Originally posted by bangalores
"hum tum kuch aur bandenge"...really?
how many of u mothers out there really absolutely enjoyed the infancy time of ur child? no i'm not saying that it was not fun but was it all positive for u gals? or was it just me who found the midnight feeds a bit tiresome..and the myth that u forget all the pain with that first smile from ur baby!! of course u enjoy his smile and baby smell and the pat of his baby fingers..but forget the pain?
and u feel so engaged with the babe that u don't get that much time for the hubby
please express ur views
Thanks for attempting to shatter a myth..at a time when a few women are getting bashed over here as deserters of the cause for daring to not want an invisible, fictitious baby, your post offers the flip side to the debate..while all of us love our babies, life is no bed of roses..certainly not something we would want to watch being recreated on screen anyway..I remember wanting to tear my hair out in sheer frustration and even smacking the baby once when I did not know what else to do..and I was 21 when I had my first baby!
Edited by janvis70 - 13 years ago