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Originally posted by chatbuster

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Depends on - whats the purpose ? and who says only angels are flight attendants.It's only atitude that gets Dhanno Bhesiya with extra premium/favorite fodder even tho purpose is to get half liter more milk LOL

Good looking person needs atitude, a person with atitude has no choice but to get more atitude (talent or whatever), having both there need to utilize either based on purpose/aim/target, having neither then Hari Om   Confused

lol. the angelic flight attendants have found better/ more glamorous professions nowadays. there's no need for them to be serving tea and biscuits in the high skies anymore when they can be a glam bahu/ paapun in a serial.LOL

LOL 

Even the non angelic's make it to glam world and later are transformed to overnight angels if at all one keeps watching the soaps day & night lolss BTW - you should check newest additions to kingfisher airlines (hand picked by Mr. Mallaya ) wonder if they ever do more then handing water bottles with paralyzed face (interms of attending to people's genuine needs or an occasional smile not all are drooling for them lolss), but well as I sed if the purpose is to attract ;) people to airlines that might work well but if you are service oriented then they better provide service rest looks/wooks takes a backseat. Have no complains to be served with a heart warming attitude… by a not so angelic attendant in continental airlines. no am not saying because she complimented my watch but felt nice he he he.

as for what guys might want in a jeevan saathi, they certainly dont start out looking for the unattractive ones. almost no one does. Neither are they just watching listings with pics or ignoring other details, if they are god help them, I for one wouldn't like to see anyway hooked up to someone who can just say aabaa daabaa daabaa…   par mil jaati hai that's another story. but those are compromises that the unlucky ones end up making Lolss compromises are required if the so called purpose is unclear… even getting lucky in aspect you mentioned might turn out to be most dreadfull decisions if the other aspect is totally ignored.. now one can try to rationalize that on flimsy grounds, but deep down we know they cldnt get better.Smile or otherway can be like lagoor key haath mey angoor LOLLOL 

 

if u want to make comparisons with a pretty aabaa-dabaa or watever kinda female u have up there, then use exactly the opposite on the other side- a great attitude but ugly female. as pointed out eons ago, let's not cherry-pick. ab batao, ugly female ke peeche kaun padega? yaar, acha attitude hai. phir bhee naheen?WinkLOL

as for your example about kingfisher, u missed the point. most of the pretty ones have moved on. mallya might be trying to revive some of that but even so if the pretty ones get modelling or other offers, do u think they'll be glad to pick a tea-serving role in the skies? meanwhile, yes, yes, we can all find exceptions everywhere. ab ussee sahare points khuredna hai toh boloTongue 

Infact you are missing my point bud… pheley sey bol raha huu…purpose kya hai ? 1. only aabaa dabba baki kuch ho ya noo OR 2. jeevan saathi hai bhai aabaa daaabaa ho ya nahi but baki sab honna chaiye OR 3. baki sab kuch plus aabbaa dabbaa … even I can say same lets not cherry pick Tongue 

Based on first post air hostess and looks were in question, so we mean to say if look walis are moving onto glam then position is open for attitude wali's right…BINGO..  now again purpose changed to modeling field then would lean on looks par waha par bhi without attitude survival mushkil hai…

OK bottom line is both matters…depends on what one is upto ( purpose kya haiWink...am sure u will kick me ek baar aur purpose ka naam liya tohLOLLOL) … but in most cases attitude wins over shear looks…looks might earn someone entry on the stage but to carry it on and be on stage for long…one has to have attitude…

 

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Originally posted by raj5000

Originally posted by chatbuster

Originally posted by raj5000

Originally posted by chatbuster

Originally posted by raj5000

Depends on - whats the purpose ? and who says only angels are flight attendants.It's only atitude that gets Dhanno Bhesiya with extra premium/favorite fodder even tho purpose is to get half liter more milk LOL

Good looking person needs atitude, a person with atitude has no choice but to get more atitude (talent or whatever), having both there need to utilize either based on purpose/aim/target, having neither then Hari Om   Confused

lol. the angelic flight attendants have found better/ more glamorous professions nowadays. there's no need for them to be serving tea and biscuits in the high skies anymore when they can be a glam bahu/ paapun in a serial.LOL

LOL 

Even the non angelic's make it to glam world and later are transformed to overnight angels if at all one keeps watching the soaps day & night lolss BTW - you should check newest additions to kingfisher airlines (hand picked by Mr. Mallaya ) wonder if they ever do more then handing water bottles with paralyzed face (interms of attending to people's genuine needs or an occasional smile not all are drooling for them lolss), but well as I sed if the purpose is to attract ;) people to airlines that might work well but if you are service oriented then they better provide service rest looks/wooks takes a backseat. Have no complains to be served with a heart warming attitude… by a not so angelic attendant in continental airlines. no am not saying because she complimented my watch but felt nice he he he.

