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Whose mistake is it anyway? (Page 4)

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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 11:59am | IP Logged
Originally posted by *Resham*

I have stopped looking at what the others are posting about the not so happening topic...latest article with ref to...why should that article be bothered now...they just cant show Viren getting insecured every now and then...cmon he is now matured and responsible, that last scene of yest gave me a new horizon to look into Viren...

Nivi may not even ask him anything...as regards to the child thing..Nivi cant forget Viren...right now she is focussed on child which is fine...but her life , involvement always remains with this man...and above all she knows that its DD and Siddharth's child...so she will be there for him for his child...even if tom she gets pregnant she still will care for her sister's child...

And she seeks support and solace in Viren...so he will be there with her..they just cant spoil any of their relationship from hereon...
 
@bold - exactly.. That last scene has given us and told us everything...

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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 12:21pm | IP Logged
it was no1's mistake .Anju like u  n miliee i also would say it is destiny n apne apne karmo ka phal . HL did wrong n she got her punishment but now also she didn't hav any repentence n she still dongg n repeating d same mistake again .

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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 1:42pm | IP Logged
Anju -  you'e right.  Where would a blame game take us and that too a blame game about death.  It is not something that can be taken lightly...I think the CTs are playing with fire and should tread very very carefully.

I haven't had a chance to see today's episode yet, but Anju, have to say one thing, that these CT's have made me dread coming to the forum or watching the episode. Since their death dance, (and even before that, but more so now), I really dread opening the forum site fearing ki koi naya disaster to nahin bear karna parega.  And the big fear is the cT's messing with NivRen's love, trust and togetherness.  I just hate that I keep fearing some SId Nivi thing and that will break my heart.  Every look of Viren's is analyzed, every word of Nivi's...since yesterday several of us have been knocked off balance by the way Viren has looked at Sid...kahin to there is lurking fear in us.  So whereas earlier I used to want to log in and check out the latest, now a days I keep postponing opening the site. Itna dar lagta hai.

Sad isn't it. Most creative people and producers would want viewers to be impatient to watch the next epi, but here they have created dread. Ek din key loye bhi chain nahin lene dete yeh CTs.  And these new articles don't help either. Sid Nivi joining hands...please how sensational can people get?!  I want to enjoy my NivRen in peace, which for me is the reason for watching CCBM and now I am not able to... is this what the CTs want?  So strange.

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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 1:44pm | IP Logged
Anju Di...love the points that you have made. I also do not feel that if one dies its 'cos of someones mistake. No one would intentionally want to do something like that. However if there is anyone to blame for DD's death I will only blame HL. She shouldn't have poisoned DD's mind against Nivi. The girl who sacrificed so much for her HL knew but yet she filled DD's ears by bad mouthing Nivi. If in the beginning she had not said these things about her then there would never be any rift between them and this might not have happened. HL is going to blame Nivi but she should sit down and think whether she herself is right. I got happy seeing HL and Nivi bonding in todays epi it was really cute butt then the the pre-cap just killed that happiness x

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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 1:58pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by minu2011

Anju -  you'e right.  Where would a blame game take us and that too a blame game about death.  It is not something that can be taken lightly...I think the CTs are playing with fire and should tread very very carefully.

I haven't had a chance to see today's episode yet, but Anju, have to say one thing, that these CT's have made me dread coming to the forum or watching the episode. Since their death dance, (and even before that, but more so now), I really dread opening the forum site fearing ki koi naya disaster to nahin bear karna parega.  And the big fear is the cT's messing with NivRen's love, trust and togetherness.  I just hate that I keep fearing some SId Nivi thing and that will break my heart.  Every look of Viren's is analyzed, every word of Nivi's...since yesterday several of us have been knocked off balance by the way Viren has looked at Sid...kahin to there is lurking fear in us.  So whereas earlier I used to want to log in and check out the latest, now a days I keep postponing opening the site. Itna dar lagta hai.

Sad isn't it. Most creative people and producers would want viewers to be impatient to watch the next epi, but here they have created dread. Ek din key loye bhi chain nahin lene dete yeh CTs.  And these new articles don't help either. Sid Nivi joining hands...please how sensational can people get?!  I want to enjoy my NivRen in peace, which for me is the reason for watching CCBM and now I am not able to... is this what the CTs want?  So strange.
 
