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Posted: 12 years ago
Devika, such a beautiful post, well said, well wriiten, and I especially like the satirical 2nd post.

Radhika5, thanks so much for the poem, it echoes Rads sentiments totally.

We are also frustrated with Dev and all CBians together want to grab him or CVs by their respective collars and tell them what to do. How irritating the CVs are being, just torturing us to death.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Devika,

YOu  described  beautifully the feelings of Dev and his pain...He looks emotionless but we  can see his pain in his eyes Now he is in dilemma he knows he is also responsible for all these but still he blames Radhika but what Radhika is doing she  is  trying to convincing Dev   Even if   Dev  screamed at her she stood silent ...He was not ready to listen to her ...  he doesn't have anyother person to express his pain and anger   ...
Now radhika  is  in PB she may have a lot to suffer from Mohini and padma...But she is determined she will win Dev"s heart  how long Dev can keep away from his Radhika...He told her he doesn't have any Daya for her    is it true??but lets see how Cv's are    going to show all these...
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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: radha_bilahari

Neerja,

 
Devika has portrayed Dev;s feelings very well.  That is the beauty of interpretation, how we can feel one with the character and how we see the pain that is undergone, the feelings associated with human emotions.  Not all will have to be specified in words, sometimes even actions and silence can speak volumes.
 
Just my thought.


 Radha here i was not talking about the people who will understand his pain , his inner turmoil by the look in his eyes or with body language, read the language of silence ...It was about general viewers who understand the words , thats why i said about Creatives to do that job , putting words to his feelings through monologues...I totally agree with you ...Devika has beautifully depicted dev,silence in to words , there is no doubt about that ...
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Posted: 12 years ago
Thanks Devika for explaining the body language and silence displayed by Avinash and Rubina. It is sad that so many viewers can't comprehend these scenes and choose to write and complain.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Devika...that was absolutely beautiful portrayal of Dev's feelings and his inner turmoils!

Dev seems to be fighting within himself deep underneath even as he shows a normal face outside to the world. No one knows the depth of pain in his heart for he has lost everything now. He decided to sacrifice Radhika for his family and brother so that they cud be happy...and he lost her...But now, he lost even that happiness and his brother is in such state. Whom is he to blame for everything? In the spur of the moment, he blamed Rads for everything and screamed at her...but that doesn't mean he would hate her...even if he wanted to he cant...because his heart would keep loving her! 

That was clearly evident in the moment when Padma accused Rads with such names. Clearly his inner self didnt like it...but anger was masking his true feelings...rather he forced the anger to deliberately mask his true feelings...he wanted to be angry at her, thinking that she is to be blamed for everything...but somehow his deeper mind knew that she was innocent...yet he put on the angry facade and remained mute. But his eyes gave away...he felt the pain and wanted to stop padma...but controlled himself!! Because he knew that he cannot go against the family...his duty bound self didnt allow him to move an inch...whereas the lover inside him wrenched inside for Rads!! 

As for Radhika...yes, its painful to listen everything that people said. The gruhpravesh is a moment of joy for every girl where she is about to step into a new world...and expects herself to be embraced warmly. However, here she is rebuffed and scoffed at by everyone. Padma's scathing remarks must have left her hurt...but it was Dev's muteness that must have pinched her the most. His anger and then his silence, clearly telling her that he shall not support her...was hurting her more than anything! Her husband too isnt becoming her support...and even her Kanha is asked to be kept out! I So only now her own inner strength can help her out!

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Posted: 12 years ago
Devika Radha Tazzi Radhika lovely thoughts When Would Dev be like this?????

SILENT LOVE

Author: Reden Magpantay Jobli

Have you ever been silently in love
With someone you can never have?
So close you can touch her hand
Yet, so far to feel her heart?

Have you ever lived in pretense
Quietly loving without any condition?
A feeling of love that's unknown
Hiding it, not knowing for how long.

Have you ever fallen deeply
Loving the person unconditionally?
So afraid to say what you feel
Acting normal, keeping things still.

Have you ever been hurt unintentionally
But put on a smile, pretended to be happy?
Deep inside you're in pain and suffering
But outside you're jolly and laughing.

Why does holding her hand feel so right?
Your heart smiles everytime she's at sight
Hearing her sweet voice makes your day
Hope you can hug her in a special way.

but now it is

Silent Tears

by Heather Loughton
A thunderous silence
breaks through my thoughts.
What was once many great ideas
is now a triumph, lost.

Baffling words tumble through my mind.
Reflections of darkness hover.
A disturbing peacefulness beckons to me,
and inside myself, I take cover.

What would it be like to stay there forever?
To be lost in all my cares?
From the inside, looking out -
I cry silent tears.
Another one by Tagore I think

The furthest distance in the world

Is not between life and death

But when I stand in front of you

Yet you don't know that

I love you

The furthest distance in the world

Is not when i stand in font of you

Yet you can't see my love

But when undoubtedly knowing the love from both

Yet cannot

Be together

The furthest distance in the world

Is not being apart while being in love

But when plainly can not resist the yearning

Yet pretending

You have never been in my heart

The furthest distance in the world

Is not

But using one's indifferent heart

To dig an uncrossable river

For the one who loves you


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Posted: 12 years ago
Devika,very beautiful post.you have described Dev's feelings  very aptly. Felt very sad for both Dev & Radhika.Dev's inner turmoil to be with his family & the lover in him to support Radhika was portrayed very well. Though Dev said that he hates Radhika at the spur of the moment ,but his heart will never allow him to do that. She was the only one whom he could show his feelings. And Radhika's inner strenght & her Kanha will help Dev to be courageous & help him to stand by Radhika & accept her wholeheartedly as his wife in front of everyone.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: radha_bilahari

Devika,

 
Wonderful post, you have expressed the feelings portrayed by Dev.  He is unable to choose the truth that is in front of him.  He is torn between duty and love.  this is his battle and the more he sees Radhika in pain, he will realise her unconditional love for him and will learn to reciprocate the same.
 