as for what guys might want in a jeevan saathi, they certainly dont start out looking for the unattractive ones. almost no one does. Neither are they just watching listings with pics or ignoring other details, if they are god help them, I for one wouldn't like to see anyway hooked up to someone who can just say aabaa daabaa daabaa…   par mil jaati hai that's another story. but those are compromises that the unlucky ones end up making Lolss compromises are required if the so called purpose is unclear… even getting lucky in aspect you mentioned might turn out to be most dreadfull decisions if the other aspect is totally ignored.. now one can try to rationalize that on flimsy grounds, but deep down we know they cldnt get better.Smile or otherway can be like lagoor key haath mey angoor LOLLOL 

 

if u want to make comparisons with a pretty aabaa-dabaa or watever kinda female u have up there, then use exactly the opposite on the other side- a great attitude but ugly female. as pointed out eons ago, let's not cherry-pick. ab batao, ugly female ke peeche kaun padega? yaar, acha attitude hai. phir bhee naheen?WinkLOL

as for your example about kingfisher, u missed the point. most of the pretty ones have moved on. mallya might be trying to revive some of that but even so if the pretty ones get modelling or other offers, do u think they'll be glad to pick a tea-serving role in the skies? meanwhile, yes, yes, we can all find exceptions everywhere. ab ussee sahare points khuredna hai toh boloTongue 

Infact you are missing my point bud… pheley sey bol raha huu…purpose kya hai ? 1. only aabaa dabba baki kuch ho ya noo OR 2. jeevan saathi hai bhai aabaa daaabaa ho ya nahi but baki sab honna chaiye OR 3. baki sab kuch plus aabbaa dabbaa … even I can say same lets not cherry pick Tongue 

Based on first post air hostess and looks were in question, so we mean to say if look walis are moving onto glam then position is open for attitude wali's right…BINGO..  now again purpose changed to modeling field then would lean on looks par waha par bhi without attitude survival mushkil hai…

OK bottom line is both matters…depends on what one is upto ( purpose kya haiWink...am sure u will kick me ek baar aur purpose ka naam liya tohLOLLOL) … but in most cases attitude wins over shear looks…looks might earn someone entry on the stage but to carry it on and be on stage for long…one has to have attitude…

 

Thats not true.. you generally see that since its a world of compromize and people typically settle down for other things since they either dont have the looks or dont get those where they expect...

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Posted: 16 May 2008 at 3:06pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by qwertyesque

Originally posted by raj5000

Originally posted by chatbuster

Originally posted by raj5000

Originally posted by chatbuster

Originally posted by raj5000

Depends on - whats the purpose ? and who says only angels are flight attendants.It's only atitude that gets Dhanno Bhesiya with extra premium/favorite fodder even tho purpose is to get half liter more milk LOL

Good looking person needs atitude, a person with atitude has no choice but to get more atitude (talent or whatever), having both there need to utilize either based on purpose/aim/target, having neither then Hari Om   Confused

lol. the angelic flight attendants have found better/ more glamorous professions nowadays. there's no need for them to be serving tea and biscuits in the high skies anymore when they can be a glam bahu/ paapun in a serial.LOL

LOL 

Even the non angelic's make it to glam world and later are transformed to overnight angels if at all one keeps watching the soaps day & night lolss BTW - you should check newest additions to kingfisher airlines (hand picked by Mr. Mallaya ) wonder if they ever do more then handing water bottles with paralyzed face (interms of attending to people's genuine needs or an occasional smile not all are drooling for them lolss), but well as I sed if the purpose is to attract ;) people to airlines that might work well but if you are service oriented then they better provide service rest looks/wooks takes a backseat. Have no complains to be served with a heart warming attitude… by a not so angelic attendant in continental airlines. no am not saying because she complimented my watch but felt nice he he he.

as for what guys might want in a jeevan saathi, they certainly dont start out looking for the unattractive ones. almost no one does. Neither are they just watching listings with pics or ignoring other details, if they are god help them, I for one wouldn't like to see anyway hooked up to someone who can just say aabaa daabaa daabaa…   par mil jaati hai that's another story. but those are compromises that the unlucky ones end up making Lolss compromises are required if the so called purpose is unclear… even getting lucky in aspect you mentioned might turn out to be most dreadfull decisions if the other aspect is totally ignored.. now one can try to rationalize that on flimsy grounds, but deep down we know they cldnt get better.Smile or otherway can be like lagoor key haath mey angoor LOLLOL 

 

if u want to make comparisons with a pretty aabaa-dabaa or watever kinda female u have up there, then use exactly the opposite on the other side- a great attitude but ugly female. as pointed out eons ago, let's not cherry-pick. ab batao, ugly female ke peeche kaun padega? yaar, acha attitude hai. phir bhee naheen?WinkLOL

as for your example about kingfisher, u missed the point. most of the pretty ones have moved on. mallya might be trying to revive some of that but even so if the pretty ones get modelling or other offers, do u think they'll be glad to pick a tea-serving role in the skies? meanwhile, yes, yes, we can all find exceptions everywhere. ab ussee sahare points khuredna hai toh boloTongue 

