Posted: 05 May 2011 at 6:41pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Lennie
@ LennieWhen you are fixing an alliance you dont really think about the actual person's feelings but only the facts that they match, and are good together, and know each other for ages and take care of each other...Its like any marriage fixing alliance isnt it in a way, a parent looking for a nice parther for their kid, not knowing what their own kid wants or feels in a way, they see a nice good quality girl and say she seems a good match for their own kid (imagine that sort of scenerio).. Lennie the scenario has changed vastly all over the globe not just India. I agree most parents tend to do that and it is completely wrong. How can a child feelings not be taken into account, it is a question of their life
From Gulaal's pov - all it is she has found a girl for Kesar, and sees the right match even better that they are friends and know each other well, what is wrong with it? nothing in a way but the big question is what and how Kesar sees it and since its a serial we all want to see Kesar's reaction to that and so on...What is WRONG is that she has bulit up hopes of that girl (Talli) from her childhood, she had ABSOLUTELY no business doing that. even if she thought the alliance of Kesar/Talli was good, there was no way she was going to know how they would react to each other when they grow up. I know it is not easy to accept faults of Gulaal...but this is one very big blunder she has made. Also not to forget both Motaba and Panba are still alive to make a decision for Kesar. She at least should have consulted them before comitting to Talli.
Yes Kesar's reaction we all are waiting to see and we most likely know also how he will react. But I am waiting to see when Gulaal will realize the mistake she has comitted. Though I do not like Talli very much, but I feel sorry for that girl, who will be heartbroken, once Kesar reveals his true feelings.
I dont think Kesar will be ready to marry Talli (almost all of us know that) and if Gulaal emotionally blackmails Kesar, for me she would have hit an all time low at that point.
Fact of the matter is Gulaal has taken some decisions in haste and consequences of that will have to be borne by her alone. Whether it was forgiving Vasant's murderer or fixing Kesar's alliance to Talli.