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Mistis thoughts 9th may 2011 (Page 5)

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Posted: 10 May 2011 at 1:10am | IP Logged
Originally posted by laxmis

When I first read the update I was shocked to see 23-12 became 8 and I thought somebody must have invented a new subtraction formula and I was ignorant of that. After reading your thread I took a deep breath that I can do simple math.Smile

Congratulations for your realization regarding simple maths.ClapWink

Always love reading yours and  why3/why6's conversations and the other members contributions to this thread.
Thanks.Big smile


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Posted: 10 May 2011 at 3:27am | IP Logged
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Oh my, my, my, my!  I could barely watch the show today and could not continue with the MI either (not b/c of Mishti's writing, but b/c of the show!).
Haila! Mommy! 
 
Where is this frigging story going?
Somewhere I think...Ermm
 
Rohan, a child again?  Oh dear!  It was hard to watch a grown man looking silly!
 When was he a grown man?.. I mean mentally...well the chunnu munnus are just projecting themselves on someone else here.Wink
Mohini turning negative?  Been around Virat too much?
Well she always had a negative streak. 
Padma shrilling like a banshee?  So unlike her original character.
Well the doctor has stolen 2 years of Rohans life and some grey cells from Padma....  
 
Dev opted for selective maun vrat?
He can either do that or shout at Rahika...and it alternates...so maybe this week it is maun vrat.
 
And what happened to Radhika?  Why is she covered up like a ganwar, when the older bahu is modernized?  I can accept her covering her head but who bought her a tent and draped it around her?
I think chunnu munnu thinks that as soon as Rdahika gets married she should be covered from  head to foot and not an inch of her skin should be shown...thats why they give her these tents to wear.

 Whatever happened to the original concept of CB?  Someone started smoking something in the Production House along the way!  Haila!
Chunnu munny don't believe in original and concept. 
 
Ahhh!  Now I get it!  Great answers, Mishti, my bachhi!
 
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Posted: 10 May 2011 at 7:12am | IP Logged
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i do feel sorry for dev for his lack of childhood since dadaji's accident ... but dont feel sorry for him for losing rads ... that is a choice he has made ... like some of you i believe that he deliberately wants to hurt rads either bcos he wants her to back off or bcos he is angry with himself and transferring it on to her  ... let us see what they show ... dev was my favorite from CB1 and i am happy they are not showing him perfect this time around ... but they should not lose the essence of the character
Actually, I like that he is imperfect.  This story is better in the sense as both Radhika and Dev know the entire truth and telling everything to each other.  Their beliefs and obligations are different and causing the distance between them.  So in the end it is not other people who are affecting their relationship but only their personal actions.  But despite his imperfection, the basic nature of Dev should be tempered with and they did it during the fire scene when he hesitated to save Radhika.  He may be angry at Radhika but he would always come for her when she is in danger.  In fact,  I loved Dev in CB1 in the first year but found his reactions very unrealistic in the second year when the truth about the first marriage came out.  They should have shown him protecting Radhika from other PF members and Shastri family, but they needed to show his sense of betrayal and loss of faith in Radhika for her actions.  They made him too perfect when he forgave her in five minutes.  

I actually want him to lose Radhika because he has made a lot of mistakes and deserves to lose her for a while in order to repent in a true sense.  One loses a valuable thing in life when they don't appreciate that thing and take care of it.  So if creatives are making it about Kanha's leela, then that would be his punishment. 





Why6 I agree with you regarding maintaining the core of Dev's and Rad's characters

For Dev, I really saw the whole fire incident a couple of times and my reading of the scene was that he was not hesitant, but surprised... the first time he went in he did not see Rads ... however, the whole thing was shot badly if different people are interpreting it so differently ... also, i did not like chenu holding his dad back ... chenu is  a big boy and a brother and should have gone in to save Rads ... they could have shown him falling down as he ran to save her and mansa held back by his wife and daughter ... all in all, not shown well at all ... if people are interpreting him as being hesitant, that is almost an anti hero
 
Sorry for jumping in here. Rajsri, TV serials go throiugh phases and the recently launched shows in almost all the channels have flawed male leads...or to some extent the leads that are to some extent anti-heroes...mostly due to some personal reason. The way they are depicting Dev now I won't be surprised if they make him similar to an anti-hero. As for that scene...the burning one, different people saw it differently...some saw what you saw and some what Angie saw...that shows that the cretives are giving mixed messages and this time the director also failed. 

The reason i liked Dev from season 1 was bcos, apart from his unconditional love for a young orphan girl,  he was idealistic to a fault,  very respectful, did not believe in blindly following superstitions  and was protective of women in general, not just rads  ... i liked him grieving over killing vish's baby and did not like it when he slapped and dragged vish out of the house ... those were times when i think they brought him down for the sake of TRPs.  As Abhay, yes they dumbed him down which was not great ... but more than him not believing rads (which is why most people hated him)  i did not like that he slept with rads and went chasing after her when he thought he was married to kanika  ... those were moral boundaries that they never showed him crossing when he thought he was married to vish.  
I didn't like him stomping out after sleeping with Rads and then putting all the blame on her...plus what you have mentioned. 

