Posted: 21 March 2011 at 7:27am | IP Logged
Originally posted by fuzzyface
As for Bharti asking like you said wanting to marry a normal guy , I think is justified coz she sees herself as flawed, so it wld make sense she wants something better. Forget Bharti is a dwarf, there are so many ppl in this world, who marry for money, and name because they think it is best for them to move up from where they are. We always want someone better than us to compliment us, it's simple logic.
If the USP of the show is to focus attention on the way people who are different are treated - be it b'cos of their height, or appearance, or whatever, it would have made sense had they showed Bharti & Amit being discriminated against in public - say @ employment, or social/public events (like the scooter incident). Would have been perfectly in order.
But marriage? Every guy and girl has a right to marry someone s/he is comfortable w/, no matter what the criteria. At the start of the serial, they showed the obnoxious groom that Rupesh was grovelling in front of b4 he introduced Bharti. Granted, the behavior of 'Sita' - the obnoxious bhabi - was uncalled for, but I don't hold it against the grooms for saying no. Yeah, they could have been a lot more civil about it, but lets face it, Rupesh wasn't exactly Mr Manners the way he went about it.
Maybe, somewhere, there was a normal height guy who could/would have accepted Bharti - their job was to find him. But instead, they were just subjecting different guys thru guilt trips if they didn't want to marry someone so short. Murli too had the right to say no. I do fault him for saying yes, and I don't give him a pass for Veena's marriage. But all that said, now that they've recognized their mistake at least here, I'm all for them moving on. Yeah, Murli can apologize to Bharti for not believing her about Prakash (and I'd like him to publicly kick Gau out of the house when he does that), but beyond that, I don't want the 2 of them ending up together. Just separate on good terms, maybe agree to remain just friends while moving on - maybe Murli w/ Sudha & Bharti w/ Amit.
Edited by _Vrish_ - 21 March 2011 at 11:07am