Posted: 14 May 2011 at 3:42am | IP Logged
thanks for liking what I wrote... I understand you guys have faced a lot of opposition and a few headstrong girls who seem to want you to accept their opinion...
the fact is most of us opposed when they actually showed geet's interaction with dev... not a lot of us supported geet for interacting and socialising with dev after forgiving him... but even Maan was wrong in saying what he did to geet without knowing why she forgave...there is way to express yourself and whatever Maan uttered came out as demeaning to Geet's self-respect... I had read a post that talked bout why geet reacted to maan's comment so badly...
the point that that post made was about geet being low on self confidence..due to her loss... she was in a state where she wanted to start a new life with maan but when she heard maan's words she felt like was it really what maan thought of her all along but just pretended to respect her just coz he loved her...she left the house coz she cudnt go back to hating dev since dev didnt hold any importance in her life, but the man she loved didnt respect her so her living with him was also not possible and there was nothing else to stop her in the house... she had long stopped hating dev when she heard what dev said in shimla to maan about him repenting...she doesnt hold either a soft corner or any hatred for that man... socializing with him was wrong... but she had already said in their last fight that "aapka gussa aapki nafrat aapke liye sab kuch hai geet ka pyaar kuch nahi" and he had just reiterated her point that even though his hatred stemmed out his love for her but then maligning her character when she did all that for her love for him was also wrong... geet was angry with maan for so long coz his anger was always going to spoil their smoothsailing life and bring a storm when it was not really needed... Maan should have chosen his words better
coz what came out of his mouth not only projected geet in bad light but showed that maan got blinded by hatred to use such crass words for a woman who was ready to even risk her life for what she thought was right...
n the laddoo scene today... well she cudnt have actuallu fed a driver infront of everyone and not fed her supposed hubby... dev is only helping geet and maan... so if u can feed a servant then the guy was nobody to her just like lachchii...treat it like that n I feel she did nothing wrong... else she n maan would have gotten into trouble... n then the family would have misunderstood maan more for asking his brother to pose as MSK
Maan part - Agreed ! But, i will refrain myself from discussing about that anymore ! There are so many sensible people here, and i do not fit in that category !
And, first red part :
Lot of...??? It's an understatement babes ! And you know one fact ? When you are opposed so much and discouraged so much then automatically you start taking it for granted and does not care ! It's human tendency ! Same happened with me, i was targeted badly for supporting maan and now, i do not care ! I become this way, after all this !
I almost left this GF and ditched my readers, for the first time i'm disclosing my real reason why i'm here, frankly and honestly !
1. I love Maan more than such discouraging members.
2. On top of all, I got wonderful friends here, some of them left and i'm so pissed off at GF, coz this stupid wars, my sensitive and emotional frnz left it and i lost them ! And, I can never ditch my readers ! Loyalty is something, for my hatred i can't disappoint them !
I don't know why i said this here ! It's just that i was in flow and i just wanted to blurt out ! And, do you know one most important thing ? I actually liked geet very much but as i read more and more defensive points for her, i started disconnecting with her and now, i can't relate to her at all ! Thanks to those lovers only !
Edited by maanddy - 14 May 2011 at 3:50am