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Nivedita - CCBM's punching bag (Page 2)

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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 12:00pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by vids08

I agree its a disgusting episode. How can he shout at her?He does not have any answer when she asks what the problems is. Making alternate design too was such an underhanded way to undermine her.But, its not beyond men. viren always has a problem of not valueing what he has.First he had problem with his family, so Nivi made him realise it, now to realise Nivi's worth, she will have to die.
That will solve CTs problems too. They won't have to work their minds so hard to think of new ways to make her unhappy.
So disappointed today.
 
Vidya, accident is no solution.. Again who will suffer - Nivedita... I want an end to this suffering. Now somebody else should suffer in that house besides NiVren.

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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 12:16pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by anjubala

Originally posted by vids08

I agree its a disgusting episode. How can he shout at her?He does not have any answer when she asks what the problems is. Making alternate design too was such an underhanded way to undermine her.But, its not beyond men. viren always has a problem of not valueing what he has.First he had problem with his family, so Nivi made him realise it, now to realise Nivi's worth, she will have to die.
That will solve CTs problems too. They won't have to work their minds so hard to think of new ways to make her unhappy.
So disappointed today.
 
Vidya, accident is no solution.. Again who will suffer - Nivedita... I want an end to this suffering. Now somebody else should suffer in that house besides NiVren.
I agree with Anju, Vidya. Accidents are not the solution. These people need to sit and talk. No one opens there mouth here, sab kay sab under the carpet dal kar sojathey hai yaar.
Today for the first time I was so mad at Vandana, this is not the way to live life. They are not thinking of Nivi or Divya too. Yes, I said Divya because she with her stupid assumptions is losing a sweet and loving sister. Think about it, they both love each other so much, when the reality is known to Divya. how hurt she will be for hurting her sister. Atleast they could have avoided such long differences right, if they talked on the same day when Divya was acting all weird with Nivi. Instead of sending Nivi to the office, they should have made both the sisters sit and talk their differences but NO send her to office woh kya solution hai yaar. Everyone are thinking about the unborn child but what about Nivi who is going thru with this torture. If tomorrow Divya says she can't stay in the same house as Nivi will they throw Nivi out. Does that really help Nivi or Divya. Don't think I supporting Divya behaviour here but the way CT's are handling the situation is very wrong in every way.
 
They did the same with Viren, ek accident everyone realized how important he is for Sood's and he realized how much they love. But he still has that insecurity and vulnerablity in him deep down and its coming out again.
They did the same with NivRen, he saves Yash from gundas and gets hit really hard and wallah Nivi thinks he changed. Come on From the day stalker was revealed they did not sit and talk their heart out. There are so many questions unanswered and still they don't talk.
 
I don't know what to think, as married couple we all know how important it is to talk our heart out with our spouse but they never show that inthe story yaar.
In the beginning the story was so realistic but slowly its going dramatic way.  
 

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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 12:21pm | IP Logged
Milee, jitna hum log is forum mein communicate karte hain uska agar 1% bhi CTs dikhayen to CCBM No 1 show hoga TV industry mein. I am shocked that in today's day and agae when world is using the benefits of technology, these people are not going through the forum to find out what viewers think and what they want/ Leave that, I am sending daily feedback of episodes to Rajanji...haath mein unko khana de rahi hun but still nothing.. Horrible folks.

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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 12:56pm | IP Logged
Ok Anju, I am back with my answer. Actually don't think I am going against you, me too feel the same way as you that for CT's main lead of the show and that Female lead means she needs to go thru with hell and just out of the bloom they will throw some happiness here and there as grace and at the end of the series last 30 minutes they show everything good and happy and happily ever after and Done.
This was the main reason I stopped watching drama series from past 10+ years. I could not take this torture so best solution quit watching dramas. But when I saw CCBM promo I thought Nivi was almost similar to me when I was young and I wanted to see her growth and have to say the original CT's were brilliant they kept her character almost real. But it went down the drain when new CT's took over, the whole story now seems very dramatic, fictional and cannot relate to Nivi's character at all, she doesnot seems real at all. Who will go thru so much in real life without giving up, they will show some kind of emotion or break some kind of resolve but not Nivi. I cannot feel the same realistic sense like before.
Coming back to your topic and my answer, I think this is the first time we will be differing in opinions but just a little not much.
I will tell you something in the beginning when Nivi asked "did she make any mistakes" Viren's answer was proper because he too knows that she is not at fault for being talented, for clients appreciating her work, she was not at all at fault there but he was feeling very bad, he wanted to prove himself so the answer that he wants to work hard and prove himself and he gave her this answer sincerely.
And then he shouted at her in the office, why? because he was in so much temper right then and you know how men are when they lose their temper and specially he just heard what the other guys were talking about and the same guy comes inside to talk about the project so he lost it and right at the moment in comes our sweet Nivi and talks to him and he lost it and yelled at her (typically manly reaction) and him ignoring her phone calls, I don't know what CT's will show from tomorrow about his behaviour but as per me he wanted to calm himself down, because in this Nivi is not at all at fault for whatever is happening with him, she just did what he asked her to do. But its going all the wrong way. If CT's really handle this properly, this will really work wonders with NivRen. Before he was child and he could not understand and talk to elders and thus him being sent away to hostel but today he is an adult and he knows what is right and wrong, and Nivi is love of his life and he knows how understanding she is. If they talk it over, they can solve this problem and their relation will be on a different level BUT I STopped Expecting anything from CT's.
And Viren's dialogue about Kismet, he was talking about how he always try to be the best but it always backfire on him. And you know Anju, his insecurities, vulnerabilities are not cleared at all because no one from Sood family sat with him and talked to him about those days. They just said we love you and done with it. 20+ years of insecurities cannot be cleared from one's mind and heart just like that. That is the reason I am saying if CT's handle this properly they should make Viren sit and talk with Nivi and pour his heart out.
 