I want to spare a thought for Radhika.  A newly married bride who had no intentions to hurt anybody but stand for the very truth of her life which is her marriage to KK at an young age was made to stand at the threshold of the house.  Her gruhapravesh was stopped.  She was made to think that she has brought bad-luck and ill fate to the house where she is stepping.  Radhika being an orphan is entitled to her share of love and affection.  By her sheer devotion she has built her inner strength to face the situation that she is in today.  My eyes swell intears as I spare this thought to Radhika.
 
Both of them are suffering in their own way----one living the truth and the other reluctance to accept the truth.  Absolutely touching to feel the power of truth for love.
 
 

Thank you Radha..
and i think the highlighted part is going to be the proceeding of this drama. He already heard it thru Padma's words , but she was looking at him, without having a shock in her face, she was confident when she said 'yes  I am suhagan' and she said that looking into his eyes.  and none of the others (let it be mohini, padma or anyone) words are going to reach her, but it will surely hurt Dev's mind, and he will realize her love.
For him, that 12 yrs  have no value as he didn't live in that, and he got connected to her when he met her at that college funtion. He needs to feel it. 
 
 but for her she lived in that 12 yrs and that is her strength
 
, so I am sure, now Dev will see and feel what is she really meant by her thapasya..
 
. It is easy to say why can't he just say that he loves her  as he knows she loves her,
 
This time for both Dev and Radhika.. the experience of love is different, For Dev it is just few days of see, and yes he was happy with that childhood memory, but that went in only at a surface  surface level. so he was able to resist her words, so he was trying to make her belive by saying "it was only child's play"
 
But for radhika it is so deep, in her each cell and in her each breath, and Dev needs to realize it..
and that will be awsome... 
 
Radhika's mind, yes, poor girl, i think because they were expecting to give it this way, they made her entry smoothly last time, with her reach upto Dev's room. you portrayed it so well. More than hearing padma BB debate, i was really watching radev expression.. and for each words , Rdaev had their exchange words. Radhika's talk was very minimal, but to the point... loved it, and i am sure, if we try to see it  whole heartedly, then surely that tear drop will form unknowingly...
 
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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: radhika5

Devika---I must say, i feel like Tazzi--speechless

Absolutely love this thread-----very touching, how beautifully you have expressed the essence of today's episode----

Dev's silence can mean one of the things or rather all of it---but most of all it is his reluctance to accept the truth; the guilt, the remorse coming out as silence...what words can possibly convey the depth of his despair?...

And may be Dev's own inner thoughts----in the darkness of his silence, may be the vision is slowly creeping that may be, just may be--he has made the biggest mistake of his life by not accepting Radhika's words----


"Hello darkness, my old friend
I've come to talk with you again
Because a vision softly creeping
Left its seeds while I was sleeping
And the vision that was planted in my brain
Still remains...Within the sound of silence"


(These are the lines from a famous song--The sound of silence)

And Radhika--her own agony is even more; on the brink of a new moment in her life, a moment that should have been one of the most precious--has instead become a silent battlefield, where her silence will have to be more sharper than the words and the swords---Her silence will show her inner strength, and her true love will shine through her unshed tears---

This is for Radhika---waiting for her KK (a beautiful poem by Tagore)

Waiting

The song I came to sing remains unsung to this day.
I have spent my days in stringing and in unstringing my instrument. 
The time has not come true,
The words have not been rightly set;
only there is the agony of wishing in my heart... 

I have not seen his face,
 nor have I listened to his voice;
 only I have heard his gentle footsteps
from the road before my house... 

But the lamp has not been lit
and I cannot ask him into my house;
I live in the hope of meeting with him;
 but this meeting is not yet.  


 ~Rabindranath Tagore



 Thank you so much dear. very aptly said about Radhika's silence. I think Radha's heart also went the same direction. a girls' mind..  thanks for sharing these poems. especially the last two lines by tagore ji.. I live in the hope of meeting with him, but this meeting is not yet.. just like radhika's . He is in front of her, but yet far away from her, so time will bring them together and they will meet...
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Posted: 12 years ago
Originally posted by: neerjashingla

Devika you have expressed Dev,s going on battle between his mind and heart beautifully ...When you think why Dev was standing there as mute spectator, when Padma was going on her  with her accusations, Radhika,s eyes at him when listening to all this , you expressed his thoughts in words ...your post turned questions to answers , You gave words to his silence... excellent post with beautiful words ... viewers will not understand whats going on in his mind or his pain , they will think of him to be insensitive  towards Radhika ...Here Devika you have given words to his thoughts...This should be the job of Creatives to give words to Dev,s thoughts ,when he is alone , as he  does not have anybody to talk to...  

Thanks neerja, I wish for that too. They tried to give him a small session of monologue, at the hospital, but that didn't satisfy me, but I am so glad to know that you liked my version of words for his silence, and hope oneday our wish will come true too...