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Indifference and Forgiveness vs Anger and Hatred (Page 4)

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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by swan20

Opti very good post....Clap


I must admit I want to see Dev being punished & Geet never forgiving him BUT after reading your post i can see the other side too. Yes Geet forgiving Dev does not equal to she forgetting all his crimes. It  takes immense strength & courage to forgive someone who has wronged you. If Geet does forgive Dev then it will only reflect how strong she is....Thumbs Up
  Yes, if she does forgive him it shows her strength of character.

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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:29am | IP Logged
Originally posted by kadydeep

@Opti....Very well thought out post ....ClapClapClap

Forgiving doesn't mean forgetting nor does it mean condoning what your abuser did. Forgiving sets you free. 

It's not about the other person, it is about your health and your healing. Carrying around the immense burden of hatred will only wear on you. In fact, not forgiving actually allows the rapist to continue his control over you. 

Forgiving is not an easy thing to do.It takes a person of a very high will power and a big heart to do it....


Deeps, well said. Agree with you fully.  Forgiveness does not equate to condoning that person's act or forgetting it.  If she does forgive it is for her own peace of mind and not for Dev.  Dev loses his hold once Geet's let go of every feeling associated with him. We know Geet does have a strong will power and it will be in tune with her character.

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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:30am | IP Logged
Originally posted by gawdygory


BRILLIANT  Clap     Clap     Clap
thanks
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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:32am | IP Logged

stupendous.... marvelous and what not...

what a brilliant write up....cannot agree with you more
 
the quotes u have used so relevent...
 
I would say  forgive, when the time is appropriate but don't forget. what dev has done to geet is unforgetable for her......he has to got through the punishment...he needs to serve the jail term with NT....
 
Here dev don't mean anything to geet...he does not exist for her...so if she forgives him here
means she is letting go of that little they had which bind them together....is not there anymore...
 
 
 


Edited by ansah - 18 March 2011 at 9:32am
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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:32am | IP Logged
Originally posted by geet.a

Muaaaah opti!
wonderful post!

I agree with you..and i also like you maintain, that being indifferent to dev will be the hugest punishment for him

And yes it will be interesting to see how he will act after the guiding guilt withdraws- resulting from geet's forgiveness..

then he will really make a choice between harming maneet or wanting their happiness..

of course, legal punishment is imp..but this will also be awesome

NT got it too- she's alone and a vegetable..

and dev is being a cry baby..haha

Thanks Geeta. Dev is going through one of the toughest punishment through Geet's indifference.  Like you I too wonder which way he will go when he loses the rudder of guilt.  He cannot sit on the fence. He will have to turn white or black. That would make it interesting viewing.  He is a cry baby, isn't he? Always trying to find shelter in Dadi's pallu.


Edited by Opti - 18 March 2011 at 9:34am

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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:33am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Azmatazz

Absolutely brilliant... One of the few posts that was a real pleasure reading... Smile I thank you for this.... Smile
Thanks.
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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:34am | IP Logged
Very well said Opti.
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Posted: 18 March 2011 at 9:34am | IP Logged
opti- exactly!

maan gives dev thoda sa attention, and dadi gives only dev ko apna aanchal to lean on..but geet is just..whatever..haha

she was talking mroe to the methi ka dabba that day than him..haha

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