Honey in the Dew, Nags,
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Maan only said,"store room main rakh do" which means store it for a better future.. when we will bring it back here.. the walls remained intact ...
Geet would be mad at him for that much time, but she would know eventually he did it for her own good! as long as he is with her, she knows kuch galat nahi ho sakta.. aur fir, apno pe gussa nahi kia toh aur kispe kia.. and madam needs to get this out of her system.. let her do it, in every way she can... dont worry Handa Lass... maan tere saath hai ! aur woh yeh sab teri bhalayi ke liye kar raha hai..
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When we lose someone, the dragon of fear in us raises its head - these are our inherent fears caused by the circumstances - fears of day stalkers (memories created by objects linked to loss), night sweats (caused by dreams of that which we lost), fear of failing, fear of starting something new andnot finishing, fear of the unknown, fears that send shivers up the spine... there is also the fear of facing changes that the new life will bring after the loss. We may not be happy with the way we are living, but at least the familiarity of old things will give us time to reconcile to the loss. And remember its just been two days. But without talking her through that pain and loss, she may find it hard to come out. So the change in familiar surroundings is a must.
Now Maan is not wrong. I would do the same thing. Get familiar surroundings changed. And perhaps quickly take her out of that familiarity by giving her other things to do. Yet the greatest comfort she could get is hug, hug, hug, love love love from Maan. He needs to give that in large doses.π
This content was originally posted by: lovetheserialSisters of the Idiot Club(A love-lorn heart's plea for the season of love yesterday, brought the L-Raaz to paint the color of love today: A saying - "I had not loved enough, for I had been busy, busy, busy, preparing for life, while life floated by me quite and swift"..).Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.Its the process of ones life that's the key to our life, not where we finally rest at the end of the day. Success lies in the personal transformations and inner shifts that take place as necessary consequences of advancing to our goals. Hard as we find to digest Dev, the greatest lesson this man gave, by a fortune of Gods grace was to remind Maan that Geet needs to feel her pain and loss completely and in its time, before she can succeed to walk out of it.Each passing moment is a terrible burden for Geet and Taqdeer does not seem to favor the circumstances. Fate is cruel but also the most compassionate to those that chose to live and die by it. Maan is success personified and thriving in the world of today. But helplessness in and around him have bound him to go for an all-win situation - how? by completely wiping out all the remnants of the baby's existence. But the greatest challenge that neither of them heard in their hearts was "if you only try to win, you won't be successful at all". To win, one needs to lose. To win through grief and sorrow, one has to face the pain of loss.Touch is the first physical experience as we come out of the womb of security and comfort into the arms of the mother with the sense of touch guiding us. We describe our mood swings as feelings that when something strikes a deep, sentimental chord in us we say we are "touched". When we feel alienated and broken, we refer to this drift as "losing touch with reality". So Maan and Geet need to hug and hug and hug, and touch, and touch and touch each other, not just to experience pleasure but to survive the moments in each day.Dadima is slowly retracing to allow Maan and Geet to experience and help one another. The sweetest plan Daadi could hatch was to send Geet to be with her love. An experience of being with one another and sharing the loss through a deep sense of physical closeness. Feeling the closeness of love is like a massage that mesmerizes our body, or a sip of champagne that delights the mind to indulge in the little joys of being together.Dadimas often calling to dine together is not just about food, knives and forks, but a chance to create conversation , to set a mood and an aura that lingers long after what was served and who said what was forgotten. Its the being with others, and allowing these light moments together to nourish our souls, to bring the sacred into the ordinary.Wisdom is hardened through ages, but life a hard taskmaster sometimes make us neglect wisdom.Annie and Arjun are begining to understand their heart's language. O what a laugh to have Arjun tear Nityas hands off him and Annie to bust the dream of Bhai for a warm cup of coffee !! Annie is still Khandan material !!Cheers.
This content was originally posted by: lovetheserialπHello Honey in the Dew,
Did you read my last liner in yesterday's thread ??? The last post ??? Guess too busy. Wanted some balance on Dev, in your perspective .... When u find time, read that, and speak outπ₯± π Your wish has been answered, may I ask ??? Even if its glimpses ????
This content was originally posted by: mysterygurl1427@Momwa- it was soooo good i took it to the den lolzzzz and said how beautifully u wrote it.
This content was originally posted by: --Nargis--
Nihu...this has always been the fundamental difference between Maan and Dev...Maan thinks long term as well as the now, and acts out in a thought out manner, where as Dev is always driven my impulse....and he lives in the her and now, what feels good for the moment...that is why he sleep with her in the first place....just fort he moment...without thinking of the possible long term effects.
I loved how Maan shut him up....what right did he have to say anything about what is right and wrong for Geet......When has ever been an authority on RIGHT anyway. And how does he think he can say or regulate anything in Geet's life.........UGH..how dare he?? Kis HAQ se??
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