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Joined: 27 February 2007
Well...i dunno...i tried i just cant!!!
But i gave her the msg indirectly.
n i suppsoe she got it tho...can see positive changes
but am kinda feelign bad....but m feelign guilty now.
Maybe u shud have left her as she is.
u think she felt bad?i mean i ditn say it on ehr face, ir soemthing
buyt while havin a group conversation..just mention tht it hurts wen someone uses u like
a tissue....n i think maybe she went thru the same thing..
anyways thanx a lt for showign such consideration n replying!
Joined: 27 February 2007
I cant. trust me. eating worms is much easier
It really sounds to that she is no true friend. She is just using you. When she needs a shoulder to cry on, you're the one, but when she wants to hang out and have a good time, there's always someone else. I think that you should not waste your kindness and friendship on someone who has no value for it. It is hard to let go of a best friend though. I personally know it is, but sometimes it is a whole lot better for you. You should not be mean to her though because it is not mature, but you need to be firm and voice your opinion. Have another friend go with you as support if you do not want to confront her by yourself.I have mny toehr very good friends, but i reallyu considered her as my good friend too.
I gave her the message idnriectly.
i think she got it.
i think ill have to really wait to rely on her for soem time now..i noe its difficult
But coem on Zoya u've got to do it..
Thanxma lottttttt for ur advice
really apreciate it
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Joined: 25 March 2008
What seriosuly hurt me was. I considered her as a true friend.
I was there with her when she had a very abd time in 9th std....
I always confided in her all my secrets. And maybe i expected her
to be there for me like i was there for her......
In fact i dnt even mind tht she likes tht guy...n even if i liked him n she liked him...id rather not speak to him....
cause i seriously liked herrrr!!!!!
i feel useless and dumped.....
Anyways thanx a lotttttt .......u guys give great advice
i hope m strng nuff to follow it...
@Meteora: I completely agree! I went through this whole fiasco too! I was completely used and I didn't even realise it till a year later!
I felt veryy used at that moment in time, wherever she used to go, she used to tell her parents that I was going(and I agreed back in the days) too and thats why they would let her go! And when I used to go with her, all she ever used to do was talk and make out with her boyfriendand i was just there staring at the wallslol she would tell me that other friends were gonna be there too, but then she would say 'oh i contacted them, but they could not make it' or some stupid excuse! and this year in german classes I found out that she bitched about me!:O
I hope your scenario turns out like mine. Cos now, although no-one says it to her face, they all HATE her! She is a playa, its hard to say when she is being genuine and when she isn'tindirectly we all sort of let her know about her attitude and stuff! Maybe you should try doing the same, just ignore her a little but dont make it too obviouslike something which you are good at and she isn't, then you should choose her to be your partner!and maybe she might get the hint or she might just say something like 'im gonna look silly in front of you' then say, well thats exactly how u made me feel!
dunno if this will help you, but hope it does! just remember, what goes around comes around!
Yeahh babyy karmaa!
Joined: 04 January 2007
heheh yep i have
lols and no need to feel guilty,
yu did the right thing,
if yu hadnt talked to her, then yu would have been feeling even worse right now,
and yu said that yu see postive changess? well thats good, cuz that means that yur friend is feelin guilty now
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