Why Rid can't leave Sid

So this question seems to be eating a lot of people's brains. I mean Riddhima's oh so handsome Dr. Armaan who she loved so dearly has returned. She has a husband who is not forcing her to stay with him then what is holding her back? 😕 Why can't she just run back to Armaan the guy who lives for her. Does society mean more to her than Armaan? Beside didn't she once say Sid can leave her once her dad gets better, then why not tell Armaan to wait? Why does she want to remain that way?😕 Why does she keep telling Armaan to go away?

Here is why 😃😳
 
Because her beautiful relationship with Armaan was made by her and Armaan. But God put Siddhanth her way and made them pati Patni. That's what makes them a divine, very powerful couple

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAb6c92ZOF0[/YOUTUBE]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAb6c92ZOF0 

Because knowingly unknowingly she started falling for her husband Siddhanth (in a very very very short amount of time, despite the fact he has been very very very mean to her couple of times)

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cc28B_6_xl8[/YOUTUBE]

Because he cares for her in the most adorable manner and sometimes in a angry manner. Because he puts that smile on her face that disappeared a long time ago. And because she finds her husband very cute 😉 ( who wants to leave a man they are attracted to? Also I found it very interesting that without knowing she just said she doesn't need Armaan, she wants to be with Sid. What a wonderful coincidence 😆)

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGgHHdbMi5Y[/YOUTUBE]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGgHHdbMi5Y

Because he is an incredible husband who is very tender and loving to her. And because he makes her feel things inside.. (the song says it all darlings..)

Ek ajnabi sa ehsaas dil ko sataye
shayad yahi to pyaar hai
betabiyon mein dhadkan meri chal paye
shayad yahi to pyaar hai
kutch bhi kaha na
kutch bhi suna na
phir bhi
bechain dil hai humara
behke kadam hai
mushkil main hum hai
dekho
sambhle bhala kaise yaara
chahe bina bhi
nazdeek hum chale aaye
shayad yahi toh pyaar hai

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MXE8WC_R_6w[/YOUTUBE]

Because she has feelings for him. And very serious ones. Look at the way she smiles and caresses his hair, so much affection, so much love. And it is NOT because he is her husband or because he is nice to her. It's because she has feelings for him. How do we know that because she tries to justify it herself. Only a person in denial would deny her feelings for Sid.

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eafWv_Hiw0c[/YOUTUBE]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eafWv_Hiw0c

Because she wants to stay with Sid. 😳 Not because she is married to him, but because she likes him.
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=esAs4yUAm94[/YOUTUBE]


Because Sid gave her a reason to live, and he means a lot to her (something special) and she wanted to start a new happy life with him.

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wA6otlKSVPE[/YOUTUBE]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wA6otlKSVPE

And that is why I am so chilled out when I watch this show no matter what happens. Sid has already made a place in Rids heart. She is tied to Sid, yes through the the powerful divine mangalsutra, but also because he holds a special place in her heart.😉

Ps: Usually posts are written from Sid's pov or Armaan's pov. Being the Riddhima lover I am I wanted to write one from Riddhima's pov. I know usually things are like my opinion vs your opinion. That's why I posted the videos as the base of my opinion.

Feel free to reply or analyze further. 😊




--------- Edited

I also see posts around that claim how Rids will be miserable in a loveless marriage? really? You are sure. What is love? Isn't it attraction, affection, admiration, trust, understanding?

• Riddhima respects Sid
• Riddhima understand's Sid. If I quote her directly she said she understands what Sid is feeling without Sid uttering a word.
• Riddhima cares for Sid.
• Riddhima is friends with Sid.
• Riddhima is attracted to Sid
• Riddhima is affectionate toward Sid.
• Last but not least Riddhima is married to Sid 😃 😃
  

Keeping these in mind I don't think love is impossible between these two. She has only been married to him for few weeks and her feelings are already so strong. It will grow with time. I only imagine how strong their bond will be in 2 years.



Edited by Perfangel5655 - 14 years ago

Edited by xoHarshaxo - 14 years ago

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

What lovely post. i fully agree with you and it was much needed. i just love the bond they share be it gussa,pyar,nafrat,understanding they match perfectly

Originally posted by: xoHarshaxo

Amazing Post 👍🏼

I second that!

And your post gives me an excuse to watch all their videos again! 😆😳

~Cookie
Edited by Cookies01 - 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Cookies01

I second that!

And your post gives me an excuse to watch all their videos again! 😆😳

~Cookie

lol that's exactly what m doing 😳

Originally posted by: Cookies01

I second that!

And your post gives me an excuse to watch all their videos again! 😆😳

~Cookie

Me too, I watched all the videos 😆

Hey Perfangel5655 awesome post, worth reading every single line, but where is "MAT Jao" and "Mat Jaiye"  my personal favs 😍, shows they don't need many words to communicate, this is what I call soulmates 🤗

Originally posted by: monar

Me too, I watched all the videos 😆

Hey Perfangel5655 awesome post, worth reading every single line, but where is "MAT Jao" and "Mat Jaiye"  my personal favs 😍, shows they don't need many words to communicate, this is what I call soulmates 🤗

OH!! do you have the link. I will find it..(maybe tomorrow)

marvelous post👏 i'm missing seen their scene after seen their old one now

superb post!!! good that u posted the proof😆😆😆 u never know..some ppl just come after u with some argument!!! he he he!!! I am already watching all the back to back SIDMA episode already!!! god I'm going crazy now!!! This is a nice answer to all the ppl who said that Ridzy is with Sid coz she's married  and doesnt have feelings for him!!!!😉

lol. I am a Riddhima lover. I am disappointed to see people deny the fact that Rids is dmg's protagonist. The story revolves around her. The story goes where she goes.