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Poor Raashi! now they took her shopping away! (Page 7)

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Originally posted by nkapoor

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two wrongs do not make a right!
Huh? Can you please elaborate?
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wats there to explain? there is an old philosophy and saying that says that being mean to sumone mean is not the answer! as in 2 wrongs do not make a right! especially when Raashi is not being punished for the right things! this will not change her attitude! unecessary punihsment does not help![/QUOTE]
 
Good so you do agree Rashi was wrong..Big smile Thats all I wanted to hear. Actually I also agree with you regarding Kokila. Her taking away things was in a bad taste. but that does not make Rashi as "Poor Rashi".
 

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After my marriage the first holiday I went to was in the US with my husband and his family, since it was my first trip abroad my husband had given me a green signal to shop to my hearts content. I was working for a couple of years before the trip so I had loads of my own money to spend. I had bought individual gifts for all my husbands family including his siblings in laws who lived in the US.

Still my in laws were very upset about my shopping and constantly berated me for it. I explained to them that it was my first trip abroad, I had family and friends to pick up things for and that it was my money being spent. Still my husband was told off, for my wasting my hard earned money on trinkets and souvenirs. My husband then sat me down and explained how things work in his family and that as their daughter in law my in laws had certain expectations from me and that I needed to adhere to his families rules and regulations.

While he respected my right to shop since it was my first trip, he agreed with me that we would have a couple of days where I could shop to my hearts content since we were there for a month and the rest of the time, I should focus on sight seeing with his family and not be running from shop to shop buying things all the time.

So for the rest of the trip I did what makes his parents happy and made my husband happy, went shopping before we left and everything went well.

But when I accompany my husband on business trips, their is absolutely no shopping done... nothing takes away from the work that has to be done...

Rashi was being very selfish and self centered, she does not care about anyone but herself and her mother... She has constantly tried to sabotage Gopi, tried killing her mother in law (fire in the temple) her Aunt in law (empty pressure cooker on the stove) and is the main reason for Ahem's hatred of Gopi...

What goes around comes around... if you treat your in laws well they will treat you well too...

I have since that first trip been married for 5 years and now whenever I travel with the in laws, they take me shopping!!!

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Originally posted by ann_belle

After my marriage the first holiday I went to was in the US with my husband and his family, since it was my first trip abroad my husband had given me a green signal to shop to my hearts content. I was working for a couple of years before the trip so I had loads of my own money to spend. I had bought individual gifts for all my husbands family including his siblings in laws who lived in the US.

Still my in laws were very upset about my shopping and constantly berated me for it. I explained to them that it was my first trip abroad, I had family and friends to pick up things for and that it was my money being spent. Still my husband was told off, for my wasting my hard earned money on trinkets and souvenirs. My husband then sat me down and explained how things work in his family and that as their daughter in law my in laws had certain expectations from me and that I needed to adhere to his families rules and regulations.

While he respected my right to shop since it was my first trip, he agreed with me that we would have a couple of days where I could shop to my hearts content since we were there for a month and the rest of the time, I should focus on sight seeing with his family and not be running from shop to shop buying things all the time.

So for the rest of the trip I did what makes his parents happy and made my husband happy, went shopping before we left and everything went well.

But when I accompany my husband on business trips, their is absolutely no shopping done... nothing takes away from the work that has to be done...

Rashi was being very selfish and self centered, she does not care about anyone but herself and her mother... She has constantly tried to sabotage Gopi, tried killing her mother in law (fire in the temple) her Aunt in law (empty pressure cooker on the stove) and is the main reason for Ahem's hatred of Gopi...

What goes around comes around... if you treat your in laws well they will treat you well too...

I have since that first trip been married for 5 years and now whenever I travel with the in laws, they take me shopping!!!


Clap Very proud off you. There is this constant "why can't I live my life after marriage" "why does a bahu always have to listen". This type of attitude only breaks a family. Just like the topic starter wants "koki a women older then Rashi, to understand and teach Rashi nicely" Same goes for Rashi, she needs to understand the rules and elders and tame herself. The route you took to solve the problem has concluded were YOUR IN LAWS that were once against you shopping they themselves take you now. You could have thrown the whole situation out of proportion, started a heated argument and did what you want. But by compromising, you respected your husbands parents, you husband and YOURSELF. The point was not that Rashi shopped and Koki took it away. Koki took it away because Rashi shopped for all the wrong reasons. Her greedy mother. In fact, Koki didn't even take all the stuff, there was still tons of things left on the bed. Koki wasn't mad that Rashi shopped, but she was mad that that was ALL she did and then on top of that, she bought nothing for anyone else but herself and her mother. She must remember she has TWO families now. In my POV, Rashi is wrong, was wrong and will stay wrong if she doesn't get her act straight together. I have said this in the past, she is digging her self into a hole and if she doesn't realize what she is doing, it will become her grave. And there won't be anyone to pull her out of the ditch. She has a great husband and family and she completely missing in all the glitz and glam. Well I end my opinion here, because it seem as this is a useless debate.

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