Sid: a sponge:Mod's note PG7 - Page 2

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

"a little knowing is a dangerous thing"...

I think many who are hooked to CCBM, did not watch the beginning of CCBM 🤣 and make ignorant comments... its good to be ignorant sometime though🤣...but its really painful to read ignorant comments...this was exactly what had happened in another lead show of the same production house, and its hilarious, to read different interpretations now.

CCBM had a full proof story before Viren was introduced and even before the "fight" had happened.

 

Those who have watched CCBM will know how Nivedita despite going out for midnight dates and hugging and kissing Sid, just shrugged off Sid even before she and her family was insulted by Soods. I wonder, if instead of Nivedita, Sid was in love with another girl and Nivedita after knowing that Divya loves Sid, what not she would have done to get rid of that girl from Sid's life?...I anticipate she might have played a game with HL to get that girl out of Sid's life and fix Divya into Sid's life.

 

The beauty of Sid's character is Sid married Divya, just to keep DS's wish, but at the same time when he came to know that Nivedita still loves him, he tried to rectify but Nivedita wanted to marry Viren, she also had her own good reasons. After that, he kept his pain to himself and tried to be a nice husband to Divya and also never ever questioned DS, why DS forced him to marry Divya? He could have easily schemed or planned against DS or shrugged off Divya, but he did not. He could have easily schemed and planned against Nivedita and Viren after knowing how theyt behaved with him but he did not.

 

My opinion is Nivedita is a "subconsciously" revengeful character, she does not believe in either apologising or forgiving....she will come back to Viren also, but she wants Viren to fall on her feet and cry buckets and then she will accept him.

 

 hi sorry if i made u feel bad with my comments  n u r right i am 1 of those ppl who dnt watch the serial when it 1st started coz i stay in south africa n the serial only started in nov- in my post i forgot to mention that i did realize that he got married to d coz of DS's wish. but i feel that most of the comments that i made ab him dnt actually relate to the love story that happened btw him n nivi from the beginning but rather his behavior during his wedding and afterwards.- n the comments that i made wnt ignorant coz i mean u just have to look at the wedding scene or when D had those dolls n wanted to float them in the river i mean he did hurt her-  even though D kn that he was marrying her 4 his DS sake she dnt kn the whole story n if she did she wnt have married her. but the truth is that i think the reason i dislike sidd is coz the actor who plays acted so bad, i just could not connect with his character -he just seemed unnatural in the role-he just dnt stand out 4 me- but after 4 months of watching him i realise he is nt 2 bad.( he is acting much better).

secondly i dnt think that nivi is a subconscious vengeful character i mean what did u expect her to do when on her cousin wedding day the husband 2 be  is telling her  he is going to  stop the wedding n he dnt care if her cousin is hurt or not- as for viren that dude needs to cry buckets n buckets of tears b4 she accepts him back after what he did.

oh i just wanted to kn since i dnt watch the serial from the beginning in yours n any1 else unbiased opinion who has watched the serial from the beginning whose chemistry is better sid/nivi or niviren

I don't know y ssome people think themselves as authority on CCBM coz they think they r the only ones who have watched CCBM from the beginning. Well we have also watched it from the beginning that's y we have this opinion coz if we had started watching the serial from the middle our sympathies would have been with S. coz he has been portrayed so goody goody after that. If anyone watches S. character with the eyes closed we really can't do anything abt it coz the people who watch it with eyes closed can see his character to be flawless.

Originally posted by: zarmeeno

I don't know y ssome people think themselves as authority on CCBM coz they think they r the only ones who have watched CCBM from the beginning. Well we have also watched it from the beginning that's y we have this opinion coz if we had started watching the serial from the middle our sympathies would have been with S. coz he has been portrayed so goody goody after that. If anyone watches S. character with the eyes closed we really can't do anything abt it coz the people who watch it with eyes closed can see his character to be flawless.

- On a wedding day ur sis to be hubby wants to cancel the wedding any self respect sis would do the same what Nivi did coz if she would not have done it then she would have been selfish to let her sis and her family get humiliated by S.

 

- S. could have still refuse to get marry to D. when Nivi was leaving with Viren but he very quietly went and sat down in mandap.

 

- S. at that time told Viren that goess he not care abt the family honor and on the other hand he was also abt to do the same thing and not only play with his family honor but the bride side family honor as well.

 

- S. started looking for the truth only after Nivi blamed him for whatever was happening around her and he wanted to prove himself innocent and not to help Nivi coz otherwise he seemed totally fine when Nivi was being declared mad and was dragged.

