There is a beautiful and convincing explanation given by the Chinese.....
Thumb represents your Parents
Second (Index) finger represents your Siblings
Middle finger represents your-Self
Fourth (Ring) finger represents your Life Partner
& the Last (Little) finger represents your children
Firstly, open your palms (face to face), bend the middle fingers and
hold them together - back to back Secondly, open and hold the remaining
three fingers and the thumb - tip to tip.
Now, try to separate your thumbs (representing the
parents)..., they will open, because your parents are not destined to
live with you lifelong, and have to leave you sooner or later.
join your thumbs as before and separate your Index fingers
(representing siblings)...., they will also open, because your brothers
and sisters will have their own families and will have to lead their
own separate lives.
Now join the Index fingers and separate
your Little fingers (representing your children)...., they will open
too, because the children also will get married and settle down on
their own some day.
Finally, join your Little fingers, and try to separate your Ring fingers (representing your spouse).
will be surprised to see that you just CANNOT....., because Husband
& Wife have to remain together all their lives - through thick and
Please try this out......... ISN'T THIS A LOVELY THEORY?