I see many posts people feel sorry for Pammi. I feel too, but feeling sorry is not the solution.
Yes, what Pammi is going through happens with so many women but Women are getting stroger these days and knowing their strength.
It's not only fault of the person abusing, it's also fault of the person who bears it. One should always stand up for their self respect.
As we saw in GHSP, the love that Geet is getting in her life now is the result of her strong will power to fight for her self respect.Yes she was lucky to get someone to guide her but it was her stand to punish the person who misbehave with women thinking they are material. Maan fell in love with her because she stood against the wrong of her family. He helped her because she wanted to fight for her self respect.
In Pammi's case she takes all the abuse she gets for no reason. After dedicating her whole self to her husband's family she takes the abuse given to her by her husband.That's her fault too.
Yes, many women cannot gather the courage to go against their family and husband but one should always stay for your own self respect to get the respect from others.
Geet and Pammi's contrast in their situation today has very much to do with their own attitude towards life.
It will be good that Maan and Geet help her, but she must learn to fight for her own self respect as if she does not do that then even though Geet and Maan fixes the situation for her now it can come to the same point later.
Thanks,
Anu
comment:
p_commentcount