hey i totally understand your point of view and personally looking down at a housewife taking care of a family would be like disrespecting my own mom--NEVER my intension,hope i clear that ...The reason iam so vociferous about anandi's education was because she was somebody who had a thirst for knowledge,for her books were everything.. .thats why iam more sad for her...Originally posted by: suchitra_1I understand that many of you are frustrated with this.. But this is the reality very few people study.. and this is what htey are showing. How an ambitious life of a person.. has been effected.
But honestly.. I do not like it when people diss household chores... or make motherhood , house wife roles soo derogatory.
I understand where you all are coming from that, she should have studied. But thast that.. she should have studied ... do not mix her learning House hold activities as wasting time.
Its not something trivial , and when people choose to stay housewifes their lives are not wasted. There is a purpose in that too and its an honorable role to be a wife and a mother and a maintainer of the house.
Nothing to look down upon.
I personally believe that every woman should be educated. Cause if she is educated her children will be educated and thus raising a well-civilized nation.
I think its noble of women who look after their families even after gaining education and choose to do that. Its up to them if they wanna go and work. A working woman is no way better than a house wife both are different and important in their own ways.
So I would refrain from such comments and thinking to degrade women who do stay at home but are also educated.
Now Anandi.. was brainwashed, forced to stay home even though she didn't wish to initially and could have gained education.
But ... her 5 years of learning to maintain household is definitely not a waste and should not be mixed with her decision to stop learning.
Two different things.
Just trying to be fair here.... hope did not offend no one
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