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Posted: 24 March 2011 at 9:38pm | IP Logged
Touchy Ego

Only the ego can be touched. It is very touchy. If somebody just looks at you in a certain way, it is touched. He has not done anything. If somebody smiles a little, it is touched; if somebody just turns his head and does not look at you, it is touched. It is very touchy. It is like a wound, always open, green. You touch it and the pain arises. A single word, a single gesture -- the other may not even be aware of what he has done to you, but he has touched it.

And you always think the other is responsible, that he has wounded you. No, you carry your wound. With the ego your whole being is a wound. And you carry it around. Nobody is interested in hurting you, nobody is positively waiting to hurt you; everybody is engaged in safeguarding his own wound. Who has got the energy? But still it happens, because you are so ready to be wounded, so ready, just waiting on the brink for anything.

You cannot touch a man of Tao. Why? -- because there is no one to be touched. There is no wound. He is healthy, healed, whole. This word 'whole' is beautiful. The word 'heal' comes from 'whole', and the word 'holy' also comes from 'whole'. He is whole, healed, holy.

Be aware of your wound. Don't help it to grow, let it be healed; and it will be healed only when you move to the roots. The less the head, the more the wound will heal -- with no head there is no wound. Live a headless life. Move as a total being, and accept things.

Just for twenty-four hours, try it – total acceptance, whatsoever happens. Someone insults you, accept it, don't react, and see what happens. Suddenly you will feel an energy flowing in you that you have not felt before. Somebody insults you: you feel weak, you feel disturbed, you start thinking of how to get your revenge. That man has hooked you, and now you will move round and round. For days, nights, months, even years, you will not be able to sleep, you will have bad dreams. People can waste their whole life over a small thing, just because someone insulted them.

Just look back into your past and you will remember a few things. You were a small child and the teacher in the class called you an idiot, and you still remember it and you feel resentment. Your father said something. Your parents have forgotten, and even if you remind them, they will not be able to remember it. Your mother looked at you in a certain way and since then the wound has been there. And it is still open, fresh; if anybody touches it, you will explode.Don't help this wound to grow. Don't make this wound your soul. Go to the roots, be with the whole. For twenty-four hours, just twenty-four hours, try not to react, not to reject, whatsoever happens.If someone pushes you and you fall to the ground -- fall! Then get up and go home. Don't do anything about it. If somebody hits you, bow down your head, accept it with gratitude. Go home, don't do anything, just for twenty-four hours. And you will know a new surgeof energy that you have never known before, a new vitality arising from the roots. And once you know it, once you have tasted it, your life will be different. Then you will laugh at all the foolish things you have been doing, at all the resentments, reactions, revenges, with which you have been destroying yourself.

Nobody else can destroy you except you; nobody else can save you except you. You are the Judas and you are the Jesus.

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Posted: 24 March 2011 at 9:44pm | IP Logged
Feeling great

If you could choose between feeling gloomy and feeling delighted, which one would you choose? If you could choose between feeling sorry for yourself and feeling confident in your ability to make a difference, which would you choose?
The delightful fact is that you can choose and you do choose your attitude, every moment of every day. When you're feeling sad or happy or frustrated or assured, it's because you've decided to respond to life in that particular way.

By feeling lousy you are not going to do anyone any good. Yet by feeling great and putting those feelings into action you might just lift up others around you and make a positive difference in your world.

But what about those days that are filled with challenges, obstacles, frustrations and pain? Well, if you don't want to feel great about what's going on, you can always choose to feel great in spite of what's going on.

No matter what has happened in the past, this moment is filled with positive possibilities. No matter how lousy you may have felt five minutes ago, you can choose to feel great about yourself right now.

And when you genuinely open your eyes and open your heart to all the good things that are truly possible, the world around you will begin to resemble those great feelings you have.

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Posted: 25 March 2011 at 12:35pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sweta01

Feeling great

If you could choose between feeling gloomy and feeling delighted, which one would you choose?
DelightedEmbarrassed
 If you could choose between feeling sorry for yourself and feeling confident in your ability to make a difference, which would you choose? Feeling ConfidentBig smile
The delightful fact is that you can choose and you do choose your attitude, every moment of every day. When you're feeling sad or happy or frustrated or assured, it's because you've decided to respond to life in that particular way.ShockedShockedShocked
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By feeling lousy you are not going to do anyone any good. Yet by feeling great and putting those feelings into action you might just lift up others around you and make a positive difference in your world.

