Posted: 05 April 2011 at 2:13pm | IP Logged
i am an only child....interestingly enough and was brought up with all the love and affection. i was still taught to cook, clean and all the indian values...married/living in canada and if the inclination is there, we all adjust to fit in our spouses lives, if we truly love them....but true love is not selfish or obsessive....it is the only thing, the more we give, the more we get back but takes a while to learn and still learning..
i agree that it is her obsessiveness and blaming him to be a mamas boy that is going to cause the trouble...dada does not accept her and krishna is no less stubborn. Fought all odds and raised him and he has become a lawyer. first child to earn and contribute to household.
bansuri will be the adarsh perfect bahu helping krishna in the khakhra business....but bhoomi was the one who managed to get him back after elesh walked out in a temper!
she has to be given the benefit of the doubt and i think they are too alike....elesh and bhoomi and will be hard to work as it is her way or highway too.....end of the day, how much does she love him and willing to adjust for him...
nilay and bansri would make a good pair too.....but dada was right, the eldest daughterinlaw sets the pattern forthe whole family...and if she causes a rift, everything can go sour...and make it hard for anyone else in that family , like in saas bina sasural.