Alka has forgotten Ralph - Page 2

again SUVI your meter is on WHITE or black

well i think you don't read the posts

let me bold it

and RALPH was a complete match
good nature handsome and from other side of the bridge
then why not take relation into next step .

ok now words are clear and loud .

what i meant by having white people is that HUMANS like to mingle

most people like to have friends

and are curious about other cultures

it is quite evident from first few episodes WHY ALKA LOVE AMERICA

because of the ENVIRONMENT OF AMERICA
BECAUSE OF THE FREEDOM IT PROVIDE

BECAUSE OF THE PEOPLE NATURE

so did i said anything wrong at that point .

ALKA ATTRACTED TO RALPH BECAUSE OF HIS NATURE ARE PERSONALITY

THAT THING WE ALL KNOW

but like other humans ALKA wanted to mingle with other cultures TOO

so I AM NOT SAYING THIS IS THE TURNING POINT

BUT AT LEAST IT HAS SOME PERCENTAGE VALUE

i think you are  in AUSTRALIA

well my next line isn't meant for you but a general line

maybe you don;t like to mingle but that is untrue because you like to have friends over internet
my point is that  everyone think that how other perceive things and what their views about certain things . so knowing other races and try to get around them come under that way



I AM NOT SAYING ALKA CHOSE RALPH BECAUSE HE US WHITE

BUT MY POINT IS THAT ALKA LOVE PART HAS SOMETHING TO D EAL WITH RALPH BEING WHITE AND HAVING OPEN MIND OF WHITE PEOPLE'S RACE .


difference in views always arise and i  like that because it provide us different paths to view a single thing  .

but didn't you made an impression about me and trying to act like that by cutting my every point no matter how absurd excuses it will take .

i hope it isn't the case and this thing only remain with this WHITE PEOPLE VIEWS

different situations  different views and we all will appreciate or disagree according to those situations

ALSO HUMANS ARE ALWAYS CURIOUS

@rajin90

What i understand or What you are trying to say is a girl falls in love out of curiosity

NAAH FORAM123 i didn't said that

well written complex thing written in complex manner

BUT I WAS JUST POINTING A FACT THAT RALPH BEING A WHITE GUY HAS AN IMPORTANCE .

you go to other country you gain experience  life there

you got attracted and start to feel close to someone  .

certainly without attraction no love happens isn't it .

the other love being called EMOTIONAL LOVE is the person who sooth your heart who understand your feelings and help you out of your mental truma's .

RALPH IS A DECENT GUY the first one who also played some role in  JHAN**  K* RA**
i don't like period shows  so 1 way to show my dislike is to attack on their identity(THE NAME)

EDUCATED GOOD NATURE  HAVE A DECENT JOB AND TO SOME POINT THIS THING MATTER THAT RALPH IS FROM WHITE community .

IT HAS SOME SLIGHT IMPORTANCE THAT IS WHAT I IMPLIED

well people don't wanna believe me and i am not an psychology student   

but certainly observance make you bluff master and the same observance make you identity howhumans think .

you can't you aren't interested in other culture or you just live past 4 years in some foreign land and you got bored of that lands people when you never actually  mingled with them .

ALKA LIKE TO MAKE FRIENDS LIKE ALL OF THE OTHER HUMANS

left the some exceptions so why can't ALKA  think of having   A WHITE  PARTNER

certainly at some point this thing  came into the mind OF ALKA

is it that Hard to understand or swallow .  i am adding WHITE GUY and not so much important +ve point .


Edited by rajin90 - 13 years ago

Guess I'm the last one to make a comment on this thread😊 for a change iss bar soncha ke sabse baad mein reply karungi (after every one is on board with their annotation). lekin reply mujhe karna hi tha coz...Kabhi Kabhi Aditi...we get a nice occupying topic like this to discuss😳 so first im gonna take the light to a little wider extent, then narrowing down to your ques...kindly bear with me!😃

We have some popular myths about Pyaar/Ishq/Mohabbat...thnx to yesteryrs bollywood movies, over melodramatic soaps n backdated novels!😆

Myth No.1 Pehla pyaar bhulaye nehi bhulta...

