a question to the mothers out there........

"hum tum kuch aur bandenge"...really?
how many of u mothers out there really absolutely enjoyed the infancy time of ur child? no i'm not saying that it was not fun but was it all positive for u gals? or was it just me who found the midnight feeds a bit  tiresome..and the myth that u forget all the pain with that first smile from ur baby!! of course u enjoy his smile and baby smell and the pat of his baby fingers..but forget the pain?

and u feel so engaged with the babe that u don't get that much time for the hubby

please express ur views
Edited by bangalores - 13 years ago

any Momies here ?
I'd also  like to know .

yesssssssssssss

Originally posted by: 9n9i9s9h9u9

yesssssssssssss

all pain (specially labour pain) are gone with having your child in your hands

but one thing more during my two pregnancy i neverwake up in night to eat  AALO KI TIKKI🤣

i did remember the pain especially when my second one was due!  thankfully my pain didn't take too many hours!!
and i used to have bread butter jam at night...that happened while i was at my mayka..my pappa used to keep it ready for me before he went to sleep!! 😃
 
by the way i have two sons10 yrs nd 5 resp...can't bring myself to attempt for a girl though many have pointed out the merits of having a daughter!!
Edited by bangalores - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: bangalores

my pappa used to keep it ready for me before he went to sleep!! 😃

awww , that's sweet !

well...I would have to agree to "hum tum kuch aur bandhenge"  

 i would say it depends on the person, ur partner and the child.... my first born was a bit easier on me...... only for the fact that my husband was home with me for the first 4 months and helped me A LOT with the baby…. After that I fell into a routine and things didn't bother me much…..However my second one had me wanting to run for the highest hill and stay there….. even though my husband helped with her too but he wasn't around as much as he was for the first one…. No complaints he was working very HARD for us....

and no hun, you don't forget the pain….

Originally posted by: 9n9i9s9h9u9

yesssssssssssss

all pain (specially labour pain) are gone with having your child in your hands

but one thing more during my two pregnancy i neverwake up in night to eat  AALO KI TIKKI🤣

lol.... roadside Aalo ki tikki.... nope that i think only for geet... coz i didnt either.... i loved my beauty sleep during my pregnancy..... but i did test my husband patience with my weird cravings though but never past midnight

by the way whoever said that labor during the second child is easier.... i would like to have few words with them 😡

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well...I would have to agree to "hum tum kuch aur bandhenge"  

 i would say it depends on the person, ur partner and the child.... my first born was a bit easier on me...... only for the fact that my husband was home with me for the first 4 months and helped me A LOT with the baby'. After that I fell into a routine and things didn't bother me much'..However my second one had me wanting to run for the highest hill and stay there'.. even though my husband helped with her too but he wasn't around as much as he was for the first one'. No complaints he was working very HARD for us....

and no hun, you don't forget the pain'.

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ur view is absolutely true abt the partner part....i think at times my hubby didn't even get to know me getting up...he is a sound sleeper...and i too didn't want him to lose sleep as he works 10 to 9. i heard one auntyji once advising my sis to accidently sit on her hubby during the midnight feed  to let him knw that motherhood is not all gains!!
Edited by bangalores - 13 years ago

@  bangalores lovely post indeed I remember the time I had my baby my pregnancy was slightly difficult with some health issue due to an unexpected change in the town of my stay.  Edited by ranjnanarang - 13 years ago