Will Bharti's friendship w/ Sudha be changed... - Page 2

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SeaOcean @SeaOcean Senior Member Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

i completely agree with u fuzzyface! murli was wrong in the first place for actually marrying bharti and then treating her like some kind of dirt. I think after a week or so of their marriage, he had already made up his mind of ending the relationship without thinking abt her once. For him what only mattered was that veena getting married but since that didn't happen, he threw her out of his life.

I don't see why he needs so much of proof to believe Bharti but he was willing to believe all the crap by Prakash at face value. Prakash isn't his wife, Bharti was. Are you telling me, you will be asking for substantial proof from your husband, wife, mother, father, sisters because you think they are out to get you and in this case ruin your sister's life??? Do you think your own family member wld find such joy in ruining another subling's life for heck of it??? Being family is all abt trust and I find it appaling that people don't trust their own family or use their god given brains to put two and two together! 😳 Murli's famlily and Veena were so excited abt the prospect of marriage like Prakash was something sent from the heaven's above that they didn't want to risk anything. For the love of god. *rolling eyes*

There is saying my nanima used to say that you have to go to four different villages to find out about a guy before getting your daughter married, which Murli's family failed to do.

As for her revelation, I suppose it was over the top.

"i dnt think there is any need to give bharli a second chance to reconcile coz the very reason for their divorce is murli not comfortable of bharti's short height ..unless bharti grows taller murli would never accept her wholeheartedly"----- This is exactly the point of the show, dwarfism is metaphor used to show how people should be able to look beyond what is physical and see the person for what they are worth inside really. If like you said Murli isn't comfortable with Bharti who is flawed in his eyes, then he is blind like most of us.

As for Bharti asking like you said wanting to marry a normal guy , I think is justified coz she sees herself as flawed, so it wld make sense she wants something better. Forget Bharti is a dwarf, there are so many ppl in this world, who marry for money, and name because they think it is best for them to move up from where they are. We always want someone better than us to compliment us, it's simple logic.

I cld go on but I guess we'll just agree to disagree.😊

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Vrish @Vr15h Viewbie

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by fuzzyface

As for Bharti asking like you said wanting to marry a normal guy , I think is justified coz she sees herself as flawed, so it wld make sense she wants something better. Forget Bharti is a dwarf, there are so many ppl in this world, who marry for money, and name because they think it is best for them to move up from where they are. We always want someone better than us to compliment us, it's simple logic.

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If the USP of the show is to focus attention on the way people who are different are treated - be it b'cos of their height, or appearance, or whatever, it would have made sense had they showed Bharti & Amit being discriminated against in public - say @ employment, or social/public events (like the scooter incident). Would have been perfectly in order.

But marriage? Every guy and girl has a right to marry someone s/he is comfortable w/, no matter what the criteria. At the start of the serial, they showed the obnoxious groom that Rupesh was grovelling in front of b4 he introduced Bharti. Granted, the behavior of 'Sita' - the obnoxious bhabi - was uncalled for, but I don't hold it against the grooms for saying no. Yeah, they could have been a lot more civil about it, but lets face it, Rupesh wasn't exactly Mr Manners the way he went about it.

Maybe, somewhere, there was a normal height guy who could/would have accepted Bharti - their job was to find him. But instead, they were just subjecting different guys thru guilt trips if they didn't want to marry someone so short. Murli too had the right to say no. I do fault him for saying yes, and I don't give him a pass for Veena's marriage. But all that said, now that they've recognized their mistake at least here, I'm all for them moving on. Yeah, Murli can apologize to Bharti for not believing her about Prakash (and I'd like him to publicly kick Gau out of the house when he does that), but beyond that, I don't want the 2 of them ending up together. Just separate on good terms, maybe agree to remain just friends while moving on - maybe Murli w/ Sudha & Bharti w/ Amit.
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fuzzyface @fuzzyface IF-Rockerz Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

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Bharti should concentrate on revealing Prakash's truth and Vrish like you said it is quite convenient that Amit support her without any catch.

As far as Rupesh is concerned, he shld learn a lesson too because he was part of the root of the problem.

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ghotalaz @ghotalaz IF-Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

well guyz....

now comes the point TRUST. murli didn't believe bharti. this is the not the point. bharti should have first discussed it with murli rather than making it public. this was a mistake done by bharti & talking about why the family trusted prakash over bharti is the fact that prakash didn't come to see veena all by himself. he was brought over there. who brought him? of course mridang. who is mridang? - the elder son of the Lal family.

who is prakash? - mridang's friend, they both were working at the same place. so how would the family think that mridang would do something wrong to veena. of course the Lal family trusted prakash but it meant that the Lal family were actually trusting their son mridang over their DIL bharti. the lal family didn't do any kind of investigation regarding prakash bcoz mridang had referred prakash as a suitable var for veena. so maybe the Lal family thought that prakash is a good guy & that's why was suggested by mridang.

now after mridang showed his true colors, the Lal family will not trust him anymore. but at that point of time, they definitely trusted him. so is the lal family suffering bcoz they trusted their son?

& talking about trusting one's father, bro, sis, wife, mother...well this is something that is seriously confusing in the TV serial world. whom to trust over whom is the question? for example, what happened when datta of Laagi tujhse lagan trusted his sister over his wife, he trusted his sister over his wife & the irony is that his sister kala was a vamp & his wife nakusha was good. another example of Jyoti, sushma trusted her husband brij over her sister jyoti & the irony is brij was evil & her sister was good.... in KMH, arjun poonj had trusted his father over arohi so & the irony is his father was actually playing games & arohi was the good girl... so we can't blame murli here. he's not only the only victim who's trusted the bad over good. we can find thousands of examples.

so whom to trust, we know it coz we're watching the serial so we know who's the villain who's the good guy but those who are playing the characters? they're not watching the serial. murli wasn't watching when mridala were plotting against the family by using prakash, so how he'll know who is speaking the truth.

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