Myth No.2 Humein zindagi mein ek hi bar pyaar hota hai...😲

Myth No.3 Indian women are bound to love their husbands, even if she wasn't willing to marry that person n loved someone else...😡

May be I can agree with the first one...to some points...but the other two...no ways! Aha...here I begin with my psychoanalysis!😉

I'll start with myth no.1...first of all...'pehla pyaar' is a beautiful, divine n magical feeling (though love  always have these 3 characteristic within , but in first love the degree of emotion is pretty higher...so things seems more special😆) and u may never forget it (whtz the need...aanchi cheezo ko bhulna bhi nehi chahiye!😊). Lekin yeh kaha likkha hai ke...tum sari zindagi apne pehle pyaar ko yaad karke ansoo bahayogi😭 and it will restrain you to fall in love again!😡 Aur 'pehle pyaar' ke yaadon mein sirf dard kyon hoga...aanchi yaadein bhi toh hongi na...unhe yaad karo😍...and move on with your life, taking your past along with you...be proud of your past, don't disgrace it.👍🏼

Now, myth no.2...its totally insane! Kyon bhai...yeh koi vote hai kya jo ek bar cast kar liya toh, im not eligible for 2^nd time...Jesus!🤢 Love is so spontaneous n sudden...u jus can't plan it or take a resolution that "I'll never fall in love again"😲 believe me, that dsnt work...u never know when it comes n swept u off ur feet😳 but the scenario is diff when u dnt realize its love or smthing holds u back to accept that u r in love! We come across many ppl in our life...and all of them may not be meant for us...It's a lifelong quest for everyone to find 'the one' for him/herself! And no rule specifies that 'the one' would be our first love every time!😆 Then why stopping here...search for ur soul mate, experience love, be happy and rule ur world👍🏼 To love someone n to be loved by someone is really wonderful😳 it sets you free...and U should never restrict him/herself from this.

Lastly, myth no.3...and I have only one word...pathetic!😡 Rest...u guys r smart enough to understand...then why wasting time!😆 I really hope they will never bring this 3^rd myth anywhere near DLMH...if they do...trust me...that day I'll quit😭

Now coming to DLMH's account...

It goes like this..."Sometime when  u r not in love...you feel as if you r in love...coz u love to be in love with the idea of being in love and when its actually love...you jus not realize!" Complicated? Well...love is complicated...as always!😊

Alka lived in America...she had leaded an independent life there...miles away from her home...and when u stay alone away from family...1^st thing u look for is friendship/companionship...u search for ppl with same frequency. In that course of searching u make frnds...casually date someone n u may eventually take it seriously! (May be bcoz of mutual attraction, good understanding, similar lifestyle etc etc) But the idea crashes when u have a face-off with actual love😲 u get confused, restless (sometime guilty)!😕 Whatever...the truth should be accepted, coz that's the way it is...and if u wanna run away...its your loss!😉

And I'm glad that Alka dint run away (though she was confused in the beginning). I feel she was lucky to have Chander...coz its very rare to find someone who loves you unconditionally. And the character of Chander is framed such a way that...he almos 'compel' (yea im using this word) you to fall in love with him😳 I mean who can resist the appeal of true love? No one! And from a girls' POV...I know every girl...let her be from any corner of this world...expect a very little thing from deep within...she jus wants unconditional love, the goodness of heart, respect, loyalty, understanding and accompaniment...that's all😊 Rest of the things like, financial status, social position, better life style, good looks...doesn't matter when u get what you really wanted from your heart...but never expected to get! Chander has it all whatever a girl actually dream for...and there he beats everyone!😳

And about Ralph...Alka was in an impression that she loves him but in reality he was jus a mere placeholder! Now Ralph is nowhere in her life...its bcoz she never actually loved him that much . But even if in future she gets separated from Chander...he will always remain in her life...forever...since he is the ONE for her!

Thanks for your patience😊 Thnx Aditi...

Edited by ankita1605 - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ankita1605

Guess I'm the last one to make a comment on this thread😊 for a change iss bar soncha ke sabse baad mein reply karungi (after every one is on board with their annotation). lekin reply mujhe karna hi tha coz...Kabhi Kabhi Aditi...we get a nice occupying topic like this to discuss😳 so first im gonna take the light to a little wider extent, then narrowing down to your ques...kindly bear with me!😃

We have some popular myths about Pyaar/Ishq/Mohabbat...thnx to yesteryrs bollywood movies, over melodramatic soaps n backdated novels!😆

Myth No.1 Pehla pyaar bhulaye nehi bhulta...