But what about those days that are filled with challenges, obstacles, frustrations and pain? Well, if you don't want to feel great about what's going on, you can always choose to feel great in spite of what's going on.

No matter what has happened in the past, this moment is filled with positive possibilities. No matter how lousy you may have felt five minutes ago, you can choose to feel great about yourself right now.

And when you genuinely open your eyes and open your heart to all the good things that are truly possible, the world around you will begin to resemble those great feelings you have.Heart


Aww i really like this..i will save it somewhere..or print it and keep it in my journal..but i have been told something similar before that conditions are you don't make you upset, but the negative thoughts in ur mind..this was a very positive article..
but what if you don't do well on an examCry..than what?Ouch

how can you feel happy after..what if someone is sick? What if your in an argument with someone, the other person is not trying to patch up? what if that was friend who you thought was super close, that was the person who ended up backstabbing you?

I know that is we always have a positive mind set, but with some negative conditions its hard to be positive

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Posted: 25 March 2011 at 2:07pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sweta01

Touchy Ego

Only the ego can be touched. It is very touchy. If somebody just looks at you in a certain way, it is touched. He has not done anything. If somebody smiles a little, it is touched; if somebody just turns his head and does not look at you, it is touched. It is very touchy. It is like a wound, always open, green. You touch it and the pain arises. A single word, a single gesture -- the other may not even be aware of what he has done to you, but he has touched it.

And you always think the other is responsible, that he has wounded you. No, you carry your wound. With the ego your whole being is a wound. And you carry it around. Nobody is interested in hurting you, nobody is positively waiting to hurt you; everybody is engaged in safeguarding his own wound. Who has got the energy? But still it happens, because you are so ready to be wounded, so ready, just waiting on the brink for anything.

You cannot touch a man of Tao. Why? -- because there is no one to be touched. There is no wound. He is healthy, healed, whole. This word 'whole' is beautiful. The word 'heal' comes from 'whole', and the word 'holy' also comes from 'whole'. He is whole, healed, holy.

Be aware of your wound. Don't help it to grow, let it be healed; and it will be healed only when you move to the roots. The less the head, the more the wound will heal -- with no head there is no wound. Live a headless life. Move as a total being, and accept things.

Just for twenty-four hours, try it ' total acceptance, whatsoever happens. Someone insults you, accept it, don't react, and see what happens. Suddenly you will feel an energy flowing in you that you have not felt before. Somebody insults you: you feel weak, you feel disturbed, you start thinking of how to get your revenge. That man has hooked you, and now you will move round and round. For days, nights, months, even years, you will not be able to sleep, you will have bad dreams. People can waste their whole life over a small thing, just because someone insulted them.

Just look back into your past and you will remember a few things. You were a small child and the teacher in the class called you an idiot, and you still remember it and you feel resentment. Your father said something. Your parents have forgotten, and even if you remind them, they will not be able to remember it. Your mother looked at you in a certain way and since then the wound has been there. And it is still open, fresh; if anybody touches it, you will explode.Don't help this wound to grow. Don't make this wound your soul. Go to the roots, be with the whole. For twenty-four hours, just twenty-four hours, try not to react, not to reject, whatsoever happens.If someone pushes you and you fall to the ground -- fall! Then get up and go home. Don't do anything about it. If somebody hits you, bow down your head, accept it with gratitude. Go home, don't do anything, just for twenty-four hours. And you will know a new surgeof energy that you have never known before, a new vitality arising from the roots. And once you know it, once you have tasted it, your life will be different. Then you will laugh at all the foolish things you have been doing, at all the resentments, reactions, revenges, with which you have been destroying yourself.

Nobody else can destroy you except you; nobody else can save you except you. You are the Judas and you are the Jesus.

This is a tough thing to do, to let go of your egoEmbarrassed 

Just for twenty-four hours, try it – total acceptance, whatsoever happens. Someone insults you, accept it, don't react, and see what happens. 

LOL wow, this is the toughestLOL

Such a good storyEmbarrassed Thanks SwetaBig smile

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Posted: 25 March 2011 at 2:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sweta01

Feeling great

If you could choose between feeling gloomy and feeling delighted, which one would you choose? If you could choose between feeling sorry for yourself and feeling confident in your ability to make a difference, which would you choose?
The delightful fact is that you can choose and you do choose your attitude, every moment of every day. When you're feeling sad or happy or frustrated or assured, it's because you've decided to respond to life in that particular way.

