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Posted: 06 May 2011 at 4:59am | IP Logged
Originally posted by _charu_

i like this track bec. ppl. do get fooled easily with chamak dhamak ..money , good looking guy, palatial haveli, what else do girls want? i'll not say it's rashmi's fault...but singhania's should have done some enquiry , specially when they were doubtful abt the rishta from the beginning..they blindly trusted Shankari, which is wrong...n howcome they fixed the rishta without seeing their home and lifestyle? at least the tilak should have happened in nikhil's house...now they r totally stuck..they cannot say no and they don't want to go ahead with this rishta bec. nothing seems right...the family's lifestyle, values, traditions, nikhil's wish of going abroad, early marriage.
exactly...singhanias are responsible for this more than rashmi.Pata nahi wat were they thinking during the rishta fixing processDead...mere yahaan to 80 percent of the enquiry is done even before meeting the guy n his family, but yahaan to rishta pakka hone ke baad to chodo, they didn't even find out after nikhil openly confessed that he has been in a relationship(btw i still wonder how the dino family reacted so casually to nikhil having a gf  beforeConfused).now they are stuck...
1. if the marriage happens, rashmi's life is spoilt for sure.abhi to she is excited for all the freedom, may be because she never got that wid the singhanias...but she will definitely hate it later.i have seen a few girls facing this...shuru shuru mein they are very happy that their husbands love to party n have frequent holidays, but after the initial days they keep cribbing about it as they have to accompany their husbands to keep them happy n cater to the household work as well and it all becomes very hectic.And rashmi will have to handle it all alone in canada wid no one at her help.and going by her character i don't think she'll be able to cope wid it for long.
2. if the marriage doesn't happen now, it will be quiet difficult for singhanias to get another match any soon. rashmi has already fallen for the guy n won't be able to get out of it for sum time. n watching the influence nikhil has on this girl, i wouldn't be too shocked if she rebels or even runs away wid the guy.
both ways, i find the track very promising n interestingSmile. my only regret is ki iss track ko dekhne ke liye i will have to jhelofy shurpnakha n draculla on my screenCry


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Posted: 06 May 2011 at 5:23am | IP Logged
Originally posted by gutky

i really loved ur topic infact i was thinking the same.. well according to me destiny plays an very important role wen it comes to marriage.. as they say "Jodi upar se banke aati hai"... LOL no matter how hard one tries but the things which is written on ur cards will definately happen come wat may.. as we've seen, before nikhil there were lots of guys whom they considered but nothing materialized for some or the other reason but wen it came to nikhil it clicked suddenly n the match was fixed.. yaah i agree the lifestyle of the two families are completely different but one needs to adjust with the changing pace of time.. i mean till now its not yet portrayed that the guy is -ve or bad.. just coz they live a high lifestyle compared to Dino's doesn't mean that the rishta is bad n needs to be broken.. acc to me in indian culture once the rishta is fixed then one really needs to have a very strong n valid point to turn it down... there are lots of factors which are taken into consideration n its not at all easy for both the families ... now i'm really looking forwrd to this track as its again very close to reality situations n lets see wat cvs have store for us in future... LOL

ur right Vini but the point here is (which they r trying to show in YRKKH) that all dekhna , enquiry should be done beforehand, not after the rishta is fixed..like they showed, gayitri was overexited abt the rishta n didn't care to look into these details..this is wrong...i'm not saying rishta is bad but Singhania's think that way...

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Posted: 06 May 2011 at 5:33am | IP Logged
Originally posted by _charu_

Originally posted by gutky

i really loved ur topic infact i was thinking the same.. well according to me destiny plays an very important role wen it comes to marriage.. as they say "Jodi upar se banke aati hai"... LOL no matter how hard one tries but the things which is written on ur cards will definately happen come wat may.. as we've seen, before nikhil there were lots of guys whom they considered but nothing materialized for some or the other reason but wen it came to nikhil it clicked suddenly n the match was fixed.. yaah i agree the lifestyle of the two families are completely different but one needs to adjust with the changing pace of time.. i mean till now its not yet portrayed that the guy is -ve or bad.. just coz they live a high lifestyle compared to Dino's doesn't mean that the rishta is bad n needs to be broken.. acc to me in indian culture once the rishta is fixed then one really needs to have a very strong n valid point to turn it down... there are lots of factors which are taken into consideration n its not at all easy for both the families ... now i'm really looking forwrd to this track as its again very close to reality situations n lets see wat cvs have store for us in future... LOL

ur right Vini but the point here is (which they r trying to show in YRKKH) that all dekhna , enquiry should be done beforehand, not after the rishta is fixed..like they showed, gayitri was overexited abt the rishta n didn't care to look into these details..this is wrong...i'm not saying rishta is bad but Singhania's think that way...

yaah di i agree all the enquiries shld have done before hand n not after the rishta is fixed.. Confused but no hopes from these dinos... sab log pagal hai yaha... wen it comes to match fixing they just blindly trust shankari tai... without even bothered to find any details n r least concern abt anything... Ouch so in short their carelessness abt such issue have to be rectify by rashmi in future... gud for her she deserves it too.. LOL

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Yaar ... sabse badi baat...bina ladke ka ghar dekhe match fix kar diya...life style to dekhte unka

