Do you think it will serve Jagya right if Anandi gives Shiv a hug in
front of him when he is begging her to take him back and tells Jagya, "I am
very happy with Shiv and will spend my entire life with him, so please leave
the both of us alone." Some women who are on the internet are suggesting
something like that.
That is an urban approach. Anandi belongs to a
rural India. She can't easily do that. Every woman will have a different way of
reacting to a situation. Each to her own.When Anandi told
Shiv that she was feeling bad by telling Jagya that she couldn't forgive him,
he consoles her by saying that the very fact that she is feeling sad for not
forgiving him despite Jagya having treated her cruelly shows that she has a
soft heart. However saying that she forgives him wouldn't have been the right
thing to do either. Some think that it is important to forgive each and every
person who has hurt you (that is important for one's own healing too).
Therefore by that logic it is okay if Anandi forgives Jagya but also firmly
puts it across that this doesn't mean that they will be a couple again (as she
after all shouldn't be used and misused by him again)...
That could be a perspective. However here, Shiv
didn't want Anandi to feel miserable that she couldn't forgive Jagya. He didn't
want her to feel bad about it and explained to her that it was alright if she
couldn't forgive. Forgiveness can't be forced upon a person. A person needs to
be given space and time to do so. Do you think Shiv
is being too good and an understanding person by hearing out Anandi's woes on
dealing with her ex-husband?
No. Shiv is very composed and not insecure of
Jagya. He wants Anandi to be happy and take her time in this relationship.Traditional viewers
want Jagya and Anandi to unite. Liberal viewers think that Jagya doesn't
deserve Anandi anymore and that Shiv and Anandi should be together. What would
you do if a friend was in Anandi's situation and wanted advice? Would you
advise her to be with Shiv or Jagya?
I would advise her to be with Shiv. Ultimately it
is her own decision. There are a lot of emotions going on in her mind. She
knows what is the best for her. I can only give my opinion. We can't know for
sure exactly what is the best for her.You had said in a
previous interview that you have a modern outlook like Shiv...
Yes I do. Shiv is also helping me to be a better
person. He is calm, composed and rational.Was getting Shiv's
role a turning point in your career?
It is too soon to comment, maybe a high point in
my career.How do you and
Quite well.You have an
interest in interior designing. What do you have to say about the Balika Vadhu
They have been done very well to suit the tastes
of the owners of the house.What about the
Indian TV industry would you like to change?
I would like the industry to be more original and
courageous in experimenting.Are you still
single and ready to mingle?
I'm single, not desperate to mingle.Reporter
and Author: Pallavi Bhattacharya
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