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Sumitra Showed Jagya his reality today (Page 3)

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Posted: 12 May 2011 at 2:33am | IP Logged
Originally posted by deejayaqueel

Originally posted by intruderfast

i have to say here , jagya was right in his own way, if he does not love anandi there is no pint in being with her

i think he was right and wrong at the same time.he did try his level best to be nice and convince his mom to his viewpoint
and i did feel pity 4 him that nobody is trying to understand him, he is a victim of child marriage, no one can deny that,
and when nothing happened , he went back to his old self, abusing anandi ,  
jagya has the right to choose his life partner, he is right in leaving anandi but his methods r not right , he could have handled things more maturelyAngry
 
Maybe what you're saying is true... but why is he not applying the same logic for Anandi... if he has moved on... then he needs to make sure that Anandi also moves on... Support her education, make sure there are no problems in her remarriage... how can he expect everything to go smoothly his way... with everyone dancing to his tunes... he is the same guy who (after becoming a Doctor) told people that Anandi will not study because he didnt want Dadisa upset...
 
I have to agree with Gauri's reading of the character of Jagiya's 'fictitious friend' ... hypocrite who is taking the convenient route - a girl for him and another to take care of his house, his family!
 
PS: Incidentally, in MBA too one comes across many such men, who try and appear really cool and progressive in front of their peers and back home revert to being hypocrites who want their wives to wear a ghoonghat all the time... trust me... they are despicable! anybody who lives two separate lives lying to everyone is not justified in any decision they take...
 
MY POV, no offence meant to anyone
ur pov respected
i have told  his methods in handling this situation has not been correct, he should have explained things to anandi 4 yrs before,  he kept her in dark, for which anandi should herself come and slap him.Angry
he should have explained to her properly, he could have maintained friendship with her
@bold- anadi herself said she would study further no matter what, and jagya did not say anything so i cant blame him fully 4 that , and earlier he was very supportive of anandi studying
see i always look for positives in person ,and sometimes i feel if i was in his place, it would have been a very difficult task 4 me too to solve this mess
 it takes me a long time for a person to fall in my eyes, i am willing to wait and watch and see
how he handles things after gauri knows the whole truth,
sorry 4 the lectureLOLLOLLOL the thing is i am totally fascinated by this characterLOLand i try to look positives in him firstLOL


Edited by intruderfast - 12 May 2011 at 2:35am

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Posted: 12 May 2011 at 3:46am | IP Logged
Originally posted by divmath

Originally posted by intruderfast

i have to say here , jagya was right in his own way, if he does not love anandi there is no pint in being with her

i think he was right and wrong at the same time.he did try his level best to be nice and convince his mom to his viewpoint
and i did feel pity 4 him that nobody is trying to understand him, he is a victim of child marriage, no one can deny that,
and when nothing happened , he went back to his old self, abusing anandi ,  
jagya has the right to choose his life partner, he is right in leaving anandi but his methods r not right , he could have handled things more maturelyAngry

My thoughts the same Anmol...why always Anandi's pov and Anandi's happiness??? I also see Jagya's pov ...he is also a human, I completely understand where he is coming from, I am not talking about his MCP attitude here...no matter how bad he might be or how bad his attitude is...when you push someone so much they will revolt...and badly ! and I do believe he is a victim of child marriage as much as Anandi is...and he HAS the right to his life and the right to chose his life partner...period. I am with Jagya on this one...he is immature and confused soul...and inadvertently he has turned into a monster...
BTW if Jagya is a "Sadist" ...Anandi is also a "Masochist" !  
Sorry to say but completely disagree with u.
Jagya is a victim of child marriage? Is it? He was child when he was married to anandi but he was not a child when anandi came back after 5 years. He was very much matured. Why didnt he opposed this child marriage at that time? Why  he accepted  anandi? Suddenly after meeting gauri he realised his all rights of choosing life partner. Its ok if he dont want anandi but atleast he should not call him unpad and gawar just because now he is not intered in her. The way he told to sumitra that "me use thukrata hu" it seems that he is someone who takes decision of anandi's destiny. If he is victim then what u should say about anandi? The way he is talking with anandi shows that he is considering her as a street animal. Even he is not loyal towards gauri,hiding the reality and cheating her.
Really today sumitra showed him his real identity. I want anandi to treat him in same way as he is treating her and want gauri to turn negetive so that she can give him some electric shocks.Angry


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Posted: 12 May 2011 at 7:19am | IP Logged

Each person is entitled to their own opinion. It will be fun to read and respond to different views. If everyone starts to think the same, then it is scarier... Just enjoy the show. The creative's can turn each character in any direction they want. So far they have succeeded in turning Jagya into nalayak son/husband/friend. Anandi is paying heavy price for satisfying everyone and not standing up for herself. Gowri is in her own cookoo world not realizing what her sweetheart is doing. Both these girls are shown as only book worms but are not street smart. Anandi failed to sense something is terribly wrong in her relationship and kept dreaming/hoping everything will be ok. Gowri is not sensing why Jagya is distressed. This being soul mate. When you are a soul mate, you will immediately sense if your partner is in trouble. Jagya is shrewd, he found out the weakness in these girls and playing it very well. It will be wonderful to see what he will do when he goes to withdraw money and he doesn't have access to it. I tried to see positive in Jagya character, but for some reason having hard time to accept what he is doing to everyone including himself. I was happy to see he at least cared for his mom and came looking for her and it appeared genuine care for his mom.

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