 

These r just the few incidents. I can also come up with the lot more. Still after doing all this he is being declared so innocent wowwwwwwwwwwwww

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

A sponge absorbs everything in itself. After reading these days episodes, I feel Sid is like a sponge. Neither Nivedita nor Viren ever thought any good about him, what they thought was how to punish him, sometime Sid was at fault, sometime not. Both Nivedita and Viren were highly instrumental for Sid's "unwilling" marriage to Divya. Viren's mother schemed, Viren schemed against Sid. Nivedita in her sacrifice mode gave up Sid during engagement, and in her revenge mode, made sure Sid gets married to someone, who he does not love.

 

Today, the irony is its Sid only who is making Viren understand and also trying to resolve the difference.😆 He probably can feel the pain, how it is to get parted from people one loves.  He has the heart to feel the pain, a heart to seek apology when committing mistake, and also to forgive when a mistake is being done to him. Neither Nivedita nor Viren could forgive Sid's mistake or "no mistake". Nivedita was never even properly- apologetic to Sid for labelling him "stalker", still Sid is trying in his means to unite them.

 

Forgiveness, seeking apology, dutifulness etc are associated with Sid... and I am glad that he is not complaining to anyone, neither DS for bringing a wife like Divya, or to Nivedita for misunderstanding him or Viren, for trying to frame him. Whatever Nivedita did for Viren, was for her own husband, sooner or later, she also will confess how much she loves him and that only because she loves Viren, she did all these. Sid, in his own way, is not onyl trying to find peace with his insensitive wife, but also trying to resolve the difference between the two persons: Nivedita and Viren, by making them realise their love! what a tragedy. Niovedita and Viren made sure Sid spens his life with a girl he does not love, and Sid on the other hand is trying to make Viren and Nivedita understand their love for each other.😆

 

 

I am wondering what story they tried to start in July and where they landed!😆

 

 

 

 

 

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

@sandiab

 

Thanks for your comment. I'ld read it in more detail later. I am sorry I gave a glance and I am writing you a reply. Please excuse me, if it does not fit your response.

 

actually, I think you are mistaken about me. I am not talking about Sid-Nivedita marriage or anything. I never did and will never do. By default, it is taken in the forum, whoever speaks anything other praising Nivedita-Viren, speak about Sid-Nivi marriage🤣. If you have read my comments and could really feel my comments, you would have understood that I do not speak about any love story. I talk about the story point of view. Kinshuk looking good with a girl is a different concept, that in no way, is related to the original story concept. I am talking about the story. I do not think too great about TV actors, except a few, and hence I am the last person to get woo-ed by a TV actor. I talk only about the story. The story was something different in the beginning and it has no relation to that now.

 

why i wrote about watching the show from beginning: because then only one can know the whole picture and one event led to another, how each character has been built. I myself started watching when the story has progressed a lot, but I was a part of that major group in that forum. But Ithen  could read some beautiful analyses from some other people who have watched from the beginning and that made me watch all the precious episodes and know what is what! ( those people were all chased away from this forum unfortunately).

 

 the main triumph card in this show is Kinshuk Mahajan. You cast him with any girl, the show will be a hit. But that does not determine right and wrong in the story track. This show would have reached a pick with the love triangle of Sid-Nivi-Viren, and there was no need of stalking or any negativity. But my guess is the story is being drastically altered lately and is being catered to show romanticisms, emotional drama more to increase TRPs. I was really hoping to see Kinshuk Mahajan in an "unique " role as was promised, but he was just reduced to less than a mediocre character.

 

My predictions are:

 

Nivedita will be proved to be a good sister through Yash's problems now.

Nivedita's caracter will be sketched like that of Kajol of that Anil-Kajol starrer Hum aap ke dil..,,

Nivedita will be shown a good daughter..

Divya's basic character will be altered and all of a sudden, she will become the best wife and sister of this world.

 

these are all to make up for the loopholes of the story, because the story needed to be altered.

 

I dont write much in this forum anymore, just because I dont get time and I can very well predict the story progression. And also, most of the sensible members who used to give analyses from a story point of view are all gone. May be, I wont respond to your reply anymore...thanks for the discussion.

Originally posted by: slmu

I must have missed something. About the words I have highlighted, when did Sid ever ask forgiveness. Did he apologise to Nivi for all the harsh things he said during the family fight, to KS for branding him a culprit, standing by when he was thrown to the ground by JW and not setting things right when he knew the truth, to Divya for not telling her about his past??