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Gauri_3 IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 15 May 2008 at 9:37am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Gauri_3

Originally posted by Believe

Theen chaaar Tajmahal hum bi banana chahata hu ek saaat... Wink ab tak Kismat khuli nahe Confused

...taj mahal tak toh theek hai per tum apni Mumtaz Mahals ko wahan zinda dafnaogey ya marney key baad? am not that much crual ji ek pooor King hu....WinkTonguewoh kya hai na "teen-chaar" dekha toh thoda confusion hua ki sab key marney tak toh tum wait karney waley ho naheenLOLLOL

Main theen chaar mumtaaaz ke saaat rahne ki baat kar rahi dhi.....aap dafnane ki baaat kar rahi hoo....LOL

SholaJoBhadkey IF-Dazzler
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Posted: 15 May 2008 at 9:40am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Believe

Originally posted by Gauri_3

Originally posted by Believe

Theen chaaar Tajmahal hum bi banana chahata hu ek saaat... Wink ab tak Kismat khuli nahe Confused

...taj mahal tak toh theek hai per tum apni Mumtaz Mahals ko wahan zinda dafnaogey ya marney key baad? am not that much crual ji ek pooor King hu....WinkTonguewoh kya hai na "teen-chaar" dekha toh thoda confusion hua ki sab key marney tak toh tum wait karney waley ho naheenLOLLOL

Main theen chaar mumtaaaz ke saaat rahne ki baat kar rahi dhi.....aap dafnane ki baaat kar rahi hoo....LOL

taj mahal marney ke baad banaya jata hai LOL tum ho jo khaney se pehley digestion ki baat kar rahey ho LOL

lighthouse IF-Dazzler
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Posted: 15 May 2008 at 10:02am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Believe

Originally posted by Gauri_3

Originally posted by Believe

Theen chaaar Tajmahal hum bi banana chahata hu ek saaat... Wink ab tak Kismat khuli nahe Confused

...taj mahal tak toh theek hai per tum apni Mumtaz Mahals ko wahan zinda dafnaogey ya marney key baad? am not that much crual ji ek pooor King hu....WinkTonguewoh kya hai na "teen-chaar" dekha toh thoda confusion hua ki sab key marney tak toh tum wait karney waley ho naheenLOLLOL

Main theen chaar mumtaaaz ke saaat rahne ki baat kar rahi dhi.....aap dafnane ki baaat kar rahi hoo....LOL

 Kya baat hain Vinu, aajkal bahut smart baat kar rahe hon. Tongue 

qwertyesque IF-Rockerz
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Posted: 15 May 2008 at 11:21am | IP Logged
what about third and fourth one.. I mean does it include 4 dowries as well ?... I am totally in favor as long as the economic things have been taken care of...to an extent...there is a lot of variety there...

LOL
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Posted: 15 May 2008 at 1:10pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by SholaJoBhadkey

Originally posted by chatbuster


i think these guys need to have their head examined. isnt one wife enuff maintenance that they'd want another, and then another? ek galti toh shayad bhagwan bhee maaf kar denge, par baar baar? Ouch Tongue

to aap se umeed karein, kyonki aap itne samajhdar hain, ki aap ye ghaltee kabhi nahin karengey??? WinkLOL

Yeh bhi karsakte hain agar chance mila..LOL

@Lighthouse: Yes i knoe and dis is really dissapointing 2 c in Pak!!

@lakshmim_84: Trust me in Pak we have the same rules of divorce and all BUT nothing happens.. And even in India my cuzins tell me in the rural scene dis does not happen and the muslim ladies often have to bear sharing thier husband..

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raj5000 Moderator
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Posted: 15 May 2008 at 7:31pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by cool_pooja

In pakistan, it is allowed to do 2, 3 marriages without divorcing ur 1st, 2nd wives.. However u need to have the agreement of ur 1st wife ofcourse dat she is willing 2 live wid dat.. But nowdays, especially in the rural scene, it is very common to see that a man has like 2-3 wives and he keeps one in the village, one in the city and ofcourse he doesnt pay any attention 2 his wife in the village and all.. And since these village women are very poor they can not object, divorce or even leave thier husbands since the education level in women in pakistan is hardly 5%.. Especially in old ages, it is common to see well-off families man marrying again, a new young but poor girl..

What do u feel abt dis?? Is dis fair?? Shudnt the govt take sum action abt dis??

*Im not talking abt western countries, just pakistan and some of the eastern countries*

Why not ? Men are generalized to be untrustworthy / more viable to cheat / perverts and what not...not just in outside world but even in various posts in IF DM. Law makers at time did thier best to make sure all women in an Man's life had right of equality under all proximities, now whats wrong in that?

Don't get me wrong here, as changing times people feel marrying more then one makes no sense, at the same time they should think twice before generalizing Men in non sensible paradigms..time has changed sure..And they say Men are hyprocratic LOLLOL

 

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