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Poll Question: How many of u think jagya is wrong for anandi..

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11 [10.78%]
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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 8:01am | IP Logged
Originally posted by priya2904

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Recently v have seen end of jagya -anandi relation...coz jagya loves gauri... and he said anandi is anpadh gawarShocked (God knows a gal who topped in both highschool and inter how can be anpadhConfused)
I know dis child marriage was wrong... But when jagya brought back anadi dey were adults... Dey were in a relation... Jagya loved anandi... If he thinks Anandi was not suitable for him he should have ended d relation when she had gone to her parents... He should never bring her back... Being physical wid her and loving Gauri.. He slept wid anandi on one bed and loved gauri Ouch  all Dis in my POV shows jagya's charater is very bad..Wink
What do u guys think?????????????????????????Smile


I don't think J is bad because he slept wid A. He thought he was in love with A when she was at her parents but she was his only exposure to a woman and he mistook his physical attraction for her as love. The other time when he was in love with Gauri, he is shown to be struggling to come back to A as he had guilt. When he was physical with A, he wasn't dating Gauri, in fact avoiding her. From what I have seen, J break all her physical ties with A as soon as he confessed his love for G.

Having said that, I do not like J's character because he is selfish for keeping his wife and his girlfriend in dark. He shud have told them the truth as soon as he understood he loves G and doesn't love A anymore.



but den also he insisted anandi to sleep wid him on one bed when she was going away... wat will u say for dat...
and when a man will sleep wid a woman on one bed for 5-10 days obviously he will have some feelings...Smile


I think a man (or woman) can sleep with their partners on the same bed for months and still have no love for each other. I agree with Divmath, that he slept in the same bed with her so that no one questions them. You might remember Gehna raising her eyebrows when she saw Anandi sleeping in separate room.

Is it good to walk out of your marriage? No it is not, but in my opinion it is also not good to be trapped in a loveless marriage. That's why I want Anandi to leave J and become independent.

As far as J's love for G, I think he loves her, but he is not a real person and his character is in hands of the writers. They can twist whichever way they like.

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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 8:07am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sonia77

I think its too obvious that jagiya has no romantic feelings for anandi...he did only for an instant when he had no choice..and didnt know better!..this unfortunately is the harsh reality of child marriage which the creatives are showing very well...
 
It would have been nice if both anandi and jagiya had felt nothing but a mutual friendship as they grew older..this way no one would have been hurt and alongside the ill effects of this practice could have been mantained as well...but then again..that kind of a track would have lacked bigtime melodrama..which is what the indian viewer wants..Wink
 
So Jagiya has a right to choose his life partner..in that respect he's right...his accusations to the father also have a basis undoubtedly...however he has been wrong in using lies and arrogance to deal with the situation!


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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 10:02am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sonia77

I think its too obvious that jagiya has no romantic feelings for anandi...he did only for an instant when he had no choice..and didnt know better!..this unfortunately is the harsh reality of child marriage which the creatives are showing very well...
 
It would have been nice if both anandi and jagiya had felt nothing but a mutual friendship as they grew older..this way no one would have been hurt and alongside the ill effects of this practice could have been mantained as well...but then again..that kind of a track would have lacked bigtime melodrama..which is what the indian viewer wants..Wink
 
So Jagiya has a right to choose his life partner..in that respect he's right...his accusations to the father also have a basis undoubtedly...however he has been wrong in using lies and arrogance to deal with the situation!

noo but like anandi he also waited for those long 5 years.. he even came to her village just to have her glimpse... No one can deny dat jagya didnt loved anandi and dat was just infatution.. d thing is dat now jagya has seen modern gals and anandi is still in village...Smile.

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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 10:19am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sonia77

I think its too obvious that jagiya has no romantic feelings for anandi...he did only for an instant when he had no choice..and didnt know better!..this unfortunately is the harsh reality of child marriage which the creatives are showing very well...
 
It would have been nice if both anandi and jagiya had felt nothing but a mutual friendship as they grew older..this way no one would have been hurt and alongside the ill effects of this practice could have been mantained as well...but then again..that kind of a track would have lacked bigtime melodrama..which is what the indian viewer wants..Wink
 
So Jagiya has a right to choose his life partner..in that respect he's right...his accusations to the father also have a basis undoubtedly...however he has been wrong in using lies and arrogance to deal with the situation!

Completely with you Sonia !! well said...

Even I feel Jagya "never" loved Anandi...it was just a friendship which turned into teenage attraction...and the CV's are indeed doing a great job of sending out the right message about evils of Child Marriage ! Thumbs Up 

Only thing that I am not liking is...in this whole scenario they just ruined Jagya's character Confused but I still understand where he is coming from...I mean not his MCP attitude or arrogance (I hate that)...but from Jagya's pov and his falling in love with Gauri is what I support completely...I dont think he has done anything wrong there...but I do wish he had handled this situation in a mature manner and not insulted Anandi like he did...as I said he did not love her, but she was his best friend...at least for that friendship he should have given her some amount of respect !

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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 12:16pm | IP Logged
just for mere attraction no boy will wait for 5 years n secretly go to see dat gal... gauri z merely an attraction for jagat.. dat only cvs wants to show... and one day like a typical hindi drama jagya will realize his mistake...Smile

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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 12:47pm | IP Logged

So 34 people feel anandi and jagiya should end...and in comparision..6 people still trying to justify the relationship..Wink...well..the verdict seems pretty clear then..Smile

Well..at the time he waited for her.he didn't know better...thats what we are trying to say...he had no choice at the time...the minute choices came along...wether right or wrong...he made his!!!...didnt he...Wink

Jokes apart..hats off to the creatives for bringing out this track and sticking to their guns of sending the right message across...only thing that could have been avaoided is the melodrama..and anandis constant crying...which i suppose is for the benefit of ratings...

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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 4:11pm | IP Logged
I am one of the 37 people who say that Anandi should find someone better but yes I also believe that Jags loved her at one point and he is infatuated with Gauri

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Posted: 04 May 2011 at 8:24pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sonia77

So 34 people feel anandi and jagiya should end...and in comparision..6 people still trying to justify the relationship..Wink...well..the verdict seems pretty clear then..Smile

Well..at the time he waited for her.he didn't know better...thats what we are trying to say...he had no choice at the time...the minute choices came along...wether right or wrong...he made his!!!...didnt he...Wink

Jokes apart..hats off to the creatives for bringing out this track and sticking to their guns of sending the right message across...only thing that could have been avaoided is the melodrama..and anandis constant crying...which i suppose is for the benefit of ratings...

dey have already ended...LOL
37 people think jagya is doing wrong and is responsible for anandi's bad situation...Tongue

dat man is not suitable for anandi... anandi should get someone who can understand her...  not a selfish and arrogant man like jagat...


Edited by priya2904 - 04 May 2011 at 8:52pm

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