Posted: 19 May 2011 at 12:55am | IP Logged
Originally posted by niddzz
Originally posted by mystique_girl
Loved this update as well...it was really really good
I can see quite contrary views from the IF members on the behavior of Maan ...
Well I am quite fine with the way it is going...Ofcourse Geet wants to make this marriage work but she has not explicitly shown in her actions that she feels anything for Maan apart from trust and a sense of friendship. Her behavior towards the family has been like a member and her bonding with Dadi very close - but the whole family loves her back as much as well - there is no doubting that in their actions.
As for the magazine, i guess from when Geet came to Delhi, they have kept her identity hidden so that she is not barred from leading a normal life and also bcoz she was not used to being a public figure. Thats Dadima and Maan's way of protecting her from the outside world and media and letting her live a simple life- which i guess is praiseworthy.
I really have no answers in my mind about why the marriage wasnt disclosed - you would need to tell me this. But I will not bash Maan - he in his own way is feeling for Geet and his actions show it...its more than just protection for a family member - its attraction, friendship, sense of trust and comfort, protectiveness,possessiveness and many more...
I have no expectations from the party - i dont know if you want her to be there or not .. but i know her family will not do injustice to her and nor will you... i just see a dance coming up after other failed dance situations between them
But I am looking forward to your early post to pacify the readers here
maan is contradicting with his behavior here...in his self talks wich we have read many a tyms he decides to keep himself away 4m her and not let her in indirectly comparing her with sameera...but his behavior we witness tells sum odr story...if he is bein a frnd to her why din he share is happiness of his achievement with her...he cam running to delhi...that counts but in anyways he was returnin the next day...and he din do any thin gr8 after cumin there...!!!
maan needs to clesr out what he actually wants...either block her completely lyk it was 4 past almost 10 mnths or let her in completely...he is just confusing geet anh givin her false hopes by not taking a stand himself...!!!! she was sad after readin the magazine...did he realize ???? only dadi noticed and considered it as her pain...!!! if he feels 4 her he needs to cum in terms wid his own feelings...!!!! ...just mah thots...ppl can shoot their POVs...!!!
btw sanju are u updating...me cant wait 4 the party...pweezzpweezzz update soon ...would love to read ur POV on the entire issue in the update...WAITING>>!!!
well, i will just stick to Sanjeevani's words "not everyone stands on mountain top and shouts." he is a gentleman and there are no half measures with him - his past experiences donot let him commit unless he can give his 100% to the relationship. he has to be convinced himself that he loves her and only then can he take a stand. he is a hard man,an introvert - so sharing his success doesn't come naturally to him. maybe thats the reason he didn't say anything to geet.
he is also unaware of geet's feelings towards him. i understand its a slow process but from both sides - we have to take into account that they were complete strangers who didnt want to get married. both of them are with each other when they need each other the most and they have most of the ingredients to fall in love. its just a matter of time and patience, for them and for us
Just adding my two more cents