Update for Tuesday May 3rd - DIL's Reunion - Page 3

Sudha made an interesting statement today, 'whatever someone says bad about his mom even with proof, no man will believe. But everyone will believe whatever bad thing the onlookers tell about his wife.'

Originally posted by: Tanu.

Sudha & Thulasi's reunion is up to something...maybe Sudha might over hear GW's phone convo with Psycho...if TA believing or no is not a question here...if Thulasi get to know..she will be aware that Charu is up to something...and Sudha will be very careful from now onwards too as she knows how her athai tricked her earlier...this small misunderstanding made Sudha & Thulasi's bond to get stronger...i liked it!

All i can say about Mr.TA is that a big shock is waiting for him in the name of money lenders sooner or later...

To this selfish queen Lav...all her MIL said was to stop the grinder because her FIL is on phone...for that she is crying...what can i say  about this girl...2nd reception aam🤢...is she kidding?..FIL is worried about VR's health and downhill of their business...but she wants reception?..i hope Nithesh go asks his mom right away so Lav can get some serious scolding and cry more...

Originally posted by: maha2us

Thanks Nicole for the detailed update.

Venkat's wife proved to be sensible. But still Shyamala has to be an understanding person and then only she could become happy in the marriage.

Good to see Thulasi and Sudha patching up. Sudha again is shown as a practical person and a woman who could be an asset to the family anytime. When she told she is giving only the sample items as gifts to Thulasi, she showed her love for herself and only this type of person could be of good help to others and not a person like TA who is just burning himself.  Why is he not going for a job?  Also  Sudha  handled maturely the slapping her husband gave her. Hopefully Puvi has more respect and love for her from now on. She also showed she has understood Thulasi. One thing she could do is she should not bother about her good name. Why is she keen to maintain a good name with a gutter woman who could cook without fire? Hopefully Thulasi will learn to be bold. Thulasi too did well to take initiative to patch up with Sudha. Hopefully the two DILs do something together to bring down their gutter MIL.

In contrast to Thulasi and Sudha, is GW's daughter, Laavanya. Nitish should very well ask Laavanya why is she behaving like a child. While Sudha and Thulasi are looking for more of self-expression, Laavanya pulls on her husband to have reception. Hopefully Nitish understands that he is not responsible for his wife's unhappiness. Does Laavanya believe someone will give money for unnecessary expenditures? My girl! Learn from your SIL Sudha.

Sue, Nitish's parents surely should act hard on their son to instill self-responsibility in him. It will really be a good lesson for him to let him live away with his wife and finding a job for himself. Dealing with his wife itself is going to be a good lesson for him. Laavanya is selfish and he is surely going to be drained as she will be like a sulky baby without realizing her husband's tensions. Already he is not comfortable with her as she wanted him to tell lie. It is very well possible someday he will be so disgusted of his wife and she will run away to live with her gutter mom. Only the GW and her daughter could live together unless Laavanya changes to become a more loving person. Surely Puvi or TA are not going to face this problem, as their wives are active on their own accord.
Edited by maha2us - 12 years ago

Originally posted by: maha2us

Sue, Nitish's parents surely should act hard on their son to instill self-responsibility in him. It will really be a good lesson for him to let him live away with his wife and finding a job for himself. Dealing with his wife itself is going to be a good lesson for him. Laavanya is selfish and he is surely going to be drained as she will be like a sulky baby without realizing her husband's tensions. Already he is not comfortable with her as she wanted him to tell lie. It is very well possible someday he will be so disgusted of his wife and she will run away to live with her gutter mom. Only the GW and her daughter could live together unless Laavanya changes to become a more loving person. Surely Puvi or TA are not going to face this problem, as their wives are active on their own accord.

tks tanu yr update was interesting to read with side comments and nice title..

Afeter seeing so mnay cmnts i wished to add how i saw TA's role in this matter

TA's characterisation is still the same, i do agree to it...however he was shown in the begining he s still the same, except the point..his decision towards work..its high time he choose an alternative..as he knows the demands for it..he himself listed it to Joseph..which will gradually reduce his burdens one by one..but dunno why creative heads are messing up with this which s unbelievable here..

