@ Rahm,
I think you're misunderstanding the others. They understand what you're saying but they're also trying to show you where they think you are wrong in your logic.
Personally, I agree with their views. It's true that Nivi didn't enter the marriage because of the "right" reasons. She also was using Viren to get Sid and Divya together. And Viren was well aware of that. In fact, he was the one who kept nudging her into marrying him even knowing her reasons. So there was honesty on Nivi's part when they started their new relationship. And after marriage, she kept her distance from him as well (for example, separate beds, not showing romantic affection when she didn't have any for him, etc, etc.). Viren, on the other hand, used her. He married her for his selfish reasons and didn't even inform her. Of course one can argue that it would stupid of him to inform her of that for obvious reasons. But still. He started their relationship with dishonesty. She didn't. And that's where the difference truly matters.
I hope that made sense to you. ANd i hope you see that we're not attacking or being rude to you. Just trying to point, in probably not so wonderful words, that we think you're wrong.
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