Myth No.2 Humein zindagi mein ek hi bar pyaar hota hai...😲

Myth No.3 Indian women are bound to love their husbands, even if she wasn't willing to marry that person n loved someone else...😡

May be I can agree with the first one...to some points...but the other two...no ways! Aha...here I begin with my psychoanalysis!😉

I'll start with myth no.1...first of all...'pehla pyaar' is a beautiful, divine n magical feeling (though love  always have these 3 characteristic within , but in first love the degree of emotion is pretty higher...so things seems more special😆) and u may never forget it (whtz the need...aanchi cheezo ko bhulna bhi nehi chahiye!😊). Lekin yeh kaha likkha hai ke...tum sari zindagi apne pehle pyaar ko yaad karke ansoo bahayogi😭 and it will restrain you to fall in love again!😡 Aur 'pehle pyaar' ke yaadon mein sirf dard kyon hoga...aanchi yaadein bhi toh hongi na...unhe yaad karo😍...and move on with your life, taking your past along with you...be proud of your past, don't disgrace it.👍🏼

Now, myth no.2...its totally insane! Kyon bhai...yeh koi vote hai kya jo ek bar cast kar liya toh, im not eligible for 2^nd time...Jesus!🤢 Love is so spontaneous n sudden...u jus can't plan it or take a resolution that "I'll never fall in love again"😲 believe me, that dsnt work...u never know when it comes n swept u off ur feet😳 but the scenario is diff when u dnt realize its love or smthing holds u back to accept that u r in love! We come across many ppl in our life...and all of them may not be meant for us...It's a lifelong quest for everyone to find 'the one' for him/herself! And no rule specifies that 'the one' would be our first love every time!😆 Then why stopping here...search for ur soul mate, experience love, be happy and rule ur world👍🏼 To love someone n to be loved by someone is really wonderful😳 it sets you free...and U should never restrict him/herself from this.

Lastly, myth no.3...and I have only one word...pathetic!😡 Rest...u guys r smart enough to understand...then why wasting time!😆 I really hope they will never bring this 3^rd myth anywhere near DLMH...if they do...trust me...that day I'll quit😭

Now coming to DLMH's account...

It goes like this..."Sometime when  u r not in love...you feel as if you r in love...coz u love to be in love with the idea of being in love and when its actually love...you jus not realize!" Complicated? Well...love is complicated...as always!😊

Alka lived in America...she had leaded an independent life there...miles away from her home...and when u stay alone away from family...1^st thing u look for is friendship/ companionship...u search for ppl with same frequency. In that course of searching u make frnds...casually date someone n u may eventually take it seriously! (May be bcoz of mutual attraction, good understanding, similar lifestyle etc etc) But the idea crashes when u have a face-off with actual love😲 u get confused, restless (sometime guilty)!😕 Whatever...the truth should be accepted, coz that's the way it is...and if u wanna run away...its your loss!😉

And I'm glad that Alka dint run away (though she was confused in the beginning). I feel she was lucky to have Chander...coz its very rare to find someone who loves you unconditionally. And the character of Chander is framed such a way that...he almos 'compel' (yea im using this word) you to fall in love with him😳 I mean who can resist the appeal of true love? No one! And from a girls' POV...I know every girl...let her be from any corner of this world...expect a very little thing from deep within...she jus wants unconditional love, the goodness of heart, respect, loyalty, understanding and accompaniment...that's all😊 Rest of the things like, financial status, social position, better life style, good looks...doesn't matter when u get what you really wanted from your heart...but never expected to get! Chander has it all whatever a girl actually dream for...and there he beats everyone!😳

And about Ralph...Alka was in an impression that she loves him but in reality he was jus a mere placeholder! Now Ralph is nowhere in her life...its bcoz she never actually loved him that much . But even if in future she gets separated from Chander...he will always remain in her life...forever...since he is the ONE for her!

Thanks for your patience😊 Thnx Aditi...

Originally posted by: sv003

hey anks.....🤗 i was a simply mindblowing n an awesome post........👏 i totally agree with all that u hav said.......😳 anks😉... u wrote it soooo... sooo... well dat i'm sure... no one will b able to find flaws in ur post.......😳 

naaa ree ur post is not soo long... it was needeed to be so long..... if u had cut short some point or some lines.... then i'm sure.... u would not done proper justice to this topic.......😉 keep up ur good work...!!!!!!!👍🏼

Sorry..forget about this post😆

Edited by Suvi7884 - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Suvi7884

RESERVED😉

100% agree with each and every word. very true...

Originally posted by: ankita1605

Guess I'm the last one to make a comment on this thread😊 for a change iss bar soncha ke sabse baad mein reply karungi (after every one is on board with their annotation). lekin reply mujhe karna hi tha coz...Kabhi Kabhi Aditi...we get a nice occupying topic like this to discuss😳 so first im gonna take the light to a little wider extent, then narrowing down to your ques...kindly bear with me!😃

We have some popular myths about Pyaar/Ishq/Mohabbat...thnx to yesteryrs bollywood movies, over melodramatic soaps n backdated novels!😆

Myth No.1 Pehla pyaar bhulaye nehi bhulta...

