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NiVren - coping with demands of being new parents (Page 4)

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 12:12pm | IP Logged
Anju love ur points and agree they FF the track where they could show the understanding and maturity increasing in their relation. But the main problem is they don't show Viren's insecurities to small level they take it to different level. Either he is too loving or is too frustrated. They never sit back and discuss their concerns like normal person either keep on hiding or brust like volcano. There is middle stage also which is forgotten by CT's

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 12:16pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Cutie-NivRen

Anju love ur points and agree they FF the track where they could show the understanding and maturity increasing in their relation. But the main problem is they don't show Viren's insecurities to small level they take it to different level. Either he is too loving or is too frustrated. They never sit back and discuss their concerns like normal person either keep on hiding or brust like volcano. There is middle stage also which is forgotten by CT's


Rachu, I agree that's how they've been in the past. But after the recent phase of what they've been through I am hopeful that the new tensions will be handled differently.  I hope the CT's show us this evolution.

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 12:25pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by minu2011

Originally posted by Cutie-NivRen

Anju love ur points and agree they FF the track where they could show the understanding and maturity increasing in their relation. But the main problem is they don't show Viren's insecurities to small level they take it to different level. Either he is too loving or is too frustrated. They never sit back and discuss their concerns like normal person either keep on hiding or brust like volcano. There is middle stage also which is forgotten by CT's


Rachu, I agree that's how they've been in the past. But after the recent phase of what they've been through I am hopeful that the new tensions will be handled differently.  I hope the CT's show us this evolution.
Yep Minu after reading Anju's post and seeing this week episodes I loved the way they are potraying NivRen and their dependence on each other. I will love if they show this dependencies on each other. If they actually handle this track as Anju is explaining I won't mind infact love it because I also want to see cute competion of Viren and dweeta to get attention and Nivi complaining oH god how to look after 2 kids at a time Viren and dweeta. But not to the extent of Viren taking some drastic steps and then repenting.  For drastic steps HL, CC are there let them do that job.

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 12:28pm | IP Logged
anju di wonderful post like always
the bond between NivRen is getting stronger day by day...
can't wait to see how they handle the baby together...

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 1:41pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by anjubala


I had a smile seeing the condition of their room and closet in the precap. This is what happens when a baby arrives. But this condition will only make their marriage more strong as when their own baby comes, they both will be ready and well prepared. I am glad CTs are showing the real-life situation in this show but they need to also show that Viren does not come in the talks of his mom. As MIL's (CC kind of) try to take advantage of such delicate situation. I hope Nivi takes help from VD and YD to raise the baby and not take the full responsibility on herelf.
 
Hope I did not bore you.

I thought of the same thing. I'm a new parent and my bedroom, closet, whole darn house as well as social life is a mess Big smile (love every minute of it tho)
I really hope Viren remains understanding aur CC ki batoun mein na aa jaye because I'm sure she will take full advantage of the situation to cause problems between Nivren. 
As for parenting someone told me when I was pregnant that 'women become mothers when they are pregnant and men become fathers when the baby is born'... I'm sure some may take longer than that but the bottom line is it's going to be a huge adjustment for Viren to turn daddy mode on.

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 2:30pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sarahagstn

Originally posted by anjubala


I had a smile seeing the condition of their room and closet in the precap. This is what happens when a baby arrives. But this condition will only make their marriage more strong as when their own baby comes, they both will be ready and well prepared. I am glad CTs are showing the real-life situation in this show but they need to also show that Viren does not come in the talks of his mom. As MIL's (CC kind of) try to take advantage of such delicate situation. I hope Nivi takes help from VD and YD to raise the baby and not take the full responsibility on herelf.
 
Hope I did not bore you.

I thought of the same thing. I'm a new parent and my bedroom, closet, whole darn house as well as social life is a mess Big smile (love every minute of it tho)
I really hope Viren remains understanding aur CC ki batoun mein na aa jaye because I'm sure she will take full advantage of the situation to cause problems between Nivren. 
As for parenting someone told me when I was pregnant that 'women become mothers when they are pregnant and men become fathers when the baby is born'... I'm sure some may take longer than that but the bottom line is it's going to be a huge adjustment for Viren to turn daddy mode on.
 
Congratulations to you.
You know Viren is not the daddy and he need not turn on the daddy mode but he has to be little patient and understanding. Siddharth is the father of the baby so there can be no comparison between the 2. That is why I said Nivi needs to take help of the family to raise the baby and not do it alone as it is not hers.

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 2:55pm | IP Logged
Anju, u have said it all. I love the way you write, very beautiful. Always positive, optimistic. It clearly shows how calm & positive thinker you are. It gives immense pleasure to read your posts.

I so agree with u completely. ya, we have seen new level of trust, love, understanding in nivren today. Would love see more of nivren & Dwita. hope the Cts will maintain nivren relationship intact ...
I will chant ur mantra Umeed pe duniya kayam hai :)
Thanks Anju for giving the positive energy to all of us.  

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Posted: 13 May 2011 at 3:30pm | IP Logged
i love ur posts anju ...u explain and analyse everything wonderfully...u spread optimism here awesome yaar...totally agree with ur post...btw i am sandy

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