Originally posted by: AlmostHonest
Why can't a girls maika be her apna ghar? ๐ค She has lived there her entire life!!! So tomorrow if I get married my dad's house won't be mine??! ๐ how laaame!!! The place were I was born and brought up will become paraya but my new husbands place will be my apna? ๐ I am sorry I don't agree .. Forget the serial ... yeh sab purane zamane ki baatein hai.. beitiya parai hoti hai and all that crap ... Aaj kal yeh sab nahi hota hai ... atleast not where I come from! Everything my dad owns is mine!!!
when i read your post i remind my teen ages.when i am a teen i use to be far ahead of you.
1) i use to ask why only girls should go and stay in boy's house why not boys come and stay with us.
2) why girls parents should give dowry. even girls are also equally qualified, and they to go out and earn then why don't boy's parents give dowry to girls parents.
3)why only girls should wear the marriage symbol like mangalsutra,sindoor etc why boys don't have any thing to find out that they are married.i wish they should wear a big nose ring(nath...๐) to show that they are married etc etc.
but after married:
when i went to my sasural....i was shocked๐ฒ.it was hardly one fourth of my maika๐ญ.my dad has two big bungalows,at a time we can park four cars,but my sasural has no parking area.
as i am the only daughter to my parent (no siblings) obviously both the bungalows are mine.but i am not interested in that.i left those asserts and came to canada along with my husband.
in my sasural except my mother in law nobody likes me.my mother in law likes me cuz my husband is happy with me(just like ammaji don't like prat cuz her son is not happy with her)
after marriage i use to die to go to my maika.as soon as i reach maika i will be extra excited,run around,eat my mom made favurite food,visit my friends,neighbours, go to movie etc etc.every think will be over in a week time. after a week i will start missing my sasural๐ญ.
i don't know about others but for me:
saiyaan chhed dewe, nanad chhutki leve,
saas gaari deve, dewar samjha leve,
sasuraal genda phool๐๐๐
Edited by shumi. - 13 years ago
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