Myth No.2 Humein zindagi mein ek hi bar pyaar hota hai...😲

Myth No.3 Indian women are bound to love their husbands, even if she wasn't willing to marry that person n loved someone else...😡

May be I can agree with the first one...to some points...but the other two...no ways! Aha...here I begin with my psychoanalysis!😉

I'll start with myth no.1...first of all...'pehla pyaar' is a beautiful, divine n magical feeling (though love  always have these 3 characteristic within , but in first love the degree of emotion is pretty higher...so things seems more special😆) and u may never forget it (whtz the need...aanchi cheezo ko bhulna bhi nehi chahiye!😊). Lekin yeh kaha likkha hai ke...tum sari zindagi apne pehle pyaar ko yaad karke ansoo bahayogi😭 and it will restrain you to fall in love again!😡 Aur 'pehle pyaar' ke yaadon mein sirf dard kyon hoga...aanchi yaadein bhi toh hongi na...unhe yaad karo😍...and move on with your life, taking your past along with you...be proud of your past, don't disgrace it.👍🏼

Now, myth no.2...its totally insane! Kyon bhai...yeh koi vote hai kya jo ek bar cast kar liya toh, im not eligible for 2^nd time...Jesus!🤢 Love is so spontaneous n sudden...u jus can't plan it or take a resolution that "I'll never fall in love again"😲 believe me, that dsnt work...u never know when it comes n swept u off ur feet😳 but the scenario is diff when u dnt realize its love or smthing holds u back to accept that u r in love! We come across many ppl in our life...and all of them may not be meant for us...It's a lifelong quest for everyone to find 'the one' for him/herself! And no rule specifies that 'the one' would be our first love every time!😆 Then why stopping here...search for ur soul mate, experience love, be happy and rule ur world👍🏼 To love someone n to be loved by someone is really wonderful😳 it sets you free...and U should never restrict him/herself from this.

Lastly, myth no.3...and I have only one word...pathetic!😡 Rest...u guys r smart enough to understand...then why wasting time!😆 I really hope they will never bring this 3^rd myth anywhere near DLMH...if they do...trust me...that day I'll quit😭

Now coming to DLMH's account...

It goes like this..."Sometime when  u r not in love...you feel as if you r in love...coz u love to be in love with the idea of being in love and when its actually love...you jus not realize!" Complicated? Well...love is complicated...as always!😊

Alka lived in America...she had leaded an independent life there...miles away from her home...and when u stay alone away from family...1^st thing u look for is friendship/ companionship...u search for ppl with same frequency. In that course of searching u make frnds...casually date someone n u may eventually take it seriously! (May be bcoz of mutual attraction, good understanding, similar lifestyle etc etc) But the idea crashes when u have a face-off with actual love😲 u get confused, restless (sometime guilty)!😕 Whatever...the truth should be accepted, coz that's the way it is...and if u wanna run away...its your loss!😉

And I'm glad that Alka dint run away (though she was confused in the beginning). I feel she was lucky to have Chander...coz its very rare to find someone who loves you unconditionally. And the character of Chander is framed such a way that...he almos 'compel' (yea im using this word) you to fall in love with him😳 I mean who can resist the appeal of true love? No one! And from a girls' POV...I know every girl...let her be from any corner of this world...expect a very little thing from deep within...she jus wants unconditional love, the goodness of heart, respect, loyalty, understanding and accompaniment...that's all😊 Rest of the things like, financial status, social position, better life style, good looks...doesn't matter when u get what you really wanted from your heart...but never expected to get! Chander has it all whatever a girl actually dream for...and there he beats everyone!😳

And about Ralph...Alka was in an impression that she loves him but in reality he was jus a mere placeholder! Now Ralph is nowhere in her life...its bcoz she never actually loved him that much . But even if in future she gets separated from Chander...he will always remain in her life...forever...since he is the ONE for her!

Thanks for your patience😊 Thnx Aditi...

🤗 You are a cupid, angel, love you for your post👏👏👏

Thanks for posting such a lovely post😛😛😛 you have explained  such a "complex"(you know what i mean😉)issue  very  beautiful yet simple way.😊

Thank you everybody🤗 I'm simply overwhelmed😳 seriously...i dint expect such a wonderful response...aagar pata hota toh do din pehle hi post kar deti😉  thnx again for the appreciation...love you all😊