I agree that happy moments, celebrations are then and then required and the way he spoke about psych at that time and nnot letting T to proceed about GW is all quiet convinving...a typical TA's style of handling...he is neutral to both...if there is a mistake points out to them, be it GW, lav, or T and if he feels he s wrong he does not hesitate to apologize for it. As of now he does not have a clear picture as he has always seen sudha as a negative character(sending T's photo and letter to C house, building separate house)...still he does not hate her...but does not want T to completely blv her as he feels there s a chance Sudha might take advatage.
WRT deepa Nit has become solid support and he cannot judge it, fact being he was not happy that deepa was involving in family issues.

Yday's dialogues - sudha told men will not blv about wifes and trust only mom - but here i felt T shd have defended TA, bcos he showed his trust on T even when solid evidenced were available, plus now he s only neutral..he did not blv GW/T...

Same time i dont agree he uses T for romancing alone...but the problem here is the monday's episode third part totally ruined his true intentions...he acting before third person to his wife is wrong either it was for money or for sweet...the sequence of scenes was a totall mess...his intentions were..he wants to make T happy and at the same time want her to know the spl day which made his life colourful..plus at the same time he was worried about the issues too...the only point is he shd not let others know that he s hiding things from his wife..which i feel is a bigger flaw and a character mess..
Edited by shubba - 12 years ago

Originally posted by: shubba

TA's characterisation is still the same, i do agree to it...however he was shown in the begining he s still the same, except the point..his decision towards work..its high time he choose an alternative..as he knows the demands for it..he himself listed it to Joseph..which will gradually reduce his burdens one by one..but dunno why creative heads are messing up with this which s unbelievable here..

I agree that happy moments, celebrations are then and then required and the way he spoke about psych at that time and nnot letting T to proceed about GW is all quiet convinving...a typical TA's style of handling...he is neutral to both...if there is a mistake points out to them, be it GW, lav, or T and if he feels he s wrong he does not hesitate to apologize for it. As of now he does not have a clear picture as he has always seen sudha as a negative character(sending T's photo and letter to C house, building separate house)...still he does not hate her...but does not want T to completely blv her as he feels there s a chance Sudha might take advatage.
WRT deepa Nit has become solid support and he cannot judge it, fact being he was not happy that deepa was involving in family issues.

Yday's dialogues - sudha told men will not blv about wifes and trust only mom - but here i felt T shd have defended TA, bcos he showed his trust on T even when solid evidenced were available, plus now he s only neutral..he did not blv GW/T...

Same time i dont agree he uses T for romancing alone...but the problem here is the monday's episode third part totally ruined his true intentions...he acting before third person to his wife is wrong either it was for money or for sweet...the sequence of scenes was a totall mess...his intentions were..he wants to make T happy and at the same time want her to know the spl day which made his life colourful..plus at the same time he was worried about the issues too...the only point is he shd not let others know that he s hiding things from his wife..which i feel is a bigger flaw and a character mess..

This job issue I'm seriously thinking is due to my earlier reason that he simply doesn't want to work anywhere else due to sentiment... LOL... I'm not even gonna bother about this issue anymore, tired of beggin the director to send him back 😭

Agreed there TA definitely doesn't believe what others say about Thuls...even though he listens to what they say, he never doubts his wife... even now with the accusations against GW, he thinks Thuls simply misunderstood his mom and is a victim of listening to Deepa and Sudha and whomever else. When the truth is he is a victim of listening to GW/Charu and so as Vjayam said he's definitely gonna be hurt bad when all the truth comes out their betrayal.

another reason why i feel that the team has kept him as jobless is only then he wud face the 4 lacs problem and get into such a situation that what GW n lav has done wud really hurt him, otherwise the saree matter n other things are really not so big for him to guess GW's true intentions...