Posted: 23 April 2011 at 8:03am | IP Logged
Emmm...looks like i am super late,sorrryyyWill read & comment ...
Finally Leelatai came,i was thinking will u bring her for nakku's official dikhai yaa phir dutta ka proposal is enough.Enjoyed reading both sister's chtter-patar & Dutta obviously must have felt out of place.Poor him,even his sister is making fun of him,bada aaya tha trignometry ka bahana dene wala,he should have said meri nakku ko lovology ka lesson dene jaa raha hoon
He is so used to taking every decision keeping only himself in mind,that is why he was like meri,mera & not hamara yaa hamari,but he is learning ,so he corrected himself & i liked that.
Nakku dear,full time kitchen me hi busy rehti hai,why shilpi.U like to keep her there ?But,the kissing & his antics were really funny.Nakku ko bhi naa apni roti jalne ki jyada fikar thi,yaa bechare dr.saab romance ke mood me the. He never gets tired of giving weird logics especially when he is discussing it with nakku.Pandits ke free time ke hisaab se shaadi hoti hai,kya logic hai His pati parmeshwar wala line & nakku ka ye muh aur masoor ki dal These 2 do like to play word fights.
Leelatai coming for dinner as in nakku's dikhai was so different than her 1st one.I found Leelatai way to practical & bordering on harshness,but then her reason was absolutely correct.Does nakku really know what it is to be a Dr. wife?Even nakku has that fear & that was read by leelatai.I wonder how come Kalatai didn't think all these,may be becaz she is way to close to nakku ,so her thoughts are more of emotional rather than logical.
When nakku asked Dutta for delaying the marriage,i knew his fuse will blow,but when he will think aaramse ,he will agree & that's what happened.Not only did he agree,but the reason he gave was not only nakku's siblings exams,but it was becaz he wanted them to give enough time to adjust with the fact that now their sister will not be with them.This reminded me of his outburst with that bittu.
Leelatai & Dutta's talk,now this was the most interesting part of this chapter.
She was talking from her personal experience & the part about her parent's accident was really hurtful.I guess even dutta didn't know about this.He could now relate better to all those fights between his tai & her hubby.
I agree that only love &/or adjustment doesn't make a marriage happy,there are various other factors involved.But alongwith love & adjustment,there is deep understanding & trust between Dutta & nakku.Dutta's explaination completely bowled me over.He is damn right,no one can gurantee anything,especially in the matter of marriage.But,he is sure from his heart & mind that this is the girl,& ultimately that is what makes a relation success.I liked how he said,there will be love,there will be fight,but we won't give up.I was smiling when he called nakku as wildcat
Leelatai's failed marriage got me to think on something different.she & kalatai are poles apart in nature.May be like Vandu said,kalatai has hubby like Kishore,but then both these sisters didn't have a child.When Leelatai was talking with Dutta,there was sense of loss about not having child even though she practically brought him up & considers him as child.But considering & feeling are two different thing.Like when Kala was talking to Dutta about Nakku & her siblings,it was a mother who was talking about her children,even though they were neighbour's kids.
This is what makes these 2 sisters so different,one is outright practical & the other one is emotional.
What i mean to say is god deprived both of them of motherhood,but they both took it so differently.One turned into bit harsh & the other one showered her motherhood on these motherless children.
The last part was so emotional.saying is one thing ,but when reality hits ,it is different.Finally nakku realised they have to stay apart for 6 months.Her tears made him also hurt,he cann't she her upset naa.He is taking that pinkwala shirt as reminder of their fights Nakku made him swear on her,poor guy ab bina cigs.ke aur bina nakku ke kaise rahega
I have one suggestion ,can u send nakku & her siblings to mumbai after their exams get over .So that she & Dutta can spend some time together before marriage & she can also get to see Dr. saab 's mumbai life ,then may be she can start adjusting early.If required Leelatai can help her go thru all the changes.
Edited by preety_219 - 23 April 2011 at 9:17am