Again, I am glad that Dev is not perfect here ... but as you said they should be careful and not make him lose some of his basic character traits ... lot of people like his character and they should not make them lose that connection.  I do hope they show what he is thinking
I definitely agree that it would be good for both Dev and Rads character growth if they split temporarily after Rohan recovers ...
CB1 should have included punishment of Amma and Dev mad at Rads for the marriage lie as tracks ... hope this time around they show justice
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Posted: 10 May 2011 at 8:13am | IP Logged
Originally posted by misti73

Originally posted by rajsri

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 For Dev, I really saw the whole fire incident a couple of times and my reading of the scene was that he was not hesitant, but surprised... the first time he went in he did not see Rads ... however, the whole thing was shot badly if different people are interpreting it so differently ... also, i did not like chenu holding his dad back ... chenu is  a big boy and a brother and should have gone in to save Rads ... they could have shown him falling down as he ran to save her and mansa held back by his wife and daughter ... all in all, not shown well at all ... if people are interpreting him as being hesitant, that is almost an anti hero
 
Sorry for jumping in here. Rajsri, TV serials go throiugh phases and the recently launched shows in almost all the channels have flawed male leads...or to some extent the leads that are to some extent anti-heroes...mostly due to some personal reason. The way they are depicting Dev now I won't be surprised if they make him similar to an anti-hero. As for that scene...the burning one, different people saw it differently...some saw what you saw and some what Angie saw...that shows that the cretives are giving mixed messages and this time the director also failed. 

Maybe the whole editing thing made the burning scene very confusing.  The article actually mentioned that there was a dilemma for Dev on whom to save. Then he saw Rohan falling and Radhika was ok.  So he went to Rohan first and saved him.  Then he went back for Radhika.  But in their hurry for ratings where they wanted Dev to shout at Radhika, the whole scene was hotch potch where nobody was trying to do anything.  At least show that people are throwing water or assisting Dev or something.
 
Then, the hospital scene was even worse for me.  Yes, Dev finally asked the nurse to look at Radhika's wounds.  But it was only when after the nurse or doctor had come out of the operation room several times and Dev was only interested in asking about Rohan.  While they are waiting for the operation, it would have been ok to show that Dev asked somebody to take care of Radhika.  For me that was also not acceptable even though most of the people saw Dev caring for Radhika. 
 
Anti-hero is fine and here this misguided obligation is also fine especially when Dadaji treated Dev at par with his grandsons and even sent him to a boarding school to make sure his education is completed.  That did show that he went outside to study and eventually forgot Radhika.  But they are making Dev one-dimensional in his blaming Radhika.  That's why I am referring to other show by StarPlus (Gulaal) where they show that the hero has very mixed feelings where he insults the woman he loves in front of others and even hurts her because she has hurt him unintentionally.  There too, he is not able to share his feelings with others because nobody knows the truth.  But they show him crying in the privacy of the room where he simultaneousy blames her and also shows his love for her.  There he also is remorseful for hurting her in that manner.  So you feel sympathy for him and can understand why he acts the way he does. 
 
Here Dev is losing the sympathy where he has no problems with Padma treating Radhika badly due to superstitions.  They could show him in his room where he is shown thinking that he knows Padma's behavior is wrong and blaming Radhika for some superstitions is really bad.  But he endorses it because he too blames her as she is his own and she was not support to "betray" his trust or something like that.  No matter how flawed his thinking is,  at least show that. 
 
I didn't like him stomping out after sleeping with Rads and then putting all the blame on her...plus what you have mentioned.  

I didn't have problems with him sleeping with Radhika even though it was against his character as was shown in the first year.  But I could still accept it where they had stayed from each other for five years.  The way they depicted the scene is that Dev took the initiative as he couldn't resist her and Radhika was more than happy because to her it was not a sin at all, but her natural right.  Also, he had a scare where he thought he lost her.  Just as Misti said,  my problem was more with his behavior afterwards where he blamed Radhika for his weakness knowing fully well that from Radhika's POV, she was only sleeping with her husband.  His disrespect to her and lack of apology for his behavior brought him down.



 
 
My fear is that they would do the same with Dev here too.  For now he would act obnoxious and they would not show any other feelings from him.  Then suddenly, he would be after Radhika and Radhika would be grateful for his acceptance.  There won't be any remorse but he would be called "Maahan" for doing this and Radhika would initially be blamed and later on called "Maahan" too for acting as somebody else's wife.
 
Instead I would like to see that Dev loses Radhika, repents and then apologizes to her for treating her like an object to be gifted to pay his debts.  Radhika also needs to have remorse for what she did by posing as somebody else's wife.  No matter what,  both of them are playing with other people's lives.  Putting aside Maheswari's greed, Radhika is playing with the feelings of a family (she doesn't know the motives at this point) by posing as somebody else. 
 
Also, they need to show that Radhika is hurt by Dev's actions where he rejected her when it suited him and accepted her when it was ok from his point of view.  Her feelings are of no concern to him and Radhika should be shown hurt by that.  She should be shown rejecting Dev's version of love.  He has to show her that she truly matters before she can accept him.  There has to be his agni-pariksha too.  But I doubt they would show anything complex because to do that requires a lot of thought and a script that doesn't change according to TRPs.

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Posted: 10 May 2011 at 11:42am | IP Logged
Originally posted by misti73

I didn't like him stomping out after sleeping with Rads and then putting all the blame on her...plus what you have mentioned. 




Why6, misti

definitely want to forget that one ... possibly one of the lowest points in the show

for me, the hesitating before rescuing does not make sense ... he did come to her room and was talking to her gently and then went ballistic when he found out that she had told rohan the truth... somehow, the shouting after is something i can tolerate not the hesitating before rescuing ... either case, bad directing of that particular scene

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