By feeling lousy you are not going to do anyone any good. Yet by feeling great and putting those feelings into action you might just lift up others around you and make a positive difference in your world.

But what about those days that are filled with challenges, obstacles, frustrations and pain? Well, if you don't want to feel great about what's going on, you can always choose to feel great in spite of what's going on.

No matter what has happened in the past, this moment is filled with positive possibilities. No matter how lousy you may have felt five minutes ago, you can choose to feel great about yourself right now.

And when you genuinely open your eyes and open your heart to all the good things that are truly possible, the world around you will begin to resemble those great feelings you have.

Yep you are who you are because you choose to be that wayEmbarrassed 

I know people who are positive no matter what happens and they're always happy:) Everyone should be happy with what they have and no matter what happens:) It's tough but not impossible:)

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Posted: 25 March 2011 at 3:23pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by raju786

[QUOTE=sweta01]

Aww i really like this..i will save it somewhere..or print it and keep it in my journal..but i have been told something similar before that conditions are you don't make you upset, but the negative thoughts in ur mind..this was a very positive article..
but what if you don't do well on an examCry..than what?Ouch

how can you feel happy after..what if someone is sick? What if your in an argument with someone, the other person is not trying to patch up? what if that was friend who you thought was super close, that was the person who ended up backstabbing you?

I know that is we always have a positive mind set, but with some negative conditions its hard to be positive

Yep negative thoughts make you upset, well if you don't do well on a major exam then you should accept the fact that you will get a non amazing grade:) If you accept the fact before you get your grade you won't be sad and if you actually did amazing in the end you'd be soo surprised and happy:) When I do bad on an exam I try to accept the fact that I didn't study enough and I'll get a okay grade but sometimes even though I think I sucked at it I get a good grade:) Just be positive and accept the truth:) 

Well if the other person is not trying to patch up then you try onceLOL and then if they don't respond just know that you and the other person weren't meant to be friends or whatever:) 

And if someone backstabs you and you find out just be happy you found out otherwise they could fool you your whole life and you wouldn't know:)


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Posted: 25 March 2011 at 3:38pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by pinkisluv91

Originally posted by raju786

[QUOTE=sweta01]

Aww i really like this..i will save it somewhere..or print it and keep it in my journal..but i have been told something similar before that conditions are you don't make you upset, but the negative thoughts in ur mind..this was a very positive article..
but what if you don't do well on an examCry..than what?Ouch

how can you feel happy after..what if someone is sick? What if your in an argument with someone, the other person is not trying to patch up? what if that was friend who you thought was super close, that was the person who ended up backstabbing you?

I know that is we always have a positive mind set, but with some negative conditions its hard to be positive

Yep negative thoughts make you upset, well if you don't do well on a major exam then you should accept the fact that you will get a non amazing grade:) If you accept the fact before you get your grade you won't be sad and if you actually did amazing in the end you'd be soo surprised and happy:) When I do bad on an exam I try to accept the fact that I didn't study enough and I'll get a okay grade but sometimes even though I think I sucked at it I get a good grade:) Just be positive and accept the truth:) 

Well if the other person is not trying to patch up then you try onceLOL and then if they don't respond just know that you and the other person weren't meant to be friends or whatever:) 

And if someone backstabs you and you find out just be happy you found out otherwise they could fool you your whole life and you wouldn't know:)




Oh wow..very nice responseClap

However what if you studied harder than the last one..longer hours, got more help but still see no improvementOuch..should we be positive and accept every single time and let our grade keep going down?Ouch

I agree about the backstabbingLOL

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Posted: 25 March 2011 at 4:10pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by raju786

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Oh wow..very nice responseClap

However what if you studied harder than the last one..longer hours, got more help but still see no improvementOuch..should we be positive and accept every single time and let our grade keep going down?Ouch

I agree about the backstabbingLOL

Haha thanksBig smile

Well atleast you know you tried your hardest right? Just keep trying and trying until you succeed:) You will get a good grade one dayEmbarrassed And accepting the truth happily will make you a happier person:) Don't be sad because you got a bad gradeEmbarrassed I think of other things like I have a bad grade and I'm sad but other people have lots of worse things to be sad abt:) And I get happy because I know I shouldn't be sad for little things like gradesLOL which are little compared to the bigger problems that exist:) 

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