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i have noticed, many here ask, "why can't pratigya just love krishna...?" or say, "well, if she had just shown some love towards krishna, then krishna would treat her a lot better. he truly loves her, so if she showed love towards him as well, he wouldn't have put her through any torture"...
ok, so to answer/respond to all those types of questions/comments, let's look at why is it exactly that pratigya ISN'T able to bring herself to love him, shall we...?
to understand that, one must understand that, in order to "love" someone, you must "like" him, his personality as well. and pratigya could NEVER like a guy like krishna, his personality, to begin with. his very rude, UNCIVILIZED behavior, his way of speaking, him being the kind of person who has absolutely NO AMBITIONS, NO GOALS in life, the fact that he is basically a "gunda", all these qualities within krishna, and MORE, is why a girl like pratigya could never like him. and i know EXACTLY how pratigya feels, cause like her, i don't like guys like krishna either. so i'd be HORRIFIED if i was ever forced to marry someone like him. 🤢😭
which brings me to my next point: on top of NOT liking this guy, she was FORCED, callously FORCED, to marry him, BY HIM. i mean, do i even need to repeat what CRAZINESSSSSS, sheer CRAZINESSSSS krishna had pulled in order to marry her...??? i mean, their very first TRUE meeting with each other was like a kind of FORCE. remember when he BARGED into
her ENGAGEMENT, and actually held her hand, and was forcing to DRAG HER OUT with him, in front of her family, her relatives, and her possible sansural's family...???? 😲😲😲 seriously, is THAT the way to act, if you want someone to fall in love with you...??? and then what krishna had done afterwards (and even BEFORE the engagement incident. ie. shooting guns in HOLY PLACE, harassing/distressing prati by calling her)...seriously, need i even ENLIST all the things, cause i would then have to go on FOREVER...long story short: he put this poor girl, and her family through MASSIVE pain and suffering, humiliation, defamation...that she eventually gave in (though she should not have). granted, he may not have been the one who kidnapped her, nor the one to bludgeon nitin up (though he threatened nitin a few times that he would, and even told pratigya he would...!!!), but what krishna HAD done, was MORE THAN ENOUGH, WAYYYYYYYY more than enough, to NOT wanting to marry him.
so you guys tell me, after all the things krishna had done, BEFORE their marriage, all the ZABARDASTI, and TORTURE, how was pratigya gonna bring herself to like him...? how could ANYONE bring themselves to like a person who did the things krishna had done to pratigya...???
THEN, instead of things actually getting better for her, they went WORSE, FAAAR WORSE for pratigya AFTER marriage. apart from being made to live in that JUNGLE, and putting up with his JUNGLEE mother and father, pratigya had to put up with JUNGLEE krishna!!!! i mean, her recent memory of him is, him beating her, in front of HIS family, HER family, after being HUMILIATED and her character being questioned, for something HE DID!!! not to mention, the multiple attempted RAPES, the constant verbal abuse (and threats), physical abuse, and mental abuse...once again, you guys tell me after all such horrible, HORRIBLE things being done to pratigya, how can she bring herself to even "like" him, aur "love" karna toh dur ki baat.
so i hope people understand now...yes, true, krishna probably would treat pratigya a lot better, had she shown some love towards him, but like i have explained so far, why she ISN'T able to bring herself to love him...
peace
ok, so to answer/respond to all those types of questions/comments, let's look at why is it exactly that pratigya ISN'T able to bring herself to love him, shall we...?
to understand that, one must understand that, in order to "love" someone, you must "like" him, his personality as well. and pratigya could NEVER like a guy like krishna, his personality, to begin with. his very rude, UNCIVILIZED behavior, his way of speaking, him being the kind of person who has absolutely NO AMBITIONS, NO GOALS in life, the fact that he is basically a "gunda", all these qualities within krishna, and MORE, is why a girl like pratigya could never like him. and i know EXACTLY how pratigya feels, cause like her, i don't like guys like krishna either. so i'd be HORRIFIED if i was ever forced to marry someone like him. 🤢😭
which brings me to my next point: on top of NOT liking this guy, she was FORCED, callously FORCED, to marry him, BY HIM. i mean, do i even need to repeat what CRAZINESSSSSS, sheer CRAZINESSSSS krishna had pulled in order to marry her...??? i mean, their very first TRUE meeting with each other was like a kind of FORCE. remember when he BARGED into
her ENGAGEMENT, and actually held her hand, and was forcing to DRAG HER OUT with him, in front of her family, her relatives, and her possible sansural's family...???? 😲😲😲 seriously, is THAT the way to act, if you want someone to fall in love with you...??? and then what krishna had done afterwards (and even BEFORE the engagement incident. ie. shooting guns in HOLY PLACE, harassing/distressing prati by calling her)...seriously, need i even ENLIST all the things, cause i would then have to go on FOREVER...long story short: he put this poor girl, and her family through MASSIVE pain and suffering, humiliation, defamation...that she eventually gave in (though she should not have). granted, he may not have been the one who kidnapped her, nor the one to bludgeon nitin up (though he threatened nitin a few times that he would, and even told pratigya he would...!!!), but what krishna HAD done, was MORE THAN ENOUGH, WAYYYYYYYY more than enough, to NOT wanting to marry him.
so you guys tell me, after all the things krishna had done, BEFORE their marriage, all the ZABARDASTI, and TORTURE, how was pratigya gonna bring herself to like him...? how could ANYONE bring themselves to like a person who did the things krishna had done to pratigya...???
THEN, instead of things actually getting better for her, they went WORSE, FAAAR WORSE for pratigya AFTER marriage. apart from being made to live in that JUNGLE, and putting up with his JUNGLEE mother and father, pratigya had to put up with JUNGLEE krishna!!!! i mean, her recent memory of him is, him beating her, in front of HIS family, HER family, after being HUMILIATED and her character being questioned, for something HE DID!!! not to mention, the multiple attempted RAPES, the constant verbal abuse (and threats), physical abuse, and mental abuse...once again, you guys tell me after all such horrible, HORRIBLE things being done to pratigya, how can she bring herself to even "like" him, aur "love" karna toh dur ki baat.
so i hope people understand now...yes, true, krishna probably would treat pratigya a lot better, had she shown some love towards him, but like i have explained so far, why she ISN'T able to bring herself to love him...
peace
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