Originally posted by: anjubala
Minu, this is what I wrote in another post:-
"Excellent post Samin (sorry don't know your real name). I was going to open something similar but now I will not as you have said what I wanted to.Today I have seen posts where Viren and his insecurities are being questioned and his character is being questioned whether he knows Nivi or not. I will say Viren is the only one who completely understands Nivi.Yesterday I myself said that I will be very sad if Viren does not say that stay back for me because I will not be able to live without you. But today when with relaxed mind and hear tI was thinking about the scene, I realized that Viren will not say that because he knows his Nivi more than she knows herself. He knows for Nivi love will always take a back-seat and responsibilities, sacrifice will come before it. Hence he took that route to make her realize that by giving life nothing is going to happen. Sometimes to make a person come out of trance and guilt mode, harsh words and jor ka jhatka are needed and that is what Viren did today. She was able to stop from taking her life was reminding her about her promise and responsibility towards the baby. And he left her there thinking because he again knows that now Nivi will not go anywhere. He saw her stopping and not making a move and hence he left from there. He had accomplished his mission of stopping her.As you all remember during engagement time, Nivi told her dad that "pyaar dene ka naam hai and yeh Siddharth ke bhi pyaar ka imtihaan hai." So since beginning she has always considered love that can be sacrificed for the happiness of others. She is like that and it is going to be difficult to change her thoughts...ANd Viren has very well understood this fact as he was the witness to her sacrifice - She gave up Sid for Divya and marries Viren.They both have put each other in problems but have also found solutions for these problems. They have been there for each other in sad times. Yes, we want to see them together in happy times too and hope that CTs will show us that soon.They are in true sense life partners - completing each other, complementing each other's weaknesses and strengths."
Originally posted by: minu2011
Yes, Resham I agree. They shouldn't let CC win this one. And Anju's post gives me confidence that the tussles while natural, won't create real rifts...or for too long!
Originally posted by: anjubala
Girls, we have to just have faith in our faith.. If we believe NiVren are there together forever then believe in that. Having faith in your own faith will help you with your real life situations too as life is not a bed of roses. These ups and downs will come and if you are able to fight it then you will become strong.
Originally posted by: minu2011
Thanks Anju. That is so sweet of you. It means a lot to me to read your words of support. Thank you!
And you're right about having faith in faith. I remember when Milee had analyzed the teachings of DS that day when he tries to explain to Viren when Viren comes back lost after Nivi does not return, and DS says, that my blessings for you were not for a day. He had faith in his faith in Viren. That he will surely succeed. Milee had done such a good job of laying all those 5 lessons of life out, and this one, that only if we have faith in our own faith will it become strong enough to bear fruit, had really stood out for me.
So perhaps we need to step back and let things develop. We are getting our NivRen in every epi, which is great.
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