This content was originally posted by: qwertyesque
looks cant be compensated by attitude.. unless the person turns blind .....๐
I feel they could be. Were you not saying you like Nana Patekar. Surely you don't like him for his looks now...do you? If you do then beauty does lie in the eye of beholder๐ btw, he and manoj bajpai are one of my favorite actors as well๐
Again you are missing attitude as I have differentiated above...
I think I got what you meant but I don't think the thread starter has that attitude in mind...I may be wrong though. I felt she was asking about the attitude as in
"a complex mental state involving beliefs and feelings and values and dispositions to act in certain ways; "he had the attitude that work was fun" "
where as you are talking about the attitude as in that extra zing used to create the effect....may be as in:
"a theatrical pose created for effect; "the actor struck just the right attitude" "๐
I may be wrong but this is what I got and I was talking about the first bullet wala atitude here๐ณ.
true but the attitude associated with looks is not the same associated with being friendly, congenial or successful....๐
...agreed but how does it help in the long run?
If looks fade or the looks are deformed generally that person will no longer have this criteria.. the point is these definitions dont define a life time - but the current scenario..
I see where our different povs are coming from. I was talking from the pov of long term relationships not the crushes or pehli nazar ka pyaar kind as the example provided was of a ladki dekhna for bhai ki shadi๐. Of course, I agree that crushes are mostly based on physical attraction or drool factor๐.
if a girl who looks veri stunning is after all her success is seen to be a guy who had had transgender operation...Does teh beauty reduce no but does it mean continue to apply the same criteria - no since mostly these criteria dont take into account operations, other artificial things.. its supposed to be the inherent req.. So beauty lies in the eyes... doesnt apply here.. its more a reason for how odd looking couples are seen moving around.. its a post mortem and not a deduction...๐
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true.. but the thing is looks will give an attitude.. which is important...
...again, we are talking about different attitude here as illustrated above. You are referring to hot chick with an attitude๐ I am talking about jo tumhara apni seerat sey dil jeet ley wala attitude๐.
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