Posted: 10 May 2011 at 12:58pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by MeySimiGulaal does declare the rishta will be pure and that she will find her devrani. She had a check on her emotions way back then.
But as mentioned, in an incident, the child questions her if she would also cry like Sudha Babhi if he finds a dulhan for himself. During Holi, a drunk/laced Kesar says Gulaal meri patni hai. Durng the wedding of his sister Rewa, he declares that he is "shaadi-shuda" and Gulaal is his wife and they also perform the Paad Puja ceremony as a couple.
Now at such an impressionable age, Kesar was happy with the idea of "being married" because he was happy to have Gulaal around.
All these declarations from Kesar has happened in front of Gulaal. Cant expect the child to live on "once heard, then forgotten" comment about another wife for himself in future. Because he was convinced and happy with the thought of being married to Gulaal. That was what Kesar was cribbing about since when Vasant's marriage was fixed with Gulaal that he has flicked the girl he had chosen as his bride.
Motabha had warned her about the feelings of the chld when he grows up.
I think more than anything, she was SO SURE of her own feelings that everything would work out fine. She will never open her heart to another man again...! Not the right way to go about it but thats what she thought.
And I also agree, I don't want him to become like Vasant. Kesar is much more appealing than Vasant to me anyway