Originally posted by incandescence
@bold...*snorts* Oh Fivr, baby, dream on! Is anyone ever actually
free? And as long as you have a family, ppl who love you or ppl you love...you can never be free.
Lol! Nahi yaar.. I didn't mean free in that sense.. I mean free in the sense k jo main shadi k "baad" kar sakti hoon, I can do that before marriage too! I have an issue with this "pre-marriage" can-dos and "post-marriage" can-do's.. I don't see why girls have to be "married" to hang out with their friends or go to the movie? I don't see why girls have to be "married" to go visit their freind in another city or get an ear pierced.. Stuff like this.. THAT bothers me! Toh is sense mein, I can do whatever I want when I want without having to categorize something as pre-and-post marriage stuff!
But with regards to your statement about us never being free as long as we have loved ones around.. *sigh* That's so true! But I think that's a good thing.. I mean, like Anu said, it's not like we've been shackled by them and forced into something. I guess our restraints come from the fact that we care for them and know that they care for us.. And we take into account the effect of our actions on them and judge accordingly. And to me that's not a loss of freedom at all. I'd rather loose this freedom and have them around to judge/limit me from time to time with their love instead of being free as a bird to roam around aimlessly. I think to me, they give me a sense of direction and they anchor me to this world - whether it is to shelter me from the bad or help me soar higher with the good.. You know?
*wonders if she's just babbled* π
Hey everyone! LadyM, Anu, Mru, Amy, Vasu.. And anyone else I missed!!
I'm having a semi busy day at work toh I'm just in and out of lab but soocha thora catch up kar loon CC pe bhi.. π
And Zainab jee.. Baa baa black sheep pe tarakta bharakta dance chahiye?! Umm.. Uhhh! Can I get a 3 day extension?!?! *starts looking for remixed versions of Baa Baa Black Sheep* π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£ And LMAO @ the hul chala parhta hai.. π€£π€£π€£π€£
Edited by -Fivr- - 12 years ago