May 5, 2011: Gau, Murli unease over Murari - Page 2

Vik

Previously, Murli was never allowed his time or space or temperature - there was always something happening related w/ Bharti, Rupesh, Prakash, Veena, RA or someone else.  Just when he's re-married, Murari is brought in and everybody demands that he instantly accept the changes.  I've noticed this in other serials - the moment Jyoti seemed to recover from her baby's loss, there was pressure on her to marry, and the moment Sandhya found Neeraj after the death of Yuvraj, there too her sisters were all on her case to marry ASAP.  (In RS, her sisters at least had the excuse that they didn't want to leave their families and tend to Sandhya in their maayka, and in Jyoti, her family didn't want someone whose reputation was already sunk to remain single.)  But what's Kamansi's & Bharli's reason?  Just to keep pace w/ TV?  Let them show mini-leaps where Murli is given time, and slowly accepts his original family.

Yeah, I think Gomti is going to be the trump card that can be used repeatedly to sway Murli, although I wonder whether that will result in Murari and all being successful in their plot.  I think Gau might damage the toy, Murli will guess it's her, and become even more bitter, and then join forces w/ Ashtami to make Gau's life miserable.  I sure hope it happens.

Bharti wearing that pallu when she's alone w/ Murli is hilarious (reminds me of Rohit and Shradhya, except that Murli is not the one who doesn't want to see her) Yeah, I too wish Amit & Bhushan stage a coup and take over Bharti sweets.  Then Murli will be unable to maintain this home, and everybody will have to leave.  I'll root for this plot, if there are no plans to bring in Parmeshwar Chauhan.  Hey, since they've messed up Murli's family life, why not do the same to Bharti? 😈

One more thing I wonder - I think I mentioned it in the EDT - what's it about these serial characters that joint families are always preferred, and if someone wants to take certain family members out of a household and live separately and independently, they are guilty of something akin to splitting India and Pakistan?  Sorry to keep dragging in other serials, but I can't help but notice this trend.  (In Jyoti, she'd did everything to keep Uday from leaving w/ Sudha, Sandeep from leaving w/ Poonam when they had their fight w/ her, Kabir from walking out on his family after Asha refused to back her, etc.)  I mean, Murli can forgive Murari and let him go back to his dharamshala or wherever, why does Kamala have to insist that they stay here?  And they don't even have the courtesy of asking Murli (although I bet that since Bharti is the reason this house is theirs, and she supports them, they were on safe turf here).

I think Jhumka would be better off leaving that zoo.  As Rakhie pointed out, the way Mridang treats her is out of bounds, given that she is their guest, not one of the bahus.  Problem is Gaushala too has no manners and just orders her to do chores around the house.  In fact, it almost looks like Mridang has 2 wives, until such time Dumroo marries Jhumka.  If that does happen, though, I expect Ashtik to make it so eventful that rather than it be a happy moment in Gau's life, they'll make it her nightmare.

Well Vrish i've said it many times seriously the CVs have not even given murli a single minute or a single second to rest in peace. he's surrounded by problems on all the sides. it looks like this serial is the story of a boy named murli rather than a girl named bharti🤔 Edited by vik rocks - 12 years ago

This joint family thing drives me nuts too.  I have lived separately from my in-laws for 9 years (I've been married for ten, and spent the first year with them).  But just because we've moved out doesn't mean we have left the family.  I go to stay with them every weekend (even though they live about 30 odd miles away!), and I stay with them most holidays.  (That's a bit too much even for my liking, but MIL is such a control freak, and frankly putting up with that is easier than dealing with the consequences of not doing it 😆)

ya as i keep saying baba aiso varr dhundo the story was of midget and her woes but she is being total doormat here

whatever murli faces etc but she is bringing more on her head by being  mahaan aatma

This serial isn't so much about the trials faced by a dwarf woman, but more about the trials faced by a man for having married that dwarf woman!

Vik, That's precisely it.  Even when I was a kid, my uncles (dad's bros) lived totally separately, but I used to meet my cousins pretty frequently.  These days, we do see each other a lot less, not b'cos of bad relations but mainly b'cos everybody has been busy w/ lives of their own, and so tend to see and talk to each other a lot less.

While watching the IPL a few days ago, I was channel surfing during the commercial break, and stopped @ one channel since it had the actress who played Purvi in RS.  There, one of the bahus was cooking fish in the kitchen, and the Purvi character there, as well as her other in-laws came down on her like a ton of bricks for cooking non-vegetarian stuff there.  After a brief argument, she threatened to take her hubby and leave the house, and suddenly, everyone else was grovelling, and begged her to stay, and that she was free to cook anything 😆 I thought - what the 🤬 - just let her and her hubby go, but stay in touch w/ them - it need not be 24-7.

I do hope that somehow, Murli doesn't pay any price.  Read: if he falls for the plots of Murari and kicks out his 'step'-family, I have no problems.  I just want him to hold the reigns of power, and when Murari tries to be the baba of the house, just kick him out, and read Ashtik the riot act - pick either Murari or Murli.

I agree w/ Rakhie - Bharti's first loyalty should be to Murli, even if that means it being her only loyalty.  This she could learn from Gaushala bhabi.  And yeah, looking @ her, one would think that she is a previous generation bahu, while her saas, both her jethanis and even her own mom are current generation bahus.  Whatever!  Her last point is correct - this story is more about Murli's misery, than Bharti's.  The serial name should just have been 'Murli'.  That way, they could also have freely switched it to Sudha, who would have been a much better bahu.

The serial was only true to its name when they showed Amarti planning their business moves.  They'd have done well to have shown them working together.  Now, this looks like that chapter in RS where Neeraj's extended family enters, just like here they've brought in Murli's birth family.

When I read your post re Edited by cheznazi - 12 years ago