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Originally posted by _charu_

i like this track bec. ppl. do get fooled easily with chamak dhamak ..money , good looking guy, palatial haveli, what else do girls want? i'll not say it's rashmi's fault...but singhania's should have done some enquiry , specially when they were doubtful abt the rishta from the beginning..they blindly trusted Shankari, which is wrong...n howcome they fixed the rishta without seeing their home and lifestyle? at least the tilak should have happened in nikhil's house...now they r totally stuck..they cannot say no and they don't want to go ahead with this rishta bec. nothing seems right...the family's lifestyle, values, traditions, nikhil's wish of going abroad, early marriage.
exactly...singhanias are responsible for this more than rashmi.Pata nahi wat were they thinking during the rishta fixing processDead...mere yahaan to 80 percent of the enquiry is done even before meeting the guy n his family, but yahaan to rishta pakka hone ke baad to chodo, they didn't even find out after nikhil openly confessed that he has been in a relationship(btw i still wonder how the dino family reacted so casually to nikhil having a gf  beforeConfused).now they are stuck...
1. if the marriage happens, rashmi's life is spoilt for sure.abhi to she is excited for all the freedom, may be because she never got that wid the singhanias...but she will definitely hate it later.i have seen a few girls facing this...shuru shuru mein they are very happy that their husbands love to party n have frequent holidays, but after the initial days they keep cribbing about it as they have to accompany their husbands to keep them happy n cater to the household work as well and it all becomes very hectic.And rashmi will have to handle it all alone in canada wid no one at her help.and going by her character i don't think she'll be able to cope wid it for long.
2. if the marriage doesn't happen now, it will be quiet difficult for singhanias to get another match any soon. rashmi has already fallen for the guy n won't be able to get out of it for sum time. n watching the influence nikhil has on this girl, i wouldn't be too shocked if she rebels or even runs away wid the guy.
both ways, i find the track very promising n interestingSmile. my only regret is ki iss track ko dekhne ke liye i will have to jhelofy shurpnakha n draculla on my screenCry

awesome post... Clap but as far as my knowledge goes second name for marriage is cribbing.. LOL no matter how good ur inlaws be but cribbing is basic right of a married women ...Big smile if ur hubby is funlving den they crib ki roj roj bahar jao n holidays no time for peace n myself... n if ur hubby is not funloving again cribs ki he so self oriented ony thinks of work not time for fun ...LOL in short jiske pass jo hai he excepts more... human nature u see... one can never be satisfy wid watever u get in ur life.. my mother keep saying this.."dosro ki thali mein ghee jyada hi lagta hai"...ROFL i so much agree wid that..

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So far I am not sure Nikhil is a bad guy. Yes, he seems modern compared to the Singhania's who are primitive. Yes, he was shown with a girl but this day & age most girls & boys do seem to have had at least a major crush if not a relationship. That one person you thought you couldn't live without. Most often things do not work out for whatever reason & you are forced to move on…Times have changed & the one or none days are over. Devdas & Paro kind of relationship is harder to findLOL So for now Nikhil seems like a fine young man; serving drinks at a party doesn't make him a bad person.


Rashmi doesn't seem to mind at all. She has always been shown as Ms. Scatterbrains. Has she ever shown her smarts? She refused another guy based on his likes & dislikes for thinks like movies, yoga, ghumna….Confused So, no expectations from Rashmi….RB is just a donor at conception, nothing more...LOL So who else can we blame for this fiasco? G3! There were warnings right from the Tilak. She was finding excuses to make this marriage happen. She blamed Rajsri, Akshara & then just took Rashmi's word for it. Bacchone baath ki aur sab sulaj gaya…She stopped ST from looking into it w/o any of the elders concluding that Nikhil indeed has moved on. I haven't heard of any marriages happening w/o investigating, nobody goes by just a marriage brokerConfusedUdaipur is a small town, shouldn't be that hard.


Much was made of him going abroad instead but G3's concerns were rightfully dismissed by the others. That is really least of their concerns & G3 is worried over itConfused Major issue is to find out if the boy is really serious about Rashmi or not. Is there a culture clash?Are they just casual drinkers? Most often what starts of as casual drinking later on makes individuals alcoholics coz partying hard becomes a daily thing…Then the marriage crumbles coz your ideologies don't match. What was once stylish becomes a disgusting behaviorDead Interesting track but I do not expect much from CV's, serious situations have never been handled the way they should have been…Rashmi's acting skills are questionable, so I don't have my hopes up. It's only a matter of time before maate gets involved, now uske paas kaam kum time zyaada hai…. Sleepy

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Posted: 06 May 2011 at 9:22am | IP Logged

Thank you all for replying... I enjoyed reading all your comments...

and I agree with all of you at some point... Singhanias are the one to be blamed here as of now... they haven't inquired abt the guy nor about the family... they are still thinking that Rishta's can be done the same old way.. Shankhari can bring good one & all they have to do is to say Yes... but time is changing... it's no more Dadaaji's Jamane now... so, yes a proper inquiry shud be done... and now is the situation where Rashmi has fallen for that guy... if they find anything worng with family now... then it wud be difficult to call off for Marriage & it will be difficult for Rashmi too...

Another point I am loooking here is thru Rashmi... She sopke with Suraj & rejected him coz their likings are different... she felt Suraj is not a good match for her... she might be right... but the issue here is... is she right in selecting Nikhil?? Nikhil called her in Club and she didn't find anything worng in that in spite of coming from a conservative famiy... coz she is not in a state to think otherwise... she kinda likes the freedom & that she will get being with him... she is in her own world of Fantacies... is this the only thing matters in Boy to look for?

she isn't mature enough to think all this... and hence she reprents many girls at her age... falling for a guy just by outer chamak dhamak at age of 18-19 and later on ends up paying for the affection...

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