whats up with tej?

Hey guys:)
so i havent been following geet for a while now and just started to watch a few days back and i wasnt able to understand some things. So could someone tell me why Tej ( i think thats his name) is so hurtful to his wife and why does Maan not reveal  that he is geets husband? 
thanks so much:)

Maan wants to clear all the misunderstandings in her family about him.. I think his true identity will come out in this Maha Episode!!

And Tej is now behaving like s responsible husband!! Maaneet ka jadoo ka asar lol 

hey welcome...they have not revealed why tej behaves that way towrds pammi...he simply does not concider he feelings...and maan wants to make a good name for himself before taking geet with him and revealing the truth...btw have you joined dd's fanpage yet?😊

Ohhh okay okay thanks so much guys:) that makes things a lot easier haha
And no I have not:(
I've been so out of things going to go join it now:)