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Adopted Children and thier parents..

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Posted: 03 May 2008 at 5:50am | IP Logged

In our modern age, many people do adopt children and really do love dem.. But many at times the child does not know that he/she is adopted.. How do u think the child will feel wen he/she finds oud? Do u think the child shud love his parents more since dey have loved him as his/her real parents sacrficing thier own selves? Or do u feel the parents should tell the truth to the child pehle hi?? And the real parents... What should the child think abt them??

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Posted: 03 May 2008 at 11:28pm | IP Logged
hey nice topic, had a dicussion about it with my mother many time, will come back and post my views later!
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Posted: 04 May 2008 at 10:11am | IP Logged
that is a very tricky question.. i think it all depends on the child.. how mature they r and would they be able to cope with it.. personally, if i was adopted i would want to know who my real parents r so i feel they should be told like from the beginning.. or whenever the parents feel the child is ready..
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Posted: 05 May 2008 at 10:28pm | IP Logged
Great topic Smile Puja..
According to me..a parent..shouldn't tell..the child tht he/she is adopted..cuz..u donno..how will..he/she..feel..That person may feel rejected..or he/she may feel happy..regarding the fact tht..his/her adopted parents..luv the child so much...
If u tell..the truth..to the child..den..I think the parent..will..be taking a very big risk..so I think..it's better..nt to tell the adopted..child Smile
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Posted: 06 May 2008 at 7:55am | IP Logged
Finally im replying 2 my own topic!! LOL

Now dis is a really senstive topic.. First of all if the child is of mature age maybe his adopted parents should tell him bec its better dat dey tell him den him knowing from somewhere else..The child will feel shocked, broken down but in the end he should realize how much he means to his adopted parents and whether they are his step parents or real parents dey are his "parents" and dat is what is imp.. As for as his real parents, i feel the parents who brought the child up shud be more imp in the life of the child bec they grew him up, dey took care of him and loved him and they are his "parents".
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Posted: 06 May 2008 at 8:04am | IP Logged
well if the child does find out, he mgith feel shcoked,
but if their parents seriosuly lvoe em, they mgith feel lucky, tht someone luves em so much..
i think it will make a difference!
but once u find out ur not their own, wheneva u hurt em
or they do soemthing nice for u... or sumthin like tht...l
u will feel guilty and might even feel like a bhoj to em...
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Posted: 16 May 2008 at 1:42am | IP Logged
It depends on child to child, how mature they are and how they are brought up by there adoped parents. I think the parents should tell the children when they think the child can handle it, they defo should not hid it from there children.
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