Originally posted by sldeeps
i have already posted my opinion on this issue in another thread but still feel like sharing my POV here as well
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from
my POV "papa" dialogue is offending to some of us because we as fans
want MAANEET to take their relationship to next level so we are feeling
that MAAN asked GEET about consummation indirectly but as per the story
that is not the case MAAN really want to become "papa" he doesn't mean
con i can say this because along with GEET , MAAN also connected himself
emotionally to the baby though he is not baby's biological father. He
is equally suffering the loss of their baby as that of GEET since he is a
man the way of expressing grief is not shown to the world but he too
suffered a lot.
Now he wants to make GEET happy he has mentally
prepared himself to become a father very much earlier and now he wishes
to express his decision to his wife so he chose this way.He is
absolutely correct in using "papa" dialogue. But we as audience forgot
all the pain they have undergone and feel that y is he using indirect
ways to express his desire of consummating his wife. If MAAN really want
to do this he doesn't need any sort of permission form GEET he very
well knows that GEET could never deny him we have already seen this in
RTM sequence.
this is what i understood when i tried to keep
myself in MAAN's place (even though i am a girl i tried to place myself
in his place and tried to analyze y he used those words)
@ Red,
I agree !
I respect your view but what i thought is that he was asking about taking their relationship to next level ! He already said it that he wanted to start from point one with geet !
And, when he said this to geet, i do not think so, he really mean it ! There was no wish of becoming father ! He said it coz he wanted her to understand that, he is emotionally involved in the relationship and wants to start it all over again ! And, it is an indirect way to ask for physical closeness but i know, maan was much ahead then we are ! He did say those words to respect her and to present it in decent manner !
And, yes he was always ready for becoming father, before hubby, he became father ! So, there is no doubt about his wish ! But, i think they were just talking about taking their relation to next level ! Indeed, there was no baby planning at all !