BUT Nivi should give him time. Please don't think I am against Nivi, but sometimes I don't understand Nivi stand at all and specially with Viren.
When VD said Nivi understands everyone so much without them telling but she never once did understood Viren. I don't know why CT's this blunder.
She understood his pain after stalker revealation because when she asked him he poured his heart out, if not she would have never understood his pain. The day when Viren fought with CC for Nivi and broke up with his mom, she did not give him complete emotional support. I really did not understand Nivi's stand that day.
Even when dadaji praized Viren but Viren said its all Nivi's doing, she once did not tell infront of the family that it was because of your support I could do it, she did not acknowledge him not then and not even with VD, when she asked her is everything all right at the office. Nivi's answer was that you and dadaji thought something good for me and your blessings are my strength.
I only remember her acknowledging Viren is divorce fiasco time and infront of Keshav before Viren left.
I don't know this is my feeling, she should acknowledge his support more.
And today, she heard everything what Viren was saying to that guy in the office and still she thinks, Viren is busy with work and that is the reason he is behaving like that. Come on, didn't you hear what he was saying Nivedita mam kay paas jao for every question, even a lame person can understand something is not right.
About those files, I hope nothing major happens between NivRen. Sometimes, I get so worried the way CT's handle these situations are so stupid.
 
Please don't think I am going against Nivi and supporting Viren. I am feeling so sad and worried for NivRen. I want them to communicate and give each other emotional support and stabilize their life.
Already NivRen went thru so much and Nivi from every possible side is hit with something or the other I don't want them to suffer more. I want them to live some peaceful moments, without any tensions.
 
Sorry, if I hurt you or anyone with my post this is what I feel. They both are wrong to some extent and want them to fix it before something major happens.
 

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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 12:59pm | IP Logged
Nice post...when i think abt CCBM and nivi ths comes to mi mind
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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 12:59pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by anjubala

Milee, jitna hum log is forum mein communicate karte hain uska agar 1% bhi CTs dikhayen to CCBM No 1 show hoga TV industry mein. I am shocked that in today's day and agae when world is using the benefits of technology, these people are not going through the forum to find out what viewers think and what they want/ Leave that, I am sending daily feedback of episodes to Rajanji...haath mein unko khana de rahi hun but still nothing.. Horrible folks.
I know yaar Anju, I don't know why they hell bent on doing this. And I really applaud your persistence in sending emails to Rajanji even now, I really hope he listens to your voice and makes some changes.
 
YOu know sometimes I feel, its better the show ends instead of seeing this character changes and stupid tracks where we are tortured along with the leads.

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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 1:09pm | IP Logged

Milee, why do you think I will not agree to your thoughts. Yes we are individuals and I am glad for once our thoughts differed a bit. Your points are really valid and even I am not able to understand Nivi sometimes specially when she did not calmed him down when he had fight with his mom and then when she thanked Sid infront of whole family for supporting her. I was like - Are you out of your mind? Of all people you are thanking him and for what? Where is your gratitude and thanks for your husband who has in real sense supported you always?

But again I did not like how he shouted at her and how in cafe he is saying his kismat is kharab... These 2 things have hurt me the most. If his kismat was kharab then he would not have gotten his family and Nivi back. If his kismat was kharab then DS would not have praised him and would not have congratulated him for getting the contract. They all have acknowledged his hardwork that is why he was praised. Who asked him to give that praise to Nivi? And tell Sid to let Nivi handle the project.

Yes, I agree with your point about communication and that nobody asked him about his insecurities... That is a must. But as you said he is an adult and now he should not behave this way. He should not let his insecurities come in his way. He has suffered enough so he should just go and talk instead of ignoring Nivi. He knows that she has figured out that something is wrong and she has asked him too. So  just open up. Milee, men are weak emotionally hence they need support from their mom, sister or wife...

So let us see how CTs mould this track and what we get to see.

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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 1:13pm | IP Logged
Nice post Anju and Millie and agree with you and both of you are right at your place even I find they don't have enough communication among them and clear things out. Both are wrong at their place.

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