Minu, no point in dreading. That will lead you no where. We all are attached to the show and the characters and NiVren but see things are not in our control. We will see what CTs show us even though we do not want to. So, why worry so much when things are not in our hands. I have no fear left in me now since yesterday - the last scene and embrace of Viren said it all. He is there for Nivi and the baby. I never felt anything in the way Viren looked at his brother. He is afterall his brother and if one suffers then other will feel the pain. Viren was just seeing how devastated and lifeless his brother was. His Sid bhaiya who has been his idol since childhood. How can he see Siddharth in that state. But that does not mean that he will let Nivi go. That is not happening and it cannot happen. They are husband wife and have consummated their marriage and love each other. Nobody will give away one's spouse because he or she is feeling pain for his or her loved one. Come on...this is not logical and neither it is practical. Nivi was able to sacrifice her love because she was not married to Sid. Now it is a different ball game all together. They are married, they are in a relationship.
And the new article is only suggesting that Sid will step-in and help Nivi in raising the baby as he will have confrontation with Hemlata regarding the baby. It did not say that they will get married.. So, Minu take out all te fears from your heart and mind and enjoy CCBM and NiVren.

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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 2:19pm | IP Logged
I agree with you point Anju that nivi will not leave viren or viren will not sacrifice his love/marriage for the sake of his brother. After all he has a responsibility towards nivi. And initially when everyone had the confusion of nivi being killed in the blast virens expressions and pain said it all and the way he embraced nivi as soon as she walked in. It showed his unconditional love for this woman. Also marriage is not just a word or something that is based on circumstances surrounding the couple which one can Let go when things get tough. You just don't break ties for the sake of pleasing others. It's is insulting and degrading to treat marriage as a casual relationship and especially a girl like nivi who has morals and values would never make a mockery or joke of her marriage

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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 2:36pm | IP Logged
I agree with you Milee and Aamina.  Thank you for pulling me out of this fear.  Wasn't able to enjoy the last few days.  I absolutely believe that the sanctity of marriage, and a sanskari girl like Nivi will never do anything foolish now nor will Viren, who loves her like his life...and Im committed to watching this for Kinshuk and Neha's sakes till the end, so will try to stay positive!!  Thanks :)

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Posted: 11 May 2011 at 9:14pm | IP Logged
Hi Anju,
As always wonderful analysis. You know I have stopped watching this show few weeks back. Was sort of tired only seeing one thing in the show - Nivi being blamed for anything & everything!!!
But since I liked the character of Nivi & Viren so much that I keep reading updates. I'm aghast beyond words on the way they have taken the show now. Not even once in this serial, they show the wrong person repenting on their mistake. I have no idea why did they decide to kill Divya & that too under circumstances when now everybody esp. HL & CC will blame Nivi again for the same despite the fact that it was Divya who made Nivi's life miserable all the time. How I wish Viren confronts everybody once in a very strong way when they now try to point out their fingers on Nivi:
  • Sid: Was he ever there for Nivi whenever she needed him? Be it the scenes before marriage when he knew that Nivi was not wrong but kept silent for the sake of his family or later when he knew Divya was wrong but again kept silent for the sake of his unborn child. Is this love?
  • VD: Though she says she loves Nivi but yet again she always knew Nivi was not wrong, neither before marriage or in that jealousy track between Nivi & DD? All she did was shed tears, did she ever try to speak to Divya even once? To add to that, she wanted Nivi to go to office not becoz she shud go but becoz it will give some peace of mind to Divya!
  • Divya: An elder sister, married woman and just so-so immatured. CTs were not able to fix her character even once. In the beginning of the episode she is all lovey for her sis and by then end of it she is jealous of her like hell. To add to that no trust on her husband who always has tried to fulfill all her wish.
  • HL: Whole of her life, she has one point agenda of blaming Nivi for every misery in Divya's life. She snatched everything from Nivi what she deserved and gave it to Divya, be it her childhood toys, her love of life Sid or her respect in Sood household. Now the fate decided to snatch Nivi's death & give it to Divya and yet again she will think its Nivi who is responsible for even this.
  • CC: The lesser I speak, the better. Only one point - a mother who can not understand what can make her son happy then what else can she understand in her life. 
The more I love the characters of Nivi & Viren and the actors Neha and Kinshuk, the more I hate the creative team for ruining this show in such a blatant way! I have no idea what they want to show and how can they mess up so much with a story... I feel sad for actors like Neha Sargam, Kinshuk Mahajan, Sarita Joshi etc who could have done wonders if they would have been in the right hands.

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