Infact you are missing my point bud… pheley sey bol raha huu…purpose kya hai ? 1. only aabaa dabba baki kuch ho ya noo OR 2. jeevan saathi hai bhai aabaa daaabaa ho ya nahi but baki sab honna chaiye OR 3. baki sab kuch plus aabbaa dabbaa … even I can say same lets not cherry pick Tongue 

Based on first post air hostess and looks were in question, so we mean to say if look walis are moving onto glam then position is open for attitude wali's right…BINGO..  now again purpose changed to modeling field then would lean on looks par waha par bhi without attitude survival mushkil hai…

OK bottom line is both matters…depends on what one is upto ( purpose kya haiWink...am sure u will kick me ek baar aur purpose ka naam liya tohLOLLOL) … but in most cases attitude wins over shear looks…looks might earn someone entry on the stage but to carry it on and be on stage for long…one has to have attitude…

 

Thats not true.. you generally see that since its a world of compromize and people typically settle down for other things since they either dont have the looks or dont get those where they expect...

LOLLOL did you even read the whole convo Confused Looks plus atti takes it through not just the looks.. please don't list exceptions here Smile

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Originally posted by raj5000

Infact you are missing my point bud… pheley sey bol raha huu…purpose kya hai ? 1. only aabaa dabba baki kuch ho ya noo OR 2. jeevan saathi hai bhai aabaa daaabaa ho ya nahi but baki sab honna chaiye OR 3. baki sab kuch plus aabbaa dabbaa … even I can say same lets not cherry pick Tongue 

Based on first post air hostess and looks were in question, so we mean to say if look walis are moving onto glam then position is open for attitude wali's right…BINGO..  now again purpose changed to modeling field then would lean on looks par waha par bhi without attitude survival mushkil hai…

OK bottom line is both matters…depends on what one is upto ( purpose kya haiWink...am sure u will kick me ek baar aur purpose ka naam liya tohLOLLOL) … but in most cases attitude wins over shear looks…looks might earn someone entry on the stage but to carry it on and be on stage for long…one has to have attitude…

 

yaar, we all know that there are a lot of situations/ events in life where other factors far outweigh looks. for example, when someone is sick, they are basically looking for a competent doctor. those are fields in which probably just the talent counts, although all else equal even there the good-looking ones are reported to be generally more successful. all else equal, people reportedly prefer the good looking doc or nurse. and these are fields in which talent is key! then too, i am not sure we wld want a doctor with an attitude. of course talent, but attitude?WinkLOL

when we switch to the "soft" side of life where talent is not as paramount, looks are likely to be even more important... looks first. things come after that. dont have looks, dont even make the cut-off where u can be considered. dont look good, the picture is immediately discarded...

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Originally posted by chatbuster

Originally posted by raj5000

Infact you are missing my point bud… pheley sey bol raha huu…purpose kya hai ? 1. only aabaa dabba baki kuch ho ya noo OR 2. jeevan saathi hai bhai aabaa daaabaa ho ya nahi but baki sab honna chaiye OR 3. baki sab kuch plus aabbaa dabbaa … even I can say same lets not cherry pick Tongue 

Based on first post air hostess and looks were in question, so we mean to say if look walis are moving onto glam then position is open for attitude wali's right…BINGO..  now again purpose changed to modeling field then would lean on looks par waha par bhi without attitude survival mushkil hai…

OK bottom line is both matters…depends on what one is upto ( purpose kya haiWink...am sure u will kick me ek baar aur purpose ka naam liya tohLOLLOL) … but in most cases attitude wins over shear looks…looks might earn someone entry on the stage but to carry it on and be on stage for long…one has to have attitude…

 

yaar, we all know that there are a lot of situations/ events in life where other factors far outweigh looks. for example, when someone is sick, they are basically looking for a competent doctor. those are fields in which probably just the talent counts, although all else equal even there the good-looking ones are reported to be generally more successful. all else equal, people reportedly prefer the good looking doc or nurse. and these are fields in which talent is key! then too, i am not sure we wld want a doctor with an attitude. of course talent, but attitude?WinkLOL

Are we mixing attitude and talent here...Blame on original post for kichdi pakao's of words attitude and talent...I mean what they mean literally.. I am pursuing "attitude" over here with essence of talent...

when we switch to the "soft" side of life where talent is not as paramount, looks are likely to be even more important... looks first. things come after that. dont have looks, dont even make the cut-off where u can be considered. dont look good, the picture is immediately discarded...

In fields u mentioned that might be true for some...but whats the use...IMO the long lasting charateristics is more imp... lolss LOL reminds me off this nationwide adv.. no offy meant http://youtube.com/watch?v=Lh9NPCRv65k&feature=related



Edited by raj5000 - 16 May 2008 at 3:24pm
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