicate well and politely takes you very far. He has never been reprimanded this badly before so something tells me he will work at this.

It takes a lot of guts to apologize after making a huge mistake. He clearly felt very bad because he had let down himself, the judges, his team, and the audience.

But at the same time, I really don't think he was the only person wrong today--yea he was the most wrong probably but not the only one.

Geeta should have been a little more compassionate about the song problem. I can say 100% without a doubt if it was Siddesh or anybody from her gang instead of Jai, she would have been nicer about the song problem. Didn't she tell Max and Manik in Doubles to stop dancing and tell them immediately that the song was wrong ?  Shiamak and Remo handled it better and also, I think really made Jai feel wrong--more than Geeta managed to.

Amrita and Kruti need to control as well. They looked ready to attack someone.

Siddhesh...right first time and don't know what he was talking about the second time at all.

Btw, now that I finally saw it, I don't think Atul was traumatized or anything. He simply felt bad for his dance teacher who was crying on stage and getting yelled at.

I also really liked how Amar and Parvez and Manish consoled Jai and made the atmosphere better.
All said and done..it's over. It shouldn't have happened. In Parvez's and Remo's words, forget about it and move on.


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