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hey i thought was right dev is indeed gay!
wow i wonder why geet never think about this within five years she spent with him?
why she take blame on her self all the time?

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Read a couple of comments here and there and realised that Dev's sexuality has become a bone of contention here!

Well, I agree with Hasini's stance. For starters, Dev was an Indian and that fact stays-you can't really taje out the societal pressures from an Indian even if he moves to some place outside India. Well, thats how I think it is based on looking at my extended family who lives outside India though I have no empirical evidence to support my claim, and also, i guess that somewhere Dev's Mom was mentioned too, so, if I am not wrong, family pressure held too!

 

Moreover, though the other countries are liberal about sexuality several times over as compared to India, the truth of the matter is that they are still not liberal enough to make people from countries like India be comfortable coming out of the closet, particularly because despite not living in India, most Indians maintain primarily Indian circles and hence, the same connect!

 

As I would like to guess, the pressure in such cases to gain is immense...the pressure of being left alone-that is to be socially acceptable(in most cases by getting married like a usual guy would), and I think he did the same. His attempt  to wash his hands off any social stigma did turn out to be horribly bad for Geet and to some extent for Naini, and there is no denying this fact.

 

I am completely satisfied with the closure provided!

 

Love

Swati

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Originally posted by 6thElement

Originally posted by night13



It does matter whom the affair or the
infidelities is concurred with, specially the sex of the partner! As per survey of divorced couples, of which 99% of the people who go through marriage counseling, will tell you that such impact are harder to deal with then just having an affair with the opposite sex. Geet must ask Dev..'why wasn't I (as a women) enough, that you had to go find a man'! I must say that I still believe in the archaic (Per Se: by itself) of all relationships.



Yes I agree with the stats that you are quoting, but 99% of couples going through a divorce resulting from which kind of an affair?
This is only applicable to the case, when the spouse assorts to an external party after they deem their marital relationship is doomed or does not feel sated with the emotional and sexual gratification after even trying to make something out  of it.
This is a case where its a sense of betrayal. This does not call Geet's inabilities to provide a happy married life to Dev into question. Well she will be smart girl, if only she can latch onto that difference.

How can Geet ask a man who has always been a closet Gay? That, "Hey I understand you always preferred the opposite sex, but now that we are married, can you try rewiring your psyche?" If only this was even possible, then she could even validate the feelings of insecurity. Else everything is lost on the argument above. (Ok...you made me write the argument from Maan there! )

As for your Per se statement. I dont get it at all Aarya. Please clarify.

Hasini


The two points which I failed to make you understand..
-- There is a difference between
infidelities vs man or woman of the opposite sex
-- The much needed closure in Geet's character is now another open end question.

The NYT started with story of Geet and I assume you will end with her character getting the justice, closure which is needed.


ps..
archaic meaning classic.. man & women!:)





Edited by night13 - 05 July 2011 at 6:21pm

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Originally posted by 6thElement

Originally posted by princess163

Read a couple of comments here and there and realised that Dev's sexuality has become a bone of contention here!

Well, I agree with Hasini's stance. For starters, Dev was an Indian and that fact stays-you can't really taje out the societal pressures from an Indian even if he moves to some place outside India. Well, thats how I think it is based on looking at my extended family who lives outside India though I have no empirical evidence to support my claim, and also, i guess that somewhere Dev's Mom was mentioned too, so, if I am not wrong, family pressure held too!

 

Moreover, though the other countries are liberal about sexuality several times over as compared to India, the truth of the matter is that they are still not liberal enough to make people from countries like India be comfortable coming out of the closet, particularly because despite not living in India, most Indians maintain primarily Indian circles and hence, the same connect!

 

As I would like to guess, the pressure in such cases to gain is immense...the pressure of being left alone-that is to be socially acceptable(in most cases by getting married like a usual guy would), and I think he did the same. His attempt  to wash his hands off any social stigma did turn out to be horribly bad for Geet and to some extent for Naini, and there is no denying this fact.

 

I am completely satisfied with the closure provided!

 

Love

Swati



I can't appreciate enough of you taking time to write 5 posts so far. Thanks for that Swati. Giving into social pressures is one thing for sure and need to conform has greatly battered the emotional setting of Geet.
There is so much to this, that I will not be able to write it all for Dev when my leads are M&G. Although there is still no closure to Geet is the point I have been driving home. Of course with future updates we will reach some point, but necessarily a full one, given that it cannot be achieved with the lifetime I'm writing for Geet (which is hardly a few more months)

Thanks for stopping by Swati,
Hasini
 
 
Well, first of all my posts were long due,,,I was missing the thread for quite a few days now! I  remember going away during my exams and all that talk of this one ending soon! that just made me run away! But, I am back for good hopefully and there shall be pit-stops after each update that I read.Smile
When I talk about closure here, I meant it for Dev's character as I know Geet's character has far more to go before a closure can be provided, if at all its possible!
See you soon, with the comments on the updates from where I left!
Love
Swati

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