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raunaq

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Posted: 05 May 2008 at 1:35am | IP Logged

recently there was a news about the father who raped his own daughter and had kids, for more information, please read the article: http://www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/europe/05/04/austria. usually people who are abusive have history of being abused. therefore, should the person get treatment for it and then forgiven? whats the solution?



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Posted: 05 May 2008 at 2:03am | IP Logged
Originally posted by raunaq

usually people who are abusive have history of being abused. therefore, should the person get treatment for it and then forgiven? whats the solution?

I like your suggestion, I'm totally with you on this one. Give him some choicest 'special' treatment over a period of time and when it's over forgive him by saying 'May his soul rest in peace'.Tongue

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Posted: 05 May 2008 at 12:02pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by raunaq

recently there was a news about the father who raped his own daughter and had kids, for more information, please read the article: http://www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/europe/05/04/austria. usually people who are abusive have history of being abused. therefore, should the person get treatment for it and then forgiven? whats the solution?

 yeah sure...let's forgive and forget..Ouch  who needs to worry about the victim/daughter who was kept in a dungeon and have never seen light of the day in her entire life. Angry

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Posted: 06 May 2008 at 3:15am | IP Logged
Originally posted by lighthouse

Originally posted by raunaq

recently there was a news about the father who raped his own daughter and had kids, for more information, please read the article: http://www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/europe/05/04/austria. usually people who are abusive have history of being abused. therefore, should the person get treatment for it and then forgiven? whats the solution?

 yeah sure...let's forgive and forget..Ouch  who needs to worry about the victim/daughter who was kept in a dungeon and have never seen light of the day in her entire life. Angry

AgreeBig smile

Forgive him/her once.....but dont forget the forgive....Embarrassed

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Posted: 07 May 2008 at 11:17pm | IP Logged

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I personally don't think he should be forgiven. That is too big of a crime.. he should be put in a dungeon himself and never get to come outside. Dead

yes he should except that there should be "bigger" prisoners in there with him... someone like the prison guard should "accidently" blurt out his crime and then lets see what those guys do to him Wink 

personally i  say kill the beast but that would be such an easy way out for him...

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Posted: 07 May 2008 at 11:48pm | IP Logged
Rape is a serious crime and rape of minors is even more heinous. There is no question of forgiveness in this situation. It will take immense strength & courage for the victim to move on and enjoy a happy future, but this is a trauma that is impossible to forget. When the victim actually can forget the abuse of the past, then let us consider the possibility of forgiving. Even if the abuser can get cured and live a normal future, the crime simply cannot be erased